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RE: Penis length - 4/4/2008 10:16:36 AM

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What's alarming is that I'm sure you mean this seriously.

What's alarming is that you have no idea why it should be meant seriously.

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RE: Penis length - 4/6/2008 8:36:52 AM

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I am unsure how i can deal with my "shortcomings".I could make a wish but i dont think anything will happen....
I have been cuckolded in the past but more of a tradional sense of the word......Do you think some lean to that interest because of their size or should i state lack of?

sydneypig,

Yes, from my experience, I do.

I've spoken to a lot men who fantasize heavily about cuckolding. It's often where the Female forces him into the arrangement. Usually he is her slave and is always sexually involved in the mix. However, based on my experience, a lot of the men actually living a cuckoldry life have initiated such arrangement. And most are bi/bi curious. Though most partake in the action in some fashion, I have met and spoken to some who get off more from observing and stroking alone.

I also know a number of D/s couples who partake in cuckoldry because they say his 4-inch sore spot is undesirable and unacceptable. Further they say if a man is robbed of having a monster dick, a 7 incher or even a 6 incher, and he happens to have a Mistress, all is not lost; she would make use of his wort and turn it into something quite useful, entertaining and fulfilling for them both.

When you say you've been a cuck in the 'conventional sense', do you mean you were denied interaction?

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RE: Penis length - 4/6/2008 10:57:58 AM

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What will you consider a satisfied length of penis?

It depends on what I'm using it for.

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RE: Penis length - 4/6/2008 2:06:16 PM

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somehow I knew this subbect would bring out a few. Well as some say its not the size but use is behind the wheel. I am very happy with my 7 but at the end of the day , different penis for different people. I know how the Dommes always want them and that is not easy sometimes as onee would think.

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RE: Penis length - 4/6/2008 2:32:35 PM

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From the plain ol' intercourse standpoint, middle of the road length (5-7 inches), whether thick or thin is generally fun to play with. My fisting partners have told me that I have a long cervix, so that some positions for intercourse with gents of longer length can be uncomfortable if he gets vigorous...unless I'm thoroughly aroused, in which case you'll get some happy bull-moose bellows instead of my usual mezzo screams. But I've learned that it's partly how warmed up I am that makes it fun or not; get me going with a good long fisting, and I'll come at the drop of a flogger...and I'll drop the flogger. Yes, every vagina is differently sized.

What I mostly find is that the many options of WIITWD make for much hotter, lasting, and sexy interactions. Like, an hour to a scene or more. And that news item last week about "sex lasting 7 to 13 minutes" seems just plain pitiful from that perspective.

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RE: Penis length - 4/6/2008 11:25:42 PM

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I was cuckold in the sense of my girlfriend who was living with me at the time was having sex outside of our relationship.I was not involved at any level, i did not encourage this and had no interest in the cuckold fantasy at the time.Although i did know she was having sex ,i never raised the issue or questioned her.I did not know if my size was a contributing factor or not.I am suprised you said size was a factor in cuckold fantasies for these males as i posted a thread not long a go "penis size and kink"in which size was not seen as a factor in certain fantasies for the majority of men.....even though i suspect your opinion is correct in cuckolding.

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 6:53:21 AM

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Penis size means nothing to me because I'm going to chastise his penis regardless of size.

A good slave focuses on serving you, not his penis.

You sound like my Ma'am, I'm quite thick and 7 inches, it doesn't stop her keeping me locked in chastity 24/7 and humiliating me about it

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 8:25:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly

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ORIGINAL: sydneypig

Mistress Dolly
I am unsure how i can deal with my "shortcomings".I could make a wish but i dont think anything will happen....
I have been cuckolded in the past but more of a tradional sense of the word......Do you think some lean to that interest because of their size or should i state lack of?

sydneypig,

Yes, from my experience, I do.

I've spoken to a lot men who fantasize heavily about cuckolding. It's often where the Female forces him into the arrangement. Usually he is her slave and is always sexually involved in the mix. However, based on my experience, a lot of the men actually living a cuckoldry life have initiated such arrangement. And most are bi/bi curious. Though most partake in the action in some fashion, I have met and spoken to some who get off more from observing and stroking alone.

I also know a number of D/s couples who partake in cuckoldry because they say his 4-inch sore spot is undesirable and unacceptable. Further they say if a man is robbed of having a monster dick, a 7 incher or even a 6 incher, and he happens to have a Mistress, all is not lost; she would make use of his wort and turn it into something quite useful, entertaining and fulfilling for them both.

When you say you've been a cuck in the 'conventional sense', do you mean you were denied interaction?

As someone who is underendowed (4 & thin) and has been in a cuckold relationship the fact that I was underendowed was only part of the catalyst for cuckolding. While it certainly was a factor and an endless source of humilation by Her, the fact that I am just plain pathetic when it comes to traditional intercourse and have a very submissive nature had more to do with it. With that said I only have to repeat this quote by my ex "When it comes to giving oral and taking anal.. your a pornstar!".

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 8:31:57 PM

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As someone who is underendowed (4 & thin) and has been in a cuckold relationship the fact that I was underendowed was only part of the catalyst for cuckolding. While it certainly was a factor and an endless source of humilation by Her, the fact that I am just plain pathetic when it comes to traditional intercourse and have a very submissive nature had more to do with it. With that said I only have to repeat this quote by my ex "When it comes to giving oral and taking anal.. your a pornstar!".

Being a bad lover is rather easily remedied, there really is no excuse to not be able to be at least adequate in bed. Honestly, all it takes is a little patience (don't jump to the deed and the rest really is a simple exercise in trial and error.

If you've got a little dick, act like it and start over-compensating with your oral skills.

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 8:46:40 PM

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Honestly, as a little girl, I've always stood by the adage "there's only so much usable dick, and the rest gets left in the cold."

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:02:24 PM

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Easily remedied.. tell that to all the women that have tried to remedy it and they would probably slay you where you stand. Ok.. so maybe not that dramatic.. but they certainly would disagree. Also, for the record, I am an excellent lover I am just not very good with traditional intercourse is all.

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:06:59 PM

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Honestly, as a little girl, I've always stood by the adage "there's only so much usable dick, and the rest gets left in the cold."

That is officially the best line in this thread!

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:25:51 PM

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Honestly, as a little girl, I've always stood by the adage "there's only so much usable dick, and the rest gets left in the cold."

It doesn't make any difference to me if it gets left in the cold.

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:31:56 PM

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The lil cage they go in gets quite cold... but as long as someone I am in a relationship is happy, pleased, and still in love with me. Does it really matter?

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:36:00 PM

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Easily remedied.. tell that to all the women that have tried to remedy it and they would probably slay you where you stand. Ok.. so maybe not that dramatic.. but they certainly would disagree. Also, for the record, I am an excellent lover I am just not very good with traditional intercourse is all.

The facts hold, it doesn't take a long or thick penis or great stamina to satisfy a woman in bed. Most women don't even climax with ordinary vaginal intercourse. You need to learn how to use your fingers, your tongue and your mind. From my own experience, it's actually rather instinctual; work until you feel muscle clench or hear appreciative noise or breathing and continue in that direction. Mix it up some and you can have a woman riding towards a climax and back under your will, just remember that you'll probably not be forgiven if you keep pushing her to the edge and back without ever throwing her over.

In the end, if your cock isn't doing the job, you have a fingers and a tongue. There is not excuse for being a bad lover.

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:49:46 PM

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The facts hold, it doesn't take a long or thick penis or great stamina to satisfy a woman in bed. Most women don't even climax with ordinary vaginal intercourse. You need to learn how to use your fingers, your tongue and your mind. From my own experience, it's actually rather instinctual; work until you feel muscle clench or hear appreciative noise or breathing and continue in that direction. Mix it up some and you can have a woman riding towards a climax and back under your will, just remember that you'll probably not be forgiven if you keep pushing her to the edge and back without ever throwing her over.

In the end, if your cock isn't doing the job, you have a fingers and a tongue. There is not excuse for being a bad lover.

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There is a big difference between being a bad lover and not good at traditional intercourse. Just take it for the fact it is.. No instructions from you (who doesnt have the same issues I have) will change what more than a couple women have made long term commited efforts tried to change and still couldn't. Also, you act like this is something that should be fixed in the first place. I am perfectly happy being the way I am and it suits my submissive nature. Why try to change what I am and am comfortable with? What if I really am happy the way I am? Who are you to try to fix what really isnt broken? Do you pull the wings off of butterflys who don't become Monarchs as well?

P.S. Wow.. wasn't that an overly dramatic and probably uncalled for response to his post?

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RE: Penis length - 4/7/2008 9:55:39 PM

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For me, passion and intensity go a lot further than dick size. I mean, yeah, a large rock-hard erection feels very good inside, but it's not the most important thing.

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RE: Penis length - 11/28/2008 11:14:20 PM

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I have a large penis and I will love to be a sub to a woman that likes them big.

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RE: Penis length - 11/29/2008 2:24:05 AM

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As long as it is big enough to fit under the sole of my left boot, it's enough, LadyLove

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RE: Penis length - 11/29/2008 4:29:10 AM

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I have a large penis and I will love to be a sub to a woman that likes them big.

I was wondering why this thread gotted dragged back to the top...and now I find out it's an advertisement for a big dick. Go figure.

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