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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

If I convert to Islam, or become a Mormon, can I have a harem of male wives?  I think Islam would allow me at least four, and Mormonism pretty much says "as many as I can afford."  I'll just scribble out the parts about what genitalia the "husbands" and "wives" have to have.

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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

Hi everyone and Happy Holidays, and a Happy New Year to all!

Tammyjo: Eeck! I need to send you a check. If you glance at my journal for the last few weeks, you'll see I was 'under the weather' in a big way, and dropped a few balls while trying to recover. I'll be sending you a check in the next couple of days, ok?

I've backed off of all the emailing, meeting etc for a little while due to my recent health issues.

Thanks to my friends and subs in the cm community for being here for me through this trying time. You've made my life more fun and I've been able to rest up and be served at the same time. I am feeling better and more tests have been ordered.

My best to you and your's!
Irish

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ORIGINAL: aidan
Would w-...er, they, have to wear veils and such?

(Black is my color, now that I think of it...)

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

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ORIGINAL: aidan
Would w-...er, they, have to wear veils and such?

(Black is my color, now that I think of it...)

Lol...honey, covering a face like yours would be a crime.  I would be lynched. 

Besides, I'm thinking of going with an Asian/sci-fi theme with my harem.  I like the way men look in a hakama.   

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ORIGINAL: aidan

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

If I convert to Islam, or become a Mormon, can I have a harem of male wives? I think Islam would allow me at least four, and Mormonism pretty much says "as many as I can afford." I'll just scribble out the parts about what genitalia the "husbands" and "wives" have to have.

Would w-...er, they, have to wear veils and such?

(Black is my color, now that I think of it...)

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo


Illnesses have been nasty around where I am this fall. My cough ended up lasting 42 days and it took 30 days of meds and then meds to deal with their side effects (I'm sure some of you ladies know the type of side effects that some antibiotics can cause us).

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo


Illnesses have been nasty around where I am this fall. My cough ended up lasting 42 days and it took 30 days of meds and then meds to deal with their side effects (I'm sure some of you ladies know the type of side effects that some antibiotics can cause us).

Just an FYI if you make sure to have some yogurt (acidopholus bacterium enriched) while on an antibiotic it will help to avoid that almost completely. 1 8 oz cup a day while on the antibiotic is usually enough.

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Ok ... this fell all the way to page 4 - where is everyone?

I'm working on moving on from the boy we were talking to ... there are a few boys out there who seem to be pretty good and I've been chatting with them.  I need to check and see how they feel about male wives, but I also need to figure out what Holly is up to.  Apparently she wants to be the one staying home now *shrugs* whatever she wants.  Maybe I can find one to work from home so they can both be home ....

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ORIGINAL: loverGoddess

Hmm, I wonder if you could consider my sub my "Wife". I cook because I enjoy it...he does most of the cleaning and organizing. He spoils me rotten, takes care of me when I am sick. Lots of stuff like that. But even in our very unconventional relationship, I consider him to be my husband [well, almost]. He was my best friend and fiance before he was my sub. This makes me think. Thanks.

Lucky you!

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

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ORIGINAL: loverGoddess

Hmm, I wonder if you could consider my sub my "Wife". I cook because I enjoy it...he does most of the cleaning and organizing. He spoils me rotten, takes care of me when I am sick. Lots of stuff like that. But even in our very unconventional relationship, I consider him to be my husband [well, almost]. He was my best friend and fiance before he was my sub. This makes me think. Thanks.

He sounds like a wonder wife!
Every couple is going to be different, but he sounds like a
male wife too me.
Lucky you!

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ORIGINAL: MzStripes

The idea in itself is rather appealing. I'm curious of others, if I may ask, would the "wife" be a cuckold or is a sexual relationship included? I lean more towards a cuck. Does anyone here have such a situation? If so, I'd love having a chance to share issues/ideas.

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ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb
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Over the course of the past posts, the male-wife concept was discussed.  The recap was…

…either a state-sanctioned marriage or a more informal union, perhaps with a BDSM ceremony featuring the male wearing the wedding gown, or perhaps BOTH principals were wearing gowns!! [it was unclear to me whether or not the gowns were to be matching or not].

You are so funny!  Matching gowns, indeed!  LOL  I dunno if I agree this is a 'twue wecap', afly...  Several of us seem to perfectly adore the idea of a male wife...whose quite male.  Personally, were I to marry such a man, he'd not be wearing gurlie cloths in 'public'...if he wore them at all, it would be for our own personal pleasure.

…the male-wife will be the primary provider of domestic services, with the possible exception of cooking, depending on his skills and/or the culinary bent of the Domina.  These duties may be performed in normal casual dress or in any assortment of outfits starting with panties and up to a full maid’s uniform.

OMG... that is just sooooo yummie.  Yes, all that and take care of the darn paperwork, too.  I'll just sign the checks, thank you very much.  Still, probably most of the time 'my wife' would be in jeans and a button-up shirt.  We can save 'dress-up', if he's into that...for special occasions.  Just my take on things at MY home...

…the male-wife will probably work outside the home, as many female wives do these days, in addition to domestic duties. There may be rare cases where the Domina is a work-a-holic, and prefers having a full-time housewife.

The other consideration here is...financial slavery.  I'm just not into it.  While we'd both probably work, and he'd pay his fair share; by and large his money would be his own.  When ya consider 50% of relationships fail...I just don't want to make money on one that did.  Yanno?  I know some guys think they want this; but ever hear such a guy talk about being happy to be back on the streets....broke? 

It’s an interesting concept.  I’ve noticed that several Dominas have added the “male wife” idea to their profiles.

My question is: has this thread in any way affected anyone else’s thinking about the relationship dynamic they have, or seek to have, and if so, how?  

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

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ORIGINAL: AFlyInYourWeb
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Over the course of the past posts, the male-wife concept was discussed.  The recap was…

…either a state-sanctioned marriage or a more informal union, perhaps with a BDSM ceremony featuring the male wearing the wedding gown, or perhaps BOTH principals were wearing gowns!! [it was unclear to me whether or not the gowns were to be matching or not].

You are so funny!  Matching gowns, indeed!  LOL  I dunno if I agree this is a 'twue wecap', afly...  Several of us seem to perfectly adore the idea of a male wife...whose quite male.  Personally, were I to marry such a man, he'd not be wearing gurlie cloths in 'public'...if he wore them at all, it would be for our own personal pleasure.

…the male-wife will be the primary provider of domestic services, with the possible exception of cooking, depending on his skills and/or the culinary bent of the Domina.  These duties may be performed in normal casual dress or in any assortment of outfits starting with panties and up to a full maid’s uniform.

OMG... that is just sooooo yummie.  Yes, all that and take care of the darn paperwork, too.  I'll just sign the checks, thank you very much.  Still, probably most of the time 'my wife' would be in jeans and a button-up shirt.  We can save 'dress-up', if he's into that...for special occasions.  Just my take on things at MY home...

…the male-wife will probably work outside the home, as many female wives do these days, in addition to domestic duties. There may be rare cases where the Domina is a work-a-holic, and prefers having a full-time housewife.

The other consideration here is...financial slavery.  I'm just not into it.  While we'd both probably work, and he'd pay his fair share; by and large his money would be his own.  When ya consider 50% of relationships fail...I just don't want to make money on one that did.  Yanno?  I know some guys think they want this; but ever hear such a guy talk about being happy to be back on the streets....broke? 

It’s an interesting concept.  I’ve noticed that several Dominas have added the “male wife” idea to their profiles.

My question is: has this thread in any way affected anyone else’s thinking about the relationship dynamic they have, or seek to have, and if so, how?  

afly, I really like how you think.  Actually, yes, this thread (and some others like it) are what made me consider a 'male wife'.  Still, the concept is so varried and so personal, really, that exactly what it entails depends on the two involved.  I would not like a timid, fawning male.....but there are many here who would.  I'd prefer a male wife who was quick on his feet, could determine what I needed and make it so; who adored me, and pampered me...but who also liked it that I adored and pampered him (if sometimes with a flogger!  WEG) 
 
Viva la Difference, huh?
MsB