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RE: Masterhood - 5/9/2007 7:58:42 PM

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Whiplash, MadRabbit ---

Thanks for your insights into family ties. I really appreciate them!

Still getting the hang of all this.

Cheers,

DC

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RE: Masterhood - 5/9/2007 11:51:57 PM

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Well, the thread's fifteen-pages long now, and relatively well wrapped up. Thanks, "Masterhood" thread, and farewell! (So I'm affectionate towards inanimate objects- even ones that are on virtual space.. so what? Stop looking at me like that...)

Appreciate the responses and contributes from all. Regretfully, there was a lot annoyance on various parts, but, meh, we're all human. I believe we had more good points than not.

Questions, comments, propositions for kinky sex, and offers for generous monitary donations still accepted! Just drop me a message. (Several conversations have moved to the message arena. It works pretty well. I'm open to it, so no need to feel like it's a burden.)

Hope everyone got something from this. Peace all.

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RE: Masterhood - 5/10/2007 4:13:02 PM

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It has been days since i have had time to be online, please excuse my slow responses. i have only gotten up to page 10 now... LA wrties: You're the one who brought up chaos...
**** i still stand by my original perception that the lack of definitions adds chaos to the boards and to the issues of the OP's post. LA writes: I'm just saying it seems like you're throwing everything but the kitchen sink at this and pulling up whichever one looks yummiest to you, despite whether it really logically follows through or not, and then get upset when that method doesn't produce the results you want.
**** i am not upset. You can tell by when i joined CM under this name and the number of my posts that being online is not a top priority in Master's house. i assure you what happens on these boards is not important enough to upset me. LA writes: It seems like you're bouncing all over and just overreacting rather than going through the points of things. I can't frame my responses to you logically if you do that. **** There have been more than one issue raised. The same could be said about the posts and questions you have left undone. LA writes: And then you might start going on about me not responding to your own points even if they are all over the place.
**** Don't be afraid. i only mentioned that you had over looked answering earlier posts because you accused me of the same. For myself i am quite content with how the dialog between you and i has gone. LA writes: But you must watch for things like that in the future if you plan on engaging in forums which welcome all orientations and do not abide such double standards so easily and don't want to spend half your discussion time apologizing and restating. *** To state that this forum welcomes all orientations has not been my experience, and not the experience of a myraid of people living enslaved. It's very open to people who conform to the majority's way of thinking, but it would take some work for the majority to welcome all orientations. In closing, (to no one in particular) in this thread alone there was one preference of a minority dynamic expressed. Two people who post frequently responded by either suggesting how to disregard the importance of the minority's preference, or to make it quite clear they are most comfortable doing things their way, regardless. This is one very small issue that is disrespected, but it is a pretty good example of how other dynamics are welcomed. For those who have not found their niche and think there may be more to BDSM than play parties, being online, and what is represented here, there is. Perhaps, like the Goreans, we will need to request our own section to be part of this forum. My purpose for posting as i have is to give voice to a dynamic that is not as often represented on these boards, and to make suggestions in hopes of making peace between two very different schools of thought. The people who have more time to spend on the boards than i do will ultimately decide what dynamics are welcome and which ones are not, but if you believe these forums welcome all orientations you're fooling yourself. Master's dorei

Edited to add: i have just read the last post, and agree it is time to retire this thread. i am not going back to reread anymore.
RIP

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RE: Masterhood - 5/12/2007 9:22:12 PM

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Please bare with me as I have never written in the forums before, though I have been on collarme since 05". I started reading all of your posts only because I was wanting to learn more about a particular friend and his new slave. Well I was learning more of her than he, it is her friendship I seek. To the point.... Master/slave..Dom/sub.. and what the "meaning" of these words truely are, does it really matter. I mean when you get right down to it, why do you need a clear cut deffinition of the meaning of the words? I call my Master..Master today, but tomarrow I may refer to him as Sir, or my Dom..maybe even by his given name. ( oh my God , I should be beaten and made to stand in the corner, chained, naked and shamed for all to see). What I am trying to convey is this... I have only been in the lifestyle for I don't know 2 or 3 years.. I mean I haven't exactly kept a calander documenting all my accomplishments and failures. Though I choose to view my failures as accomplishments. Without them I can not learn. This is an ongoing ever changing process, therefore, how my Master chooses to refer to me as, or how I choose to address him is irrellevant. The true deffinition of these terms so offten discussed is this.. Master, Dom..slave..sub, doesnt matter what you call me or how you choose to catagorize me my heart,..mind ..body and soul ultimately belongs to Him. Today I am what is typically concidered a submissive... I choose my own clothes, but not my shoes..I eat what I want..but I wait for Him...I speak my mind..but lower my head in shame if I appear disrespectful in doing so... I have a safe word... but can not use it... I can choose to obey him or not..I choose to be enslaved or not..... I choose to heed my will ..or not.. Ultimately it is my choice.. but does this make me less of a slave? maybe today it does..but tomarrow it may not.. It all depends completely on His mood..His desires. There is no line drawn in the sand.. because if there was..it still is my choice if i cross it or not. Even the slaves in History..under somes "defintion" weren't actually enslaved..They made the choice everyday to live or die..to be beaten for disobedience or not.
Today I am enslaved..because today I choose to obey...tomarrow I may choose to be beaten. Today He is my Dom because he chooses to allow me to walk freely barefooted..tomarrow he is my Master because he demands 4" heels, my maids outfit, gagged, chained and cuffed, with my butt plug in place while I clean the house.
So you tell me..Am I a slave or a submissive..is He my Master or my Dom? All I know is without U/us, W/we would be lost. He needs me as much as I NEED Him. He owns my heart, my mind ..my body and my soul..yet i dress the way " I CHOOSE".

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