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is it possible - 4/13/2007 11:37:51 AM   
2servemymaster


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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 11:46:31 AM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		There is obviously a reason why you were released. So probably the only way to go back to a former Master is to fix thre reason for which you were dismissed in the first place.

Realize once released the chances of going back are usually pretty slim.

My question would be if you were released why do you want to go back. Why not move forward?

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 11:47:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		IN my case NO for if I have released you slave its for a very good reason and I wouldn't take you back...bounty

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 11:52:20 AM   
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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 11:58:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		possible yes. probably no. If I release a slave it will be for a good reason and I won't allow her to come back unless exceptional circumstances.

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 12:00:41 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		It depends on the people involved, the reason for the release, and the reason for the return.  My Master takes release as seriously as he takes ownership, so gone is gone in his book.  He would not release unless he was certain of the decision.

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 12:01:13 PM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Hello 2servemymaster,

I understand how hard it is to be released from the person you most revere and love. 

I suppose anything is possible, but he has to want that.

Think of it this way... when he owned you, and he gave you a direct order, would you obey him or would you try to finagle your own way instead?  It was his final order to you that you go.  If you love and respect him, you must  respect even this hardest of commands.

Trust me, it hurts, and it hurts in places that will haunt you for a long time.  Respect his orders and respect yourself.

Good luck.

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 12:11:32 PM   
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It was his final order to you that you go.


That's the way I see it.  Even with my ex-husband, who was vanilla, there was never any question of me having to be told twice. 


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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 12:50:28 PM   
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As for how it would work in my world... I'm of the same mind as most of the others who have replied. If I release someone... there is no going back. I don't make rash decisions. I would have fully explored things (I'm very anal about details) before I made such a final decision.

Besides... I just don't like do-overs


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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 2:09:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		No I do not beleave so.. its like trust once its been bent it will NEVER fully heal

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 3:38:41 PM   
MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: 2servemymaster

Is there a way to get back to serving a Master once he has released you?
Yes, you just rejoin the site under a new screen name and start to flaunt your-cyber-self in front of him. Oh, and always start a new letter or statement to him with "looking at you with adoring eyes".

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 3:40:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		All depends on the personality of your former Master, and the reasons you were released. For me, gone is gone for good.

I would never consider releasing someone unless there was a very serious reason. If it comes to that, it is serious enough that I can't imagine allowing her to come back. One can never say never, so there could be extraordinary circumstances where I might change my mind.

But this is all really besides the point. If this is what you want, you shouldn't be looking for answers on this site, but from your former Master.

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 3:48:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: 2servemymaster

Is there a way to get back to serving a Master once he has released you?


Firstly....is this a hypothetical question or were you actually released? Second question would be, if so..why?

Me personally...I have never taken back one once released. I sort of agree with Kinypupper....it's a trust thing. Once the trust is broken....it would be very hard to gain it back. I wouldn't say it's out of the question though.

You would have to talk with the master, find out the reason for the release, or if you know..see if there is something you can do to come back into good terms and regain your status.

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 4:01:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		It truly depends on your Master.  Sir took me back; but he released me because he couldn't give me the attention I decided I needed.  I then decided I didn't need quite so much, and things have been going swimmingly. 

Good luck! 

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 4:26:01 PM   
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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 5:03:18 PM   
SumterDom


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Status: offline 		I don't recall the source of this tidbit, but your question reminds me of something I read along time ago...and it always stuck with me..

If those in a relationship split and go their separate ways, it was usually for a reason.
If they get back together without "the reason" having been handled then at some point the couple will arrive back at the issue that caused the split.
Almost always the result will be the same since the issue wasn't handled previously.

Do you know "the reason"? If so have you handled it? Was it even yours to handle? Maybe it was the doms. If so has he handled it?

Regardless, if it's not been handled to completion, you wouldn't want to be there again.
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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 5:08:46 PM   
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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 5:59:41 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		I took a submissive back not once, but twice. Both times, the reason for release had been dealt with. Both times, taking her back was a mistake. What it boiled down to was that the two "reasons" were not two, they were the same, and that underlying issue meant that we would always be incompatible.

I had a houseboy serve me for about 5 months. He has asked to be taken back twice, and I was willing to consider it, but both times he chickened out. The reason was something within him and he has never come to terms with it fully. Having asked and then chickened out twice, he won't have another opportunity.

I would not consider some of my ex-relationships due to how the breakup went or the reason for the breakup. But I would say it depends entirely upon why you were released (did you initiate it, or did he, or was it mutual?) and the kind of person the Master in question is.

Good luck

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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 7:12:08 PM   
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RE: is it possible - 4/13/2007 7:19:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		If he did take you back, would you ever be able to trust him again in a way that would allow you to flourish within his rein?

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