fairerthanshe
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl It's easy to be submissive when you're doing things you like, the real test is when you get to the things you don't like. Which should not be interpreted to mean that if you haven't had to do things you don't like that doesn't mean you aren't "real." Greetings all, Part of growing in slavery is pushing past those times when you don't want to do something and you go ahead and do it because you have been told to do so. Its all part of the process - and it certainly is different in every relationship. With SJ, I do not feel that I have been challenged to really do a ton of things that I am not happy to do for him in the first place (I love housework). And yet, our relationship continues to deepen, the level of trust is honed, the services I am allowed to give have increased, and each part is organic and unforced. well wishes ~ fairer
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