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RE: Am I a switch? - 11/26/2007 3:46:47 AM   
liketophoto


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Status: offline 		Sounds like you wish to pick a person as you would pick a playing card from a deck.
Not sure life works that way, never has for me.
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RE: Am I a switch? - 11/27/2007 3:45:06 AM   
Nonsenseman


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RE: Am I a switch? - 11/29/2007 3:52:26 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		If you see the lights go on when you flick your penis, then you are a switch

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RE: Am I a switch? - 11/29/2007 4:04:25 PM   
laurell3


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petpete

If you see the lights go on when you flick your penis, then you are a switch


ROFL...nice

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RE: Am I a switch? - 11/29/2007 5:14:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		well stated laurell3. You hit the nail on the head!!

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RE: Am I a switch? - 12/18/2007 2:51:40 PM   
MichiganAngel


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Status: offline 		I also wonder if I am really a switch.  Sexually, I am sooooo sub; but otherwise, I like to get my way! 
I dont like being the center of attention in big crowds (family reunions, parties, etc.), more submissive there too; but in small groups or 1 on 1, depending on the situation and whether or not I feel comfortable, I may be a bit bossy. 
 
Seeking a local or surrounding areas switch that I can learn from and have fun with.  I am in Alpena Michigan. 
 
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RE: Am I a switch? - 12/18/2007 3:17:35 PM   
liketophoto


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RE: Am I a switch? - 12/20/2007 1:39:54 AM   
BiSalemOR


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Status: offline 		I've always been straight but having become bi curious I like the idea of playing a more submissive role.  Its difficult to say I've been the dom even though I've always been in the dom role.  I prefer to think that I've shared that role but that isn't quite accurate either.  Usually they have just played a more agressive sub role.

Since I've become bi curious I enjoy the idea of being able to swap the roles either that same night or picking a full night to be totally sub.  I think I like a mix, to be mostly sub during the night but end the end being the dom again to finish things off.  I have never been in the sub role but think that one exists in me and think (hopefully) that I would enjoy someone searching out and exploiting that sub side a part of the time.  I'm not really into taking orders but gentle coaxing and being my duty to sexually please others appeals to me.  Although I've yet to be switch or do anything bi I do like the idea of it.

I've seen a few say they wouldn't want a switch role I really can't see myself in a relationship with a woman that I didn't play the dom role a good part of the time.  Although I could see being with a woman that had her domme time I might be ok with her being sub but having me have my sub times with others although being with 2 different people is a little outside my loyalty area....

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RE: Am I a switch? - 12/20/2007 11:03:31 AM   
KnOcala


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Status: offline 		I list myself as a switch because I come across as a dominant person and have played with the role (just need more experience but how do you get experience if you are the one supposed to be in control).  However I have a submissive side and have never been able to find a woman to explore it nor able to take control.
but in a relationship I would only be with someone as an equal outside of play.  I could never do it 24/7.  So although I am looking for a dominant female now, I still consider myself a switch.  I guess.

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/3/2008 9:14:33 PM   
DarkGlory


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Status: offline 		I say I'm a switch because I started as a bottom, and discovered that I sometimes like to top. It's all about the person I'm dealing with. Being told I have Domme potential has gotten me here and wondering if I can really pull it off.  Trying to find the right people to connect with to have experience to go off of. I don't knock it till I rock it.

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/4/2008 2:10:39 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petpete

If you see the lights go on when you flick your penis, then you are a switch
Does this mean
that females can't b switches?
or do Wwe've to twist Oour nippls?
 
Smooch
 
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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/4/2008 2:48:41 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		To the Dearest and respected Dutch GoddessTeaze i never meant to insult... Maybe i didn't understand the question well enough.. Or maybe the heat has made me being sarcastic.. It is kinda hot downunder and with the Goddess of the Tulips and the milk i grew up with asking me questions?? i do feel even hotter under the collar....

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/4/2008 3:13:31 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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Yeah yeah pete,
blame it on the heat !
that's a good one.
 
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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/4/2008 3:32:40 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		By the way!! Your rear end looks once again better from this angle!!! And guess what?? i can still see it even in the dark!!! Are they fluorescent stockings Your wearing??
prefer the black ones..

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/4/2008 3:37:30 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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you've very special eyes pete,
and keep on going please!!
oopss...
 
Did I say that out loud
 
~ those r very special stockingz.. take a closer look~
 
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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/5/2008 9:09:55 AM   
tied2it


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Status: offline 		Like the majority that posted i switch but mostly stay in one " role" with that person . I have switched with the same person but it just felt uncomfortable to us . Do what ever makes you happy and don't worrie about what lable to stamp on it .

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/5/2008 2:35:48 PM   
FullCircle


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Status: offline 		Life→ → → → → ↘                      Dom
     ↙ ←      ↓        ↗ → → → → → ↗
    ↓    ↖      ↘ → → ↗
    ↓     ↖           ↘ → → → → → ↘
  Switch   ↖ ← ← ← ← ↙            Sub

 
Am I right or what?

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/5/2008 9:14:34 PM   
ChainsawMascara


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Status: offline 		Switchyness is good. I love both sides of the paddle.

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RE: Am I a switch? - 1/6/2008 12:31:14 AM   
petpete


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Status: offline 		Check if you have wires running in your behind , then check if you have a knob in your front. If you have all that your a switch...

< Message edited by petpete -- 1/6/2008 12:35:01 AM >

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