slaverosebeauty
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Joined: 12/12/2004 From: Cali Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Hina00 how do you handle disagreements? The same way I handle all other disagreements outside of this lifestyle, with tact, intelligence, patience and respect. In the M/s dynamic, at least in mine, we TALK, a lot. When I get upset, I have a tendancy to shut up and not talk, which after this long, MJ KNOWS something is up and He knows that I have to talk or I will get more pissed, so we talk. He will tell me 'talk to Me, don't get quite on Me,' and we talk. I can ask to have a bit of time to think or to calm down, thats understandable. If He or anyone else ever said, "shut up or I'll punish you," I would be out the door, no hesitation. That phrase is VERY disrespectfull not to mention a bit of a challenge from my ornery and bratty side. We all have opinions, its just on how you present that that makes the real difference. Be honest, be respectfull, be straight forward and communicate. That goes for ALL involved. Heck, I have opinions, very strong ones, you see that from reading any number of my posts, just reading MJ's profile on here is enough to get those opinions up in a roar at times [He hasn't updated His profile interests in a long time], yet, we talk and we have gone over those things that bother me, no big deal.
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