Padriag
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These are the definitions I personally use... compare and contrast at your leisure. Dominant - general term for those exerting control / authority in any form of a power exchange relationship irrespective of kinks, fetishes, etc. Dom/me - title refering to a dominant in a consciously and/or deliberately limited power exchange relationship. Master/Mistress - title refering to a dominant in power exchange relationship which is not consciously or deliberately limited (that is, though practical limits will exist, there is no attempt to create limitations, i.e. "no limits"). Submissive - general term for those submitting to another's control / authority in any form of a power exchange relationship irrespective of kinks, fetishes, etc. Sub/Subbie/submissive - title refering to an individual in a consciously and/or deliberately limited power exchange relationship. Slave - title refering to a submissive in power exchange relationship which is not consciously or deliberately limited (that is, though practical limits will exist, there is no attempt to create limitations, i.e. "no limits"). Top - an individual who takes the active directing role in a fetish play "scene". May not necessarily be a dominant. Bottom - an individual who follows the lead of a Top in a fetish play "scene". May not necessarily be a submissive. BDSM - acronym for Bondage Discipline Sado Masochism, also variously used to refer to the "lifestyle" D/s - acronym for Dominant / submissive, may refer to power exchange relationships which are often consciously conditional in nature (negotatiated limits, limited contracts, limited in terms of time/place, etc.) M/s - acronym for Master / slave, may refer to power exchange relationships which are generally not conditional in nature, (i.e., "no limits"). No limits - much disputed term, refers to either to submissive individuals (often slaves) who do not seek to impose any deliberate limits on their dominant, the relationship or the manner in which they serve. May also refer to relationships which attempt to follow this philosophy, often Master / slave types.
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Padriag A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer
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