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Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:05:09 PM   
servilecat


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i'm just sure Y/you've never, ever heard this one before.....

i can't get rid of a stalker. i've mentioned him before on posts. my motto has always been, i can deal with nasty or mean people but i can't deal with crazy people. This one is definitely disturbed.

Daddy and i celebrated our 14 month anniversary yesterday. i have not seen this freak stalker in 1 1/2 years and yet the entire time he has called me, emailed me and calls and hangs up. It's at the point now where i'm sure he prays Daddy doesnt answer the phone. When he calls i just hand Daddy the phone and of course he won't talk to my Daddy...there is also a foot distance between them so the freaky little stalker should be scared.

We live in Springfield and thank goodness he lives in the St Louis area far away from me now.  Unfortunately he is on Collarme and Yahoo so it's hard to get away from him.  i have him blocked as much as i can but somehow he still breaks through the Yahoo ignore.  i have not seen this man in 1 1/2 years and even then we dated for about a week. In a weeks time i realized he was not only not a Dominant but very unstable. How do i get him to get on with his pathetic little life and leave me alone?
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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:08:02 PM   
mixielicous


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Status: offline 		we had a stalker who would send us photos with the orange light on [uh, this light only went on during scenes] & from intimate invite only parties, and we would get nasty notes along the lines of "i have seen what you do to that slut of yours" and "i want your keike money" etc etc. we took down all pics together and made everything private, as far as webpages etc. then we both moved. that solved that problem.

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:11:48 PM   
gooddogbenji


Posts: 5094
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From: Toronto
Status: offline 		I know a guy..........

Yours,


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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:12:14 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Got any large, muscular friends that can pay him a visit and explain to him that you aren't interested?

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:13:11 PM   
servilecat


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Status: offline 		It took me a while to remember how to block people and i hate seeing his name anywhere on my collarme, even under blocked people.  Really, after 18 months?  that's just not a sane person.  i think he's in politics too......go figure

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:14:45 PM   
minnetar


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Status: offline 		Have you considered changing your phone number?  Also change your names on yahoo and collarme and make the profiles read different. 

minnetar

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:17:51 PM   
subfever


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quote:

ORIGINAL: servilecat
i think he's in politics too......go figure


I'm shocked, and outraged! ...

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:19:56 PM   
NakedGirlScout


Posts: 370
Joined: 1/10/2006
From: Toronto
Status: offline 		I've gotten rid of all stalkers so far by pretending to be hard of hearing. Apparently this disturbed them enough to make me not worth their time.

"Hello? I can barely hear you... what? Who's this? Wait, let me turn the volume up. What?? Hello? This is who... Rakesh? I don't know any Rakesh. Do you have the wrong number? Hello?!" etc. etc.

For email, I simply do not reply to them.

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:24:26 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		dont reply to him on yahoo.  What I do, let him message you once, and minimze the window. once you do that, he may as wel not exist becasue it will just rack up his comments but never pen up again.  Warn him if he ever actualy threatens you face to face you wont hesitate to have a restrining order put on him. that helps

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:28:41 PM   
jayded34


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quote:

ORIGINAL: servilecat


i'm just sure Y/you've never, ever heard this one before.....

i can't get rid of a stalker. i've mentioned him before on posts. my motto has always been, i can deal with nasty or mean people but i can't deal with crazy people. This one is definitely disturbed.

Daddy and i celebrated our 14 month anniversary yesterday. i have not seen this freak stalker in 1 1/2 years and yet the entire time he has called me, emailed me and calls and hangs up. It's at the point now where i'm sure he prays Daddy doesnt answer the phone. When he calls i just hand Daddy the phone and of course he won't talk to my Daddy...there is also a foot distance between them so the freaky little stalker should be scared.

We live in Springfield and thank goodness he lives in the St Louis area far away from me now.  Unfortunately he is on Collarme and Yahoo so it's hard to get away from him.  i have him blocked as much as i can but somehow he still breaks through the Yahoo ignore.  i have not seen this man in 1 1/2 years and even then we dated for about a week. In a weeks time i realized he was not only not a Dominant but very unstable. How do i get him to get on with his pathetic little life and leave me alone?


great i live in the St.Louis area.........

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 3:55:29 PM   
servilecat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jayded34


great i live in the St.Louis area.........


jayded34,
i have no doubt you have already been contacted by him.  Want to take him off my hands for me?   pleeeease?   You'll know him..he's about 5'5" .

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 6:56:50 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		It's against the law th threaten anyone over the internet - if he does go to the police and press charges - they can track him by his isp.  Best way to stop a stalker is to ignore them. 

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 7:24:30 PM   
gooddogbenji


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From: Toronto
Status: offline 		A:  Do you want to go to the police and make your internet choices known?

B:  Anyone with more than 3.7 brain cells can change their IP address, essentially making them untrackable, at least with the means the police are willing to spend on an online stalker.

Yours,


benji

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/26/2007 8:12:46 PM   
servilecat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

A:  Do you want to go to the police and make your internet choices known?

B:  Anyone with more than 3.7 brain cells can change their IP address, essentially making them untrackable, at least with the means the police are willing to spend on an online stalker.

Yours,


benji


benji,
i don't care what the police know about me....besides i have lots of family in the law enforcement and they know i'm freaky.  The question really is, why is a person i dated for one week over a year ago so insane?  and...how do i get rid of him.  i am just greatful he is only online now and hope it stays that way.   He really needs to get over his Napolean complex and he needs to move on and stop doing this to women and to himself.  i have chosen to keep blocking him and ignore him and pray for the rest of the women in the St Louis area.

Thanks E/everyone

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/27/2007 6:09:58 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		This is why I only date tall men.

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/27/2007 3:39:11 PM   
OedipusRexIt


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Status: offline 		I'm confused whenever people post these "stalker" threads, as to what the motive is.

If you're saying you'd wished you'd exercised more caution, that's good. 

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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/27/2007 10:36:42 PM   
crouchingtigress


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From: Maui
Status: offline 		Benji, its hard to understand unless you have been stalked...but ill try.

the reason a lot of folks dont change IP is because its a big hassle, but more then that its because you hate the idea that this guy won, that he barged into your life and made your life a weird scary place, and to top it all off  now you have to go hide in a closet and start over.

you feel he has taken so much from you, and yet in your mind you can handle it, you wont let a weird internet freak scare you, you are better then that.

its not always the most rational way to think of things, but thats is why alot fo folks wont change ips...and also they dont know how...can you post how?


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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/27/2007 11:18:55 PM   
GrizzlyBear


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From: Missoula Montana
Status: offline 		I think Benji meant that the stalker could change his IP to avoid detection, or a block on an IP address.  Anyone who uses standard techniques to access the Internet can't remain anonymous.  ISPs have the records of who was connected to which address at which time.

However if he uses only public Wi-Fi hotspots, he will be very difficult to track.  Most stalkers don't have that sort of discipline, and will use their home connection. 

If he is making any threats, by all means tell the police.  They can probably find him.  Unless he is crazy enough to physically seek you out after that, a visit from the police should end things.






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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/28/2007 11:28:19 PM   
servilecat


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Status: offline 		i prefer to not be the written up in the papers as found dead.  i just truly can't imagine anyone that would harass someone they dated for a week 18 months ago.  Now he says he's going to call city hall and others in the city i moved from 9 months ago to find out about me...Why does he care....why can't he get on with his pathetic little life?  There wasnt much to caution....he's in governemtn work etc. and we only dated about a week so i had no idea he would end up like this..but, Thank You all so much for letting me vent and be careful of little st louis wannabe Doms.


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RE: Scary Stalker - 4/29/2007 4:38:41 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		That's why you have to have a very large friend visit him to explain to him in certain ways that it would be a healthy choice for him to leave you alone.
Sometimes that's the only thing these idiots will understand.

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