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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:09:28 PM

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someone who knows what they're talking about, complete with all the jargon and buzz words
men who obviously adore their children
a good ole mr. fix it
musicians
someone who is able to express his thoughts clearly without taking a stab at someone else, and he used good grammar

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:10:51 PM

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Hearing Yes Maam with a southern or british accent.
hearing yes mommy with a certain breathy southern accent (though this is VERY specific)

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:13:53 PM

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:18:44 PM

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Yes accents they can be saying the most mundane thing but ohh yeah accents! Also a woman in a sleep tumbled manshirt even if they have clothes on underneath. Veiny wrists don't ask me why espcially if there is some liquid dripping acrossed or from them. And in somone gives you the eye of death through bed head makes me giggle but gets the heart rate up.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:38:58 PM

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the eyes. A certian look that i cant pin point that some men just shoot from their eyes.. and its not a purposeful one... its just.. this look.. feel.. that comes from them.... its ... its...

dunno... dont see it too often when i look around at guys... but when i see it..... i zoom in on the guy.

the way they move... the type of jawline they have.. the broadness of their shoulders.. the strength in their upper arms....

Watching men.. scanning the crowd... looking around.. and you spot some one.. that has a decent body shape... your eyes travel up their body taking in everything and finally you look into their eyes.... Its a 5 second conversation........ and you know excatly......

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:55:36 PM

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One thing that has always done it for me, and could be its own fetish if I ever gave it enough time to resonate on its own, is whispering. I love hearing a woman whisper. Don't even know why. But I always find it so hot. That's why when I finally go crazy and start hearing voices (other than the ones that I already hear), I really hope it's a woman whispering that I keep hearing. I'll be happy for life as they lock me away in the rubber room. Come to think of it, maybe the rubber room is all I need. Hmm, gotta rethink that one.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 11:02:56 PM

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The way his hair looks in the sun (his hair is an awesome shade of gray that is really silver, I do not think I have ever told him that).

Easy hot morning sex really gets me going, the feel of his chest when I cuddle to him before the alarm goes off.

When he makes me laugh... which is all the time.

I am so very blessed... thanks for this thread Akasha, it made me smile on my way to bed... and I really appreciate that.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 11:21:11 PM

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The sound of His oh so southern accent just drives me crazy. When separated by the miles between us, there is nothing better than laying on the couch with all the lights off and just listening to His voice on the phone.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 11:22:29 PM

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One thing that has always done it for me, and could be its own fetish if I ever gave it enough time to resonate on its own, is whispering. I love hearing a woman whisper. Don't even know why. But I always find it so hot. That's why when I finally go crazy and start hearing voices (other than the ones that I already hear), I really hope it's a woman whispering that I keep hearing. I'll be happy for life as they lock me away in the rubber room. Come to think of it, maybe the rubber room is all I need. Hmm, gotta rethink that one.

there was an phone playmate i had that could not become firm unless whispered too so i can see that.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 11:30:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

One thing that has always done it for me, and could be its own fetish if I ever gave it enough time to resonate on its own, is whispering. I love hearing a woman whisper. Don't even know why. But I always find it so hot. That's why when I finally go crazy and start hearing voices (other than the ones that I already hear), I really hope it's a woman whispering that I keep hearing. I'll be happy for life as they lock me away in the rubber room. Come to think of it, maybe the rubber room is all I need. Hmm, gotta rethink that one.

there was an phone playmate i had that could not become firm unless whispered too so i can see that.

Now I just gotta find someone like your friend found to call me and all will be okay.

If only it were that easy.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 4:01:30 AM

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1) Niceness and sincerity get me really, really HOT.

At the risk of sounding mudane, someone I am into (or even just a good male friend) calling me, just because they "are concerned, and want to see how I am doing" (if they had some reason to possibly wonder), can practically make me need to take a cold shower. Consideration and caring makes me swoon.

Not that I can't take care of myself (I do, and most of the time, just fine. Nor am I a "stalker" type of female, or ultra-lonely).

But still, if I've had a hard time about something, and someone has really, really "been there" for me, and tried to help me, I never do seem to be able to forget that - even if I don't see or hear from them for months.

It is just something that whenever I think about it, makes me just totally melt.

I just sometimes wish men weren't so darned "emotionally independent"
Because I'd like a chance to reciprocate, and I would do that (I have, on occasion, too. And not that I wish anyone hard times, I don't), but - whether Dominant or submissive, as a lot, some are just too "together" to let me do that for them, it seems - the bastards!

2) Hugging really can get me off, too (am I boring, or what?)

3) **Someone who notices something quirky and unique about me, that I never thought they noticed, and then when I get together with them, they say they find that endearing about me - or else they've brought me some little token gift, because it reminded them of that part of me.

That just makes me feel like they really noticed my individuality, and care about the real, true me.

4) **Someone who has some knowledge base about some really obscure area, or else something I know almost nothing about - but that they know all about - for some reason, that really turns me on, as long as they aren't arrogant about it. I am not sure why, I just like that.

5) **Someone who will touch me spontaneously, even if I don't know them well (but it's clear I like them, or that we like eachther) and not be all embarrassed or seemingly hesitant about it. Especially if it's really a gentle or small move - like touching or taking my hand, or touching my hair.

6) Intense eyes. Especially if I catch them looking at me, unexpectedly - and especially if they dont' stare, but also don't look away right away.

- Susan

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 4:29:06 AM

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Being forced to wear woman's clothes and "go out". The thrill of "being a woman" makes me squirm and ooze in my panties!!

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 4:41:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

things that turn me on
~ a guy with a Brit accent

What IS it about our accents?

Hmmmm.... What "catches my attention" is dark black female skin, long straight hair and women in skirt suits and all not necessarily in the same package. Kissing is an act that turns me on no end!

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:13:20 AM

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So many things! - And the long list may be too boring.

Actually, when he sings - huge weak at the knees and total loss of any restrain for me.

Not good when we are in the car and the CD is playing...

Deepest is the heartbeat. Either when just resting a hand on his breast bone to feel it, or to listen to when at rest.

Incredible. Beautiful. And I just give in.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:19:17 AM

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I love it when I am listening to, or watching them, and they don't know I am doing it - and they do something insignificant, like clear their throat, or hum a song, or talk to their pet dog or cat.

That sometimes makes me want to run into or across the room, and just hug them (or sometimes, just toss them on the floor, and jump their bones right then).

I probably sound psycho (but I swear I'm not). But if I am really into someone, then little things they do, can really get me going.

- Susan

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:26:04 AM

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When he's wearing a dress shirt, I get turned on... a lot. I don't know why... I just get really whipped up over button down shirts on him. He has lots of them. O.o

When he's carrying around his aluminum briefcase and I know that there isn't paperwork and computer stuff in it (think 'toy bag'). Actually, since he's used it as a toy bag, it doesn't matter if I know that's what it's being used for at the moment... I get worked up whenever I see him with it now.

White cotton. Yes. Oh my, yes. Neither of us has much of leather fetish at all... but we both love white cotton... usually on me. I'd love to see him in a crisp, white shirt someday. I'd probably fall down a lot.

When he simply rests his hand(s) on me... I don't know why, but this often makes me ache.

Getting dressed in something I know is going to make him hot.

Being naked when he's not is, quite a turn on... humiliating... but still a turn on.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:35:23 AM

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Nothing wrong with being a psycho susan - if its controlled and welcomed by someone.

I have refered to myself as a stalker, simply because I felt as that is what I was. Not in an unwanted way - but if I had not been persistant and just given up, then who knows where I would be today.

I agree - I love the watching and listening - the way he simply flutters and rolls his eyes when he is concentrating or even a little apprehensive. That I find completely wonderful - I suppose it is a voyeurism of sorts. And the light clicking in the back of the throat when thoughtful. Reading this thread, I even remebered the other week, showering and listening to him playing guitar and how much that just made me melt.

It was beautiful.

Peace and Rapture

(oh and my spelling and typing sucks today again)

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:51:45 AM

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I agree (and thank you). Someone I am into just is really "huggable" to me, most of the time (well, actually much more than "just" huggable...I know you know what I mean, darkinshadows. I can tend to get obsessed, but in a good way. So far, nobody's called the police, hehe.

- Susan

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 6:00:59 AM

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Greetings everyone;

Freud was my uncle (big horny grin)...So just about the majority of things get me turned on...

It's all in the mind..just about any object I see, I can think of a use for it.

But one thing that sends me sailing is hearing someone's breath pattern changing because of arousal.

makes me a gonner

Always,
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Hey, Curious.. you must be hella fun in the grocery store, then, huh? LOL!

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 6:03:37 AM

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This has got to be a fault of mine.
I LOVE a tie on a man.
Magnificient.
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