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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 6:10:43 AM

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There's a certain time in the evening when the Mister is in comfy clothes, on the recliner, all relaxed and loosened up. The stress has melted away from his face. He looks over at me and grins at something I said. Instant arousal.

I tend to get unbelieveably turned on when men let down their guard. Emotional intimacy is just damn hot, no matter what they look like.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 8:06:43 AM

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Words.

I am a writer, and if someone has an impressive vocabulary... it is just possible for me to melt with desire.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 9:00:24 AM

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1) Reserved speech (quietness).

2) Athletic socks

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 9:22:18 AM

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Words.

I am a writer, and if someone has an impressive vocabulary... it is just possible for me to melt with desire.

Agreed. A masterful turn-of-phrase will get me panting a little. Same if a woman talks about gaming or other nerdy activities. I've gotta be in the right mood, though.

Manual labor. Cutting wood, clearing brush, hauling stuff. When I get done I have a very strong sexual charge.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 9:36:37 AM

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A nicely shaped ass in a pair of blue jeans that fit just right.
A man in a pair of reading glasses in general and then specifically when they tilt their head slightly down and look at you over the top of them... yummm

There are other things but I can't think of them right now.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 9:41:58 AM

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Non kinky turn ons...
Not sure if Sir's leather biker jacket counts or not.
Someone's good scent. Some people wear scents that don't suit them, but when someone finds a scent that smells 200% better than in the bottle on their body and wears it consistently, it's a turn on for me. Sir's is Lagerfeld. Sir really likes me in a perfume we found at Hot Topic, but it was only sold for something like 6 months and now we can't find it anymore. ~grrr~

Men's shoulders and upper arms. Especially when they are gripping tightly and the muscles are taut and outlined.

Lips on the jawline...mine or someone else's.
Feathersoft touches to my upper arms.

Intelligent conversation and playing with words. Some of Sir and my's first conversations consisted of things like this "onomotopoeia is a good word"/"oooh, I like soliloquy"/"piquant"...etc. ~s~

A peek into someone's more hidden side - silliness, or romantic, or what have you.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 9:58:04 AM

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I love the feel of a strong back on a man.......he doesnt have to be a big man......just have a really good back
i love to watch a man shave, i sit and giggle at the goofy faces they make trying to get everything just so
i truly love bald men or mohawks...*instant wiggles*
and when i wake up in the morning and he is holding my hand......and whispers "good morning baby"
*sigh*

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 1:08:33 PM

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Playful giggles send me into orbit!

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 1:52:50 PM

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Realism in priority-without stuffiness over it.
The realization that not all is black and white-there is a third side.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 1:54:31 PM

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I forgot about Daddy's arms... just the site of them makes me more than a little warm.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 1:56:08 PM

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As I sit here on week two or three, I can't remember, of doctor suggested "rest," I get hornier and hornier and welcome the oncoming "domfit" that will result from not grabbing a paddle or strapping on a harness. At least I can sit back and enjoy some femdom-directed self bondage and claim it helps keep me pleasantly distracted.

The last few days I'm reminded of a lot of "little things" that have been big turn ons for me, even though none of them have much to do about sex OR bdsm. I find these things to be suggestive (of what, I don't know, they just get me going), erotic (even though they aren't, in and of themselves, sexual) and intense. I'm curious to see if other people have non sexual things that build a similar list.

For whatever reasons, seeing a guy who I am attracted to with these things often puts me in a "mood":

1. Wet hair (I LOVE to pull hair)
2. Long eyelashes (again, if they are wet, too, I'm toast)
3. Heavy breathing (whether nervous, winded from physical activity or sex)
4. Physically restrained, pinned or held by the arms by another man

That's my short list. There are whole lot more that have to go with things I can feel/taste, but those are just the visual ones. Anyone else similiarly crazy-wired?

Akasha

I just have one very basic question;....How the living FUCK do you wet your eyelashes????

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 2:05:11 PM

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Big noses.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 2:10:31 PM

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Arrogance....................

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 2:23:20 PM

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I just have one very basic question;....How the living FUCK do you wet your eyelashes????

Tears? In the shower? After swimming? By licking them with your own tongue......mmmm, there's a thought............
slave luci

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 2:28:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
The last few days I'm reminded of a lot of "little things" that have been big turn ons for me, even though none of them have much to do about sex OR bdsm. I find these things to be suggestive (of what, I don't know, they just get me going), erotic (even though they aren't, in and of themselves, sexual) and intense. I'm curious to see if other people have non sexual things that build a similar list.
Akasha

i love to see a girl's hair bleached white with those black roots showing....mmmm, so trailer-park chic, so hot ........slave luci

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 2:59:50 PM

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A nice round bum in a pair of fitted leather pants, male or female.. very hot and pleasant eye candy.

a soft wiff of cologne ( not sufficating-but just a passing hint) especially Donna Karen on a man or Liz Clairborne or Angel on a woman

a genuine smile

long, well kept hair on a man... very yummy

body peircing is an eye catcher as well, not the -I-am-going-to-set-off-a-metal-detector with the amount of metal but enough to be unique

denika

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 3:02:55 PM

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mmmmmm 1 out of 5.... was going to say 2 but.. it's more an evil grin than a genuine smile

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 3:09:01 PM

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i wear angel cologne! yummmmmmy!
i love to have a man sit and watch me cook him dinner.......showing him my efficiancy and ease in the kitchen while getting him another glass of wine or more appetizers........i just love being a hostess i guess

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 3:54:53 PM

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mmmmmm 1 out of 5.... was going to say 2 but.. it's more an evil grin than a genuine smile

But an evil grin for you is genuine.

. and you always smell nice *s*.. Four wonderful words : leather button fly pants......

oops sorry darn drool on the keyboard

denika

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/15/2007 5:19:29 PM

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I'm turned on by women who care enough to know the difference between liberals and neo-liberalism lol! ; }

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