Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also?

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BlackSakura -> Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 9:44:24 AM)
Ok, is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist? If so, how?

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 9:53:48 AM)
Dominant is a mindset. Masochistic is an enjoyment of intense physical sensation/pain. Of course it's possible to be both.

Lashra -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 1:51:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood Dominant is a mindset. Masochistic is an enjoyment of intense physical sensation/pain. Of course it's possible to be both. Beautifully stated MsSonnetMarwood! OP I am a dominant and I have a submissive, yet sometimes I like to bottom. I give him direction on how to give me what I need. He follows my direction and we are both happy [:D] ~Lashra

MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 2:40:27 PM)
Thank you, Lashra. This brings to mind a scene I saw a couple years ago at a club. Two rather lovely women were playing - one the spankee, one the spanker. The spanker, after every swat, said "Thank you Mistress! Would you like another?"

hereyesruponyou -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 2:53:20 PM)
I know it's possible, i live it! After years of thinking i was a switch i realized that i am not. Just a dominant masochist [:D] Pain is such a good aphrodesiac!

PairOfDimes -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 5:48:14 PM)
Lots of threads to this effect lately. Yes, it's possible to be a dominant woman and a masochist, and it's possible for such a woman to dominate while indulging her masochistic desires. It's not gender-oriented, by the way--there are men who are both dominant and masochistic, too. Dominant/submissive, master/slave, are power or authority orientations. Top/bottom, sadist/masochist, are sensation orientations. It's widely accepted that many dominants enjoy receiving sensation from massage or oral sex. Why is it so surprising that some dominants enjoy receiving more intense sensations?

MzMia -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 6:37:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackSakura Ok, is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist? If so, how? Yes, I am a tad of a Masocist. I sometimes talk to submissive men that I "meet" on CM! hahahahaha[sm=whap.gif]

earthycouple -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/1/2007 6:43:45 PM)
Ditto....Dominant, sensual, sadistic masochist here too! D~

Trampler -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/2/2007 11:43:43 AM)
My last bf who was a Dom, liked to be tied up....was he in less control? oh hell no!

TheShadows -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/2/2007 12:51:05 PM)
Very possible. I myself happen to be a Dominant Female Sadomasochist. Don't limit yourself to other peoples' labels. As always, YMMV... ~MrsShadows~

PsyVamp -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/2/2007 7:36:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple Ditto....Dominant, sensual, sadistic masochist here too! D~ Thats me in a nutshell...Both a sadist and a masochist but always Dominant and definately sensual. Dang, now I need to go get bit... Psy [sm=evil.gif]

MissSCD -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/2/2007 7:56:42 PM)
Of Course it is possible. I enjoy the fun of it all. I just don't give up control to anyone. Regards, MissSCD

LaMistressa -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/2/2007 8:13:15 PM)
As a longtime Bucs fan, I'd have to say yes.

FetishFulfilled -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/22/2007 12:00:13 AM)
It's definately possible! I just realized it Myself... I classify Myself as a Sadomasochist, and realized although I could always get pain from virtually any Dominant or Switch I wanted.. the Sadist in Me wasn't being fulfilled...

MamaDomme -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/22/2007 5:16:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple Ditto....Dominant, sensual, sadistic masochist here too! D~ Another one here~~~

MistressDolly -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/22/2007 6:38:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MzMia quote: ORIGINAL: BlackSakura Ok, is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist? If so, how? Yes, I am a tad of a Masocist. I sometimes talk to submissive men that I "meet" on CM! hahahahaha[sm=whap.gif] lol, that's funny! ;p

Copulo -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/22/2007 8:48:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheShadows Very possible. I myself happen to be a Dominant Female Sadomasochist. Don't limit yourself to other peoples' labels. As always, YMMV... ~MrsShadows~ Me too. I don’t submit and am very much in control of my own pain and its levels but I often do something to a masochist and think ‘wow that looks really good, I want to try that’ On Friday I am going to be part of a performance with fakir Masafar and have some large temporary piercing put through my chest and Im already getting excited about how its going to feel

LeatherRose -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/29/2007 3:35:15 PM)
How? By being what you are, not pinning yourself to someone else's labels. I myself have described myself as a sado/masochist Dominant now for few years. However I do let subs know that my pain is gained by one man and him only. [:D] Call yourself whatever YOU are comfortable with (or not!), and to hell with what others think. Cheers, LeatherRose

MsBearlee -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/29/2007 3:45:04 PM)
< ~ ~ ~ Such a person and knows several men and women who are both Dominant and masochistic. The longer I'm around the lifestyle, the more I realize we are a many, splendored thing; people. Like bi-sexuality, I see all of us as being all things; to a more or lesser degree. I'm learning (at last), not to worry too much about labels; they're too much like CrackerJack surprises. You know...the ones where, if ya wiggle 'em at all the image shifts? Yeah...labels are like that! Beverly

Elorin -> RE: Is it possible to be a Domme/Mistress and a Masocist also? (5/29/2007 7:36:16 PM)
This minds me of a scene where I was leaned over a spanking bench while Sir got to practice using a single tail. I, by the way, am not much of a masochist. Sir's pain turns me on because I get turned on by serving him (serving him through accepting pain which he enjoys giving), not because it's pain. Anyone else hurts me and I am a very cranky girl. Sir stopped to take some instruction from the owner of the singletail, and I turned my head to view my boy, kneeling by the spanking bench. "Would you like some water Duchess?" And I drank deeply from the glass, kissed him, thanked him, and he scooted out of the way in time for Sir to take a new triple acrylic cane to my sore behind. It's certainly possible to get the things you crave. How you do it depends on you and the relationships you share. ~E

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