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minnetar -> RE: How far would you go? (4/15/2007 4:10:26 PM)

Distance would not be an issue for me for the right Master.

minnetar



NakedGirlScout -> RE: How far would you go? (4/15/2007 4:14:39 PM)

juxmeeh, yes it worked out much better than we had expected. He loves it here, and can't imagine he didn't leave Texas sooner. We've been married just over a year and very happy together!

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ORIGINAL: juxmeeh

Okay, follow up question for those that have moved far... did it work out? If not do you regret it?



leakylee -> RE: How far would you go? (4/15/2007 5:01:33 PM)

this is something i didnt worry about for the four years i lived in PA. now that i am back in FL, back around my family, friends and (odd as it sounds) heritage. i think i would have a hard problem leaving the tristate area. maybe as going high up as NS, but that is really pushing it. i like being within driving distance of home.

i hadnt really thought about it much.

love and light
lee



juxmeeh -> RE: How far would you go? (4/15/2007 11:15:49 PM)

Thanks everyone for the responses. I love being able to get everyone elses perspective :)



greeneyes1962 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 12:02:51 AM)

I never intended to be in a LDR. I met Master almost 2 years ago, when i was going to NYC for another purpose. Then, I travelled to NYC again just 4 months later, and met with Master again. That second time, I fell in love with him.

However, i wouldn't have travelled accross country initially to meet anyone, for i wasn't looking for a relationship at the time, it just happened. July 29th, 2005 was the best day of my life to this point.[:D]



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 12:18:58 AM)

For the right person, to the ends of the earth...



spanklette -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 12:20:07 AM)

I moved from New Orleans to Washington State...best move I ever made, considering where I'm from.[:D] We've been living together for over two years now, and although we both stated at the beginning of the relationship that marriage and UM's were hard limits...well, He's just "warned" me that He plans on proposing and we do plan on starting a family...so, things have worked out and we've grown together over the course of the two years.
 
One thing that, in my opinion, helped was that neither of us was new to the scene. We had both had D/s relationships before (r/t) so when we met o/l it just didn't seem like that big of a deal. We used the time when distance separated us to talk about anything and everything. But, after my first visit, I knew I couldn't go back to o/l for any significant amount of time...so, I moved.
 
I wouldn't change the way things have turned out for anything in the world. This has been the most intense/beautiful/painful/loving/understanding relationship I've ever been in. [:)]



Twicehappy2x -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 4:41:36 AM)

I flew over 2000 miles to get here. If the person is right you go where you must.



StellaByStarlite -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 4:53:16 AM)

Hello. =)

There'd be no way I would be able to maintain an LDR, much less relocate 'cross country. This area, for better or worse, is my home. It's in my blood. And I would never uproot my Ums from their school and father, either.

Sometimes soulful, sentimental attachments to a place are stronger then what a potential relationship might offer. Luckily, I'm very happily married to a local man, and we will very likely grow old and die here.

Confessed rootbound,
S





















sambamanslilgirl -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 7:01:01 AM)

distance isn't an issue with me. though Daddy lives hundreds of miles away on the east coast, i feel very close to him every day the more we stay in communication. He knows i long for another face to face meeting and will be patient for the right time for His return. in the meanwhile, i have other "interests" and bands keeping me busy while i wait. 



wildtigress27 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 7:13:58 AM)

I have a wonderful relationship with a Dom who moved cross country a couple years ago. Because of the distance between us and things going on in our lives, our relationship has evolved into a very close friendship at this point. Right now relocating is not an option for me, but down the road if things could be worked out for us to get back together, i would be more than willing to move out to be with him. Not only have we always had a very special D/s relationship, but we are compatible in so many ways that i truly feel we were made for each other. Something that special is rare and hard to find.



liljoy -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 9:13:20 AM)

1218.94 miles i wasn't looking for another LDR didn't want one. i was so very impressed with Him though that i needed to get to know Him better. The more i knew about Him the more i grew to love Him. i'll be moving in July to join Him



Unrepentant1 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 1:18:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

For the right person, to the ends of the earth...



I agree completely. Finding the right Domme is my priority, all other bridges can be crossed.



sleazybutterfly -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 1:52:25 PM)

I have went pretty far, and now only 4 hrs from where I lived.  I never had a problem with distance, it was just finding the right one for me.  Now that I am here though, and miss my family and friends....I don't think I would have been happy far enough away I couldn't drive there once in a while if I felt like it.  Sometimes these 4 hrs, feel like days.



Stranger1 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 2:11:03 PM)

It's not really about  how far you would go.

It's about how well equipped you are to STAY there.



littleone35 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 4:07:27 PM)

I applaud all of you who have made LDR's work because i know i could not handle it.  How do you handle waithing for his touch to see him?

Matt's littleone



littlesarbonn -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 4:27:30 PM)

Before I give an answer, can someone tell me approximately how many miles away Angelina Jolie lives?



gypsygrl -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 5:09:39 PM)

I'm at a funny time in my life.  I have no ties to where I am.  When I get things settled with my ums, I'll be looking for a job, and will be most likely be moving but don't know where. Given this, limiting myself to locals seems kind of arbitrary.

Pragmatically, I think a days drive is about as far as I'd consider viable.  But, that's just a rule of thumb.

Whenever I get involved in a cyber crush with someone in an impossible place, I think of Lyle Lovett's "Highway kind" especially the last stanza:

You're the only one I want
I've never heard your name
Let's hope we meet someday
If we don't it's all the same
And I'll meet the ones between us
And be thinking about you
And all the places I have seen
And why you were not there



amiciaN -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 6:16:54 PM)

He is coming roughly 4500 miles... again.  [:D]



Rayne58 -> RE: How far would you go? (4/16/2007 6:23:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: juxmeeh

Okay, follow up question for those that have moved far... did it work out? If not do you regret it?


I moved from New Zealand to Sydney Australia just over 3 years ago, we got married in December last year [:)] Best move I ever made! [:D]



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