Mercnbeth
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it is the other way around for this slave...as per usual. this slave starts out having respect for folks, as fellow human beings on the planet. they don't have to go out of their way to prove anything in order to receive that from this slave. folks this slave has no respect for, have actually done or said something to earn that lack of respect. the only other thing this slave would like to add is that desperation is not always the impetus for one who submits to everyone. it could just very well be the way they are wired. Edited (Merc): Fortunately, I balance out beth. I don't trust anyone, and I don't give away respect. I give courtesy to everyone and have appreciation for any honorarium, or 'title' they've achieved (i.e. MD); however, respect comes from being able to prove themselves by observed behavior and interactions with me and others. Respect doesn't come easy, but can be lost very easily. I don't give second chances to anyone but those who share my genetic material. Same with people, 'lifestyle' notwithstanding. Call yourself anything you like. I can manage to verbalize the words 'master' and 'lord' and they will come out sounding like 'asshole'; if that's how your actions and attitude have disclosed. This was one of our favorite discussion topics when we first met. There wasn't any attempt to try to change the other, but we made a little game of it. We kept 'score' of which of us, had a more accurate 'prejudice' (because that's really what it is, a pre-judgment) about respecting and/or trusting people. I think I'm 'wining'. However the problem is, beth's been hurt, literally and figuratively, much more than I have over our life path prior to meeting. I'd am pleasantly surprised to have misplaced my skepticism. beth's openness is likely to have generated bruises, debt, and, at best, disappointment.
< Message edited by Mercnbeth -- 1/14/2009 10:50:41 AM >
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