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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 8:46:45 AM

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Being labeled "Vanilla" was the only insult I felt that way, but everyone is different, I suppose. And yes, I did feel very insulted, and didn't want to post at first because of it. Suggesting that they're "just" labels or that they shouldn't bother anyone is misguided in my opinion. Just like racial slurs can cause problems on the street, these labels here can be and obviously are an issue.

then u like being 'corrupted' now?

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 8:52:18 AM

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yes, this is a BDSM site, but we shouldnt consider ourselves perverted and evil cuz we have BDSM tendencies, this is not bad, this is how we were created and we should feel peace with that.....

Yes this is how I was created. I am not ashamed of it in the slightest. I don't see my being a kinky, twisted, perverted, wickedly evil, deranged, indecent deviant as a bad thing though.

I'm proud of who I am and feel really good about myself.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 8:54:15 AM

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then u like being 'corrupted' now?

I take it in the spirit that it's intended, which is a fun, playful spirit. On the other hand though, I didn't enjoy being called "Vanilla" any more than I would enjoy being called a submissive, or being treated like one. I see your entire point though - someone in my family once called my kid a stinkweed, playfully, which was her habit, and I put a stop to that because I want them to have a full sense of self esteem. They're not "little shits" either, nor are they little heathens. They are children, and that is what they should be called because words do have psychological power.

Labels do make a difference. Just ask any propaganda minister... and these labels are a part of a negative stereotype that we don't deserve.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 9:34:05 AM

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why these words not others like newbie, member, seasoned member, and such normal names, yes, thes ones used here are creative but kinda insulting..

Boring should be made a crime and such boring people should be punished by being subject to something corrupt, perverted and indecent.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 9:49:32 AM

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why these words not others like newbie, member, seasoned member, and such normal names, yes, thes ones used here are creative but kinda insulting..

LOL, many here are exactly that, deviant, corrupted and so on, and many insulting---I being the largest of the lot.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 11:07:32 AM

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It's all in jest and demented humor. Some of us are more wicked, evil and deranged than others.
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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 11:18:01 AM

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just in general to topic...

i am warped, very very much so. That one i know to be true.

As for the "deranged" and what not, a word has power only if you give it power, true, however, what is more important is the definition you give that word.

If your mind sees "deranged" as being sick and evil, then sure, you'll believe after a long enough period of time you are.

Just like a member of the KKK is genuinely insulted when you say "you're acting black", and the urban wanna-be rapper white child strives to have it said to him.

Our personal definitions are very important, guess that's all i have to say.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 6:31:40 PM

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People seem to think that when I call my boss a "skanky whore" it is a bad thing.

Weird.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 6:35:06 PM

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I'm damn proud of my recently-earned "deranged" status! It took me over 2 years to get it!

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 6:36:07 PM

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People seem to think that when I call my boss a "skanky whore" it is a bad thing.

Weird.

Sinergy

that is supposed to be amusing

get a grip

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 6:43:52 PM

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People seem to think that when I call my boss a "skanky whore" it is a bad thing.

Weird.

Sinergy

that is supposed to be amusing

get a grip

minnetar

Perhaps it was an inside joke you are not aware of, minnetar.

My job IS to call my boss a skanky whore, among other things.

Then she kicks me in the head.

All in a days work, I suppose.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 6:53:03 PM

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Sinergy you talk to noone on the forums with respect unless you are defending Julia. You are rude and disprespectful and don't realize when you think you are being funny you are nothing more than obtuse. Like i said i have lost all my respect for you because you have no idea how to treat someone who disagrees with you as Julia does not either. i truly hope the two of you can learn to respect anothers opinion as you have not demonstrated that in the least. Not everyone believes in what you do but does that entitle you to put another down? you and julia think it does. Find respect please as a person.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 11:31:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: FemMiss
yes, this is a BDSM site, but we shouldnt consider ourselves perverted and evil cuz we have BDSM tendencies, this is not bad, this is how we were created and we should feel peace with that.....

Yes this is how I was created. I am not ashamed of it in the slightest. I don't see my being a kinky, twisted, perverted, wickedly evil, deranged, indecent deviant as a bad thing though. I'm proud of who I am and feel really good about myself.

bingo....i agree with you...

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 11:36:06 PM

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then u like being 'corrupted' now?

I take it in the spirit that it's intended, which is a fun, playful spirit. On the other hand though, I didn't enjoy being called "Vanilla" any more than I would enjoy being called a submissive, or being treated like one. I see your entire point though - someone in my family once called my kid a stinkweed, playfully, which was her habit, and I put a stop to that because I want them to have a full sense of self esteem. They're not "little shits" either, nor are they little heathens. They are children, and that is what they should be called because words do have psychological power.

Labels do make a difference. Just ask any propaganda minister... and these labels are a part of a negative stereotype that we don't deserve.

I agree with you too... that's what i'm talking about.. i think i should take it in a playful manner, it would be better.... and i still dont ever think that i'm perverted cuz i'm a femdom, i feel normal like anyone else....and i enjoy it.. :)

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/5/2007 11:40:56 PM

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Knowing the type of work you do, this is a very appropriate way
to start the work evening. Do you order ice packs by the box?

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My job IS to call my boss a skanky whore, among other things.

Then she kicks me in the head.

All in a days work, I suppose.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/6/2007 12:34:22 AM

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Personally I call my self perverted and whicked, and to me it's a good thing I enjoy my perversions and whicked delicious thoughts that run through my head.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/6/2007 12:36:22 AM

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Dear admins, why under our names these unpleasant words exist? if we will be called here that way, so what the ppl in the street will describe us?!

These words can affect our self-image without knowing that...
The subconsious doesnt differentiate between a joke or a reality.. if someone kept saying i'm a pervert for many times, evern if he was joking, his sbconscience will believe it and then the brain will act according to it.. i studied NLP and other related stuff concerning the subconscience...

You know what, i dont like to post many messages cuz of these insulting words...

It is better to put nicer words or let each one put what he wants like in other forums....
Thanks

Cause it's fun. I don't really want to be thought of as "sweetness and light" 'cept by my parents.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/6/2007 12:38:17 AM

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thanks guys for ur replies, i know that they are just rankings, but i was surprised that we will be called here that way, i'm not taking them personally, but why? why these words not others like newbie, member, seasoned member, and such normal names, yes, thes ones used here are creative but kinda insulting..

I think you'll find that lots (if not most) BDSM folks referly to themselves as kinky, happy perverts. It's a joke, it's fun and it's taking something someone else uses as an insult and tries to degrade us with and making it our badge. Frankly, I think it's healthy.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/6/2007 12:39:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: minnetar

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People seem to think that when I call my boss a "skanky whore" it is a bad thing.

Weird.

Sinergy

that is supposed to be amusing

get a grip

minnetar

I thought it was funny.

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RE: Why indecent, corrupt, perverted...?! - 5/6/2007 12:44:54 AM

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I'm wicked, perverted, sadistic and kinky. I'm proud of who and what I am. (I'm sure others could add to the list.)

wicked, perverted....etc are usually how ppl judge us, not necessarily how we really are, if u r a domme or like to be spanked in bed, this may considered bizarre to many ppl, but for u and the community you belong to is ok, this is how we like to have fun, this is noone else business! dont label urself with these negative words.. feel normal and enjoy life....