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MsLadySue -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 4:05:35 PM)
Reminds me of the old saying ... "what a tangled web we weave ...."

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 4:06:54 PM)
All this crap couldn't be said in an email? My gods, what a typical drama queen.

ErusDespicienta -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 4:18:29 PM)
quote: Britania1 well it seems you have contradicted yourself ErusDespicienta those were you're own words that You were a RT LDR with her for almost a yr so who is telling the truth here , You dont have to have a collar on someone to be their Dom , Well I was looking for poor communicators and trouble makers, here's the first one.. who either can't read or selectively quotes to suit their own agenda. .whatever!! quote: She was completely aware that my status was Single and available. ..and yes she saw that in writing weeks ago. . yes there is a communication problem and no, it isn't my problem.

anaughtygirl -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 4:45:18 PM)
I have to agree with MrDiscipline's assessment. She complains that he came on here and discussed their problems, yet she writes a book for all to see about how horribly he treats her. It should have been an email to him, not to the world. And if he treats her so badly, then why doesn't she just walk away? She sounds like a drama queen looking for sympathy. From her writing style, spelling, and whiney attitude, I'd guess she's an ignorant fool and needs a keeper more than she needs a Dom/Master. I'm sure he could do much better. Just my humble opinion.

juliaoceania -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 4:51:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta quote: Britania1 well it seems you have contradicted yourself ErusDespicienta those were you're own words that You were a RT LDR with her for almost a yr so who is telling the truth here , You dont have to have a collar on someone to be their Dom , Well I was looking for poor communicators and trouble makers, here's the first one.. who either can't read or selectively quotes to suit their own agenda. .whatever!! quote: She was completely aware that my status was Single and available. ..and yes she saw that in writing weeks ago. . yes there is a communication problem and no, it isn't my problem. I have been seeing someone long distance, monogamous, for a year. He is my Dom. No, one does not have to have a collar to have a commitment.

domiguy -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 5:14:42 PM)
I would rather send cherries to a deflowered sub.

unsung -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 5:31:36 PM)
Well he comes into the boards, whiney about his issues except doing it in a manner to gain sympathy and won that sympathy hand over fist. He likes women all shapes, sizes, whatever they all have something special, and they bring joy and whatever the heck else to his life everyday. Where else would a d-type attention whore gain such glory then the submissives forum. The majority of girls will defend his position, after all it is whatever the master wants, right. Or should be that what 'your' master wants. He got his attention, I don't think he was really looking for a solution, else he would have gone to seek the advice of his peers. ErusDespicienta I disagree with your behaviour as a professed d-type just as much as you may call me a trouble maker, imo you have things to resolve or put to rest with that girl without the help of any of us here, which obviously only have proved to make matters worse. Good luck to you.

KatyLied -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 5:59:06 PM)
Born under a bad sign With a blue moon in your eyes.

MsKatHouston -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 6:17:12 PM)
Thanks. KatyLied now I have that song in my head. LOL sugarbaby, many who replied were doms, not subs. As entertaining as this is, don't you think this should be a private issue?

WillowRain -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 6:36:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ErusDespicienta I'm trying to resolve a problem before I blow a fuse and maybe I am wrong wanting to blow a fuse, so lets find out shall we ! I sent flowers to a submissive who wants my collar.( this is real time btw) It was her birthday today ( no I would never divulge a womans age but since it might be relevent between 45 and 55). I chose the arrangement, with a vase, from a book with pictures and ordered them to be delivered to her office. They were delivered in a timely fashion [:)] . She called me, left voice mail. that she had got them and how lovely they were. .ty. ty .ty. may I suck your cock Sir and all that good stuff. .I'm kidding on the BJ part. I made that up. . I gave her a call back in my break,50 mins later, she told me she had called the florist and asked them to replace the flower arrangement because it was poorly arranged and she didn't like the vase. it was too boxy.or something, it wouldn't hold the flowers correctly. The florists. god bless them have replaced the arrangement and she is now happy. .BUT I am not! I have not said anything to her as yet. I'm trying to engage brain before opening mouth. I'm really curious to hear from anyone, who's interested, about what YOU would have done, how you would have handled the situation. Would you have done something different?? This is an example of poor gift receiving. You could referance her to Miss Manners, or any number of other such resourcess on how to politely accept and appriciate a gift. Sadly this is not something that everyone is taught when they are little. Manners are a dying art. Share with her how you feel and then give her resources to learn from. :)

happypervert -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 7:11:32 PM)
quote: i dont know what you are trying to do but if you need to put yourself on a dating site then You are notinterested in pursuing anything with me............. and you were hiding it from me so that tells me all i need to know ,you said in your post here that you were gonna give it one more chance but you are not giving me a chance everytime you log into that site.and You have done nothing but lie to me the past three days every time You have logged in here ............ and you always find fault with me, in everything i do ,i dont know what it is you want <snip> Just send her some flowers -- that ought to cheer her up!

MistressDarling -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 7:15:14 PM)
She should have kept it to herself and just said thank you.

moki1984 -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 7:50:09 PM)
wow.... how disrespectful, spoiled and plain ungrateful.

proudsub -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 8:42:33 PM)
quote: Just send her some flowers -- that ought to cheer her up! LOL, only if you dare.[:D]

Llyren -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 8:52:45 PM)
Based on the picture, she really was right. That vase doesn't suit those flowers at all. it's much too squat, and they're all going to sprawl and fall out very easily. That being said, I think they deserve one another.

dawntreader -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 8:58:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy I would rather send cherries to a deflowered sub. ROFL!! i like cherries better than flowers :-)

sweetnessforsir -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/7/2007 9:17:48 PM)
IMHO, she wanted to make sure your goal was achieved. Flowers at work that she loved. Was it tacky? well . .. yes. Did she handle it badly? Uhm . . . yeah . . . Was there a thank you . . . YES . . . before she called and had the flowers exchanged . . . YES . . . was she honest . . . uh huh . . . give the girl a break and some guidance. BTW . . . my ass would have been beaten for this . . . so let's just keep the talk between the two of us . . . kay? stephanie

slaveish -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/8/2007 5:10:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 Nothing says "I kind of like you" like flowers from a catalog and nothing says "you suck" like returning them. Just a bit of passive aggressiveness on both sides here. LOL ~gasping for air~

MissOchistic -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/8/2007 6:07:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjenny I know nothing about the OP & this situation, but I think it is unfair to assume that because someone has a profile here they are automatically seeking another. My dom hasn't a profile here, as far as I know he has never even been onto this site. He didn't know I was here for ages, simply because I am not using this place to hook up with anyone. It isn't a case of lying or cheating with me & it probably isn't for many others. Too true. In case sugarbaby hasn't noticed, this site may have evolved around a dating service, but now clearly is about community as well, and includes options in your profile to specify "Friends Only". It's like a big kinky MySpace!

Squeakers -> RE: Sending flowers to a cherished submissive (5/8/2007 6:14:30 AM)
I seriously think both the OP and the woman in question make a perfect couple.

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