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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/8/2008 9:10:14 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I   haven't any need for someone to keep the house clean while I work!  Not when there's another person to earn money to make life easier. 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/9/2008 6:28:37 AM   
MichelleScd


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Status: offline 		As a submissive crossdresser I would love to be someone's wife.  June Cleaver is one of my idols  I am a very good cook.  I already clean the house, do the wash and ironing, buy groceries, etc.  I would love to be the wife who met her mate when she came home from work with her favorite drink, a wonderful dinner, and whatever else she needed to relax. 
 
If I needed to work outside the home I could provide maid service for some of her friends.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/9/2008 8:27:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Who said it did?  It's been explained that this is just another phrase for it - one that we happen to like.


Fair enough then - which is what I was asking. It just did not seem to tie in with the "Does anyone else ..." since I would think that for dominant women a submissive or slave husband would be a common desire, just as the reverse is true for dominant men desiring a submissive or slave wife. Therefore I wanted to confirm my understanding of what was being discussed.

Six.



It actually has been stated a couple of times in this thread - and, as Hibiscus pointed out, not all Dommes want that type of relationship. 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/9/2008 2:45:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Common, not ubiquitous. That's what I said.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/9/2008 5:54:42 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		But honestly, it's not really all that common - some don't want the emotional attachment that would go along with being a male wife (or sub husband - whichever phrase you prefer) ... some don't want them to do the housework ... the only common thing is that we all want what we want.  It appears to be common if you look at the posts here, but if you check the personals side ... you'd swear that less than 1/4 of us actually want this (based on all the "you aren't even allowed to look at me, worm" profiles there are out there).

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 3/9/2008 6:19:51 PM   
SixFootMaster


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Status: offline 		Hmm, true enough. I guess I preemptively selected the UoD of only people interested in a spouse at all.

Thank-ee.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 2:44:24 AM   
slvetobe


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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

My husband is my "wife." He's known in the community as either Beach's toyboy or (my favorite) Mr. Beach. Our relationship resembles a typical 1950's marriage with me as the husband role. My sweet "wife" does all the cleaning, cooking, drink fetching, back rubbing, laundry, household tasks and such. (Wife doesn't imply feminizing as we do not ever femme my boy. It implies the caretaker role.) The main difference between him and a 50's housewife (besides the penis and dress) is that he has a job outside the home and I, the husband role, do not.

In our household, D/s is carried into everyday life, and my husband defers to me in all things. As with any 1950's "wife," this doesn't mean he doesn't have a voice. It means mine is the final one. I am the voice of authority and the final word on all things. We do not do "submissive in the bedroom" role play. We are Domme and sub and live as such. That doesn't mean he has to kiss my feet or crawl around the house. It means his attitude is always one of servitude and submission.

I highly recommend the male "wife" mode of living.

This explains everything.  When I was married I was the wife of the vanilla marriage.  Did not take on her name but did all the duties of a wife..  Even though we are divorced now I still do things for her to this day.  Not because I have to but because I want to.  God I miss those days.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 5:06:46 AM   
selena123


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Status: offline 		MzMia and Akasha,  pretty much since I was a teenager I have wanted what I then called a "house husband". Do you remember the movie Mr Mom with Micheal Keaton? I want my slave Petie to stay home and do all housework  especially cooking. I want to be the breadwinner. He is fine with this idea as well. Our problem is that he makes soo much more than I do. It will be hard for him to give up his money as he is accustomed to finer things than I am. Meanwhile I continue to search for the job that will provide me enough for us both. I think having him home when I get there is so so wonderful. He cooks for me naked in the kitchen and I can't get enough of him. Good luck to you other Dommes in your search for a wife.
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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 1:35:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TermsConditions

And the possible origin of the term: "he best of Craigslist: I want a Male Wife." http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sfo/16346869.html
 



Thanks for the link.  I can see why it made "Best of Craigs List": well-written with a dash a dry wit. 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 3:45:35 PM   
jeffman1234


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Status: offline 		On one hand I am surprised that with so many male subs, most don't have a 'male wife'. On the other hand with so many of them who say that is what they want and are no shows I am not. I guess I fit the roll of the 'wife' but have looked at it as live in housekeeper/ cook with a part time job.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 9:19:05 PM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: jeffman1234

On one hand I am surprised that with so many male subs, most don't have a 'male wife'. On the other hand with so many of them who say that is what they want and are no shows I am not. I guess I fit the roll of the 'wife' but have looked at it as live in housekeeper/ cook with a part time job.


Humm I have been on CollarMe almost 4 years, let's make a pie chart {just for fun}.
Cucks,Sissies, Sissy Maids, Crossdressers, AB, FootFetish, Men with fetish checklists/wishlists, bottoms and Do Me bottoms-50%
Masochists, slaves, submissives, switches, and men that are here for a variety of reasons-47%
Total 97%
Percent of men that really want to be male wives?
3% at the most, that really,really seek to live this way.
 
Are you surprised at the percentage? Do you know how hard the average wife works?
Femdomme Art by Mistress Elise Sutton  you have to keep those wives under control!
 

< Message edited by MzMia -- 4/14/2008 10:05:01 PM >

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/14/2008 10:15:10 PM   
Misstoyou


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Status: offline 		Wow. Alex Chapmon, the artist that drew that art was on CM at one time (he and I corresponded), and he certainly wasn't Mistress Elise Sutton.

http://www.bitchytoons.com/Main.html

< Message edited by Misstoyou -- 4/14/2008 10:21:15 PM >

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/15/2008 2:01:00 PM   
SoCalGoddessIsis


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Status: offline 		My male slave of many years has been trained to work  full time as a professional and earn the $$ needed for me to live a very comfortable life.....he gets up earily each morning and fixs my tea and breakfast, emptys the dishwasher in which he had filled the night before. In addition he does all the lanudry and hand washes my panties, cleans the cat litter box at night before going to bed, again in the morning and when he comes home after working on the job. I keep him in chasity 24/7 in the CB6000, the new version and he wears panties everyday under his work clothes and I have had his nipples periced and I have a gold chain with a link that on one side is written "slave" and on the other side "Property of Mistress Isis" as another reminder of his status. I have my dinner prepaired by him at night and he sits at my feet until I give him permission to eat his dinner..... on weekends he cooks all meals and cleans the house & dishes. I enjoy having him use his mouth and fingers as often as I desire sexual pleasure. When I am in the mood I use the cock I own for my pleasure and then lock it up again. At night after dinner he massages my feet and if I desire gives me full body massages on demand. I make all the decisions and he obeys me without question. I keep him in chastity to keep his sexual desire high and his worship of  his Goddess always on his mind. I use the cane, nipple clamps, flogging, bondage, and my strapon to keep him in sub space or to correct bad behavior.
I would never accept another life style.......
I don't look at him as my wife.....he is my slave and his goal in life is to please me in every way
he possibly can, his place is at my feet.
This gives me the time and freedom to persue my many interest ,
Isis

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/15/2008 3:03:47 PM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

Wow. Alex Chapmon, the artist that drew that art was on CM at one time (he and I corresponded), and he certainly wasn't Mistress Elise Sutton.

http://www.bitchytoons.com/Main.html


Thanks for sharing, I hope Elise is not taking full credit for it, maybe she paid him.
Thanks for sharing, I LOVE the toons, I am saving to my favorite places, NOW!!!

Thanks for sharing your success story SoCalGoddessIsis, he sounds well trained and loyal.
I hope to be in your shoes, in a similar situation with a well trained "submissive" wife in due time, my pretty.  After reading how he works AND takes care of you and the home, hell call him wife, slave, submissive, anything you want.  I would call him fucking, WONDERFUL!!!!!
Thanks for sharing, and giving me a couple of ideas GoddessIsis!


< Message edited by MzMia -- 4/15/2008 3:11:32 PM >

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/15/2008 9:00:30 PM   
reeducated


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Status: offline 		Call me an opportunist, but i want a Female Husband who can "bring home the bacon"...

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/16/2008 6:35:02 AM   
hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: SoCalGoddessIsis

My male slave of many years has been trained to work  full time as a professional and earn the $$ needed for me to live a very comfortable life.....he gets up earily each morning and fixs my tea and breakfast, emptys the dishwasher in which he had filled the night before. In addition he does all the lanudry and hand washes my panties, cleans the cat litter box at night before going to bed, again in the morning and when he comes home after working on the job. I keep him in chasity 24/7 in the CB6000, the new version and he wears panties everyday under his work clothes and I have had his nipples periced and I have a gold chain with a link that on one side is written "slave" and on the other side "Property of Mistress Isis" as another reminder of his status. I have my dinner prepaired by him at night and he sits at my feet until I give him permission to eat his dinner..... on weekends he cooks all meals and cleans the house & dishes. I enjoy having him use his mouth and fingers as often as I desire sexual pleasure. When I am in the mood I use the cock I own for my pleasure and then lock it up again. At night after dinner he massages my feet and if I desire gives me full body massages on demand. I make all the decisions and he obeys me without question. I keep him in chastity to keep his sexual desire high and his worship of  his Goddess always on his mind. I use the cane, nipple clamps, flogging, bondage, and my strapon to keep him in sub space or to correct bad behavior.
I would never accept another life style.......
I don't look at him as my wife.....he is my slave and his goal in life is to please me in every way
he possibly can, his place is at my feet.
This gives me the time and freedom to persue my many interest ,
Isis


He sounds like a very lucky guy!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/16/2008 7:30:02 AM   
Subby2Train


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Status: offline 		I have am very new to the lifestyle and the idea of me being a male wife is very attractive.  I am recently divorced, and although i am not fully ready for a full 24/7 relationship yet, I could see myself working towards a role like a male wife.  I work in the Information Technology feild so working from home is a real possiblity for me.
I would consider myself lucky if the opportunity like a male wife presented itself, I may just have to do more reading on this. 

Great topic everyone, thanks.   

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/16/2008 5:52:47 PM   
midgetmafiosa


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ORIGINAL: SoCalGoddessIsis

My male slave of many years has been trained to work  full time as a professional and earn the $$ needed for me to live a very comfortable life.....he gets up earily each morning and fixs my tea and breakfast, emptys the dishwasher in which he had filled the night before. In addition he does all the lanudry and hand washes my panties, cleans the cat litter box at night before going to bed, again in the morning and when he comes home after working on the job. I keep him in chasity 24/7 in the CB6000, the new version and he wears panties everyday under his work clothes and I have had his nipples periced and I have a gold chain with a link that on one side is written "slave" and on the other side "Property of Mistress Isis" as another reminder of his status. I have my dinner prepaired by him at night and he sits at my feet until I give him permission to eat his dinner..... on weekends he cooks all meals and cleans the house & dishes. I enjoy having him use his mouth and fingers as often as I desire sexual pleasure. When I am in the mood I use the cock I own for my pleasure and then lock it up again. At night after dinner he massages my feet and if I desire gives me full body massages on demand. I make all the decisions and he obeys me without question. I keep him in chastity to keep his sexual desire high and his worship of  his Goddess always on his mind. I use the cane, nipple clamps, flogging, bondage, and my strapon to keep him in sub space or to correct bad behavior.
I would never accept another life style.......
I don't look at him as my wife.....he is my slave and his goal in life is to please me in every way
he possibly can, his place is at my feet.
This gives me the time and freedom to persue my many interest ,
Isis

that's a very nice fantasy. anyone else smell bullshit?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/16/2008 7:54:25 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Humm, not sure if her story is true, but I don't know if I believe half of
what people write around here, so why pick on her?

If its not true, it makes a lovely fantasy. 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 4/16/2008 7:57:55 PM   
midgetmafiosa


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Status: offline 		MzMia - it was very detailed. a very nice fantasy, indeed.

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