Blaakmaan
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster OK, let me get this straight. As a black man, as you put it, you care about...what two lovers call each other in private? How on EARTH is that any of your business? You're free to "respect" or "disrespect" people for whatever reason your heart desires, but disrespecting people for the kinks that arouse them isn't going to win you very many friends on Collarme. I thought the whole point of going through life with an alternative sexuality was to recognize that the One True Way does not work for everyone. You do what you like in private, and let other people do what they like in private. It seems like an awful waste of time, when there are REAL injustices in society today, to pontificate about people's sexual preferences. quote:
ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan If all that matters to you is getting your pussy wet or your dick hard, then by all means, go for whatever floats your individual boat. As a black man, I care about more than that. Much more. So, notwithstanding the fact that being called a "nigger" whatever sets off fireworks in your mental clitoris (or your mental penis, as it were), i personally could not have less respect for a black man or woman who gets off on some white person calling them nigger. Yes, you got that straight! That's my opinion of this whole "nigger bitch" (or "nigger bastard," lest I be sexist) mess. And I said so. That's my opinion! That's what posts are for. You think what you want. Then you post it. That's what this is. I could articulate my belief that a black person debasing himself to white person, for whatever reason, has ramifications beyond those two people in that encounter at that moment, but why bother? As far as kinks are concerned, "race play" is probably the only kink I have a serious problem with. You can get pissed on, smacked around, led around by the nose and beaten until you're bloody--I really don't give a damn. But when a black person debases himself or herself to a white person, I, personally, have a problem with that. I imagine that, if I were Jewish (which I am not) and another Jew got off on some gentile calling him or her a "Jew bitch" or a "kike" or something equally anti-semitic, racist and degrading, I would have a problem with that, as well! I think you're debasing more than yourself when you do that. That's my opinion. And that's all it has to be. About "winning" friends on CM, let me say this. I don't try to disrespect anybody, unless he or she disrespects me. This, at least for me, is not all about winning friends and influencing people. I didn't come here looking for friends. I have friends. I'm a black man with strong opinions, especially on racial issues. Anyone who can't deal with that can't deal with me. My racial consciousness is not something I would take off when I sign onto CM so I can "win" friends. [Hmmm.... Maybe I should add that to the "warning label" on my profile...]
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