Toppingfrmbottom
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Red I will never ever again go into a psych hospital, I went willingly this last time and I was so traumatized by the place and the loudness of it and everything I feared about it was true, and I'm not exaggerating. I never said manage my out bursts I said do not be irrational and completely fuck the situation worse when I need peace, if I am sick or I am in a panic and I need help, don't start flying off the handle and being irrational and saying things like fine I'll take you to the ER and I'll loose my job baby sitting you at the ER cause you're sick, Or do not tell me you'll kill us all will that make you happy when we fight. It is entirely my right to set up boundries and expect james to stay the fuck away from me when I am irrationall because he flew off the handle and yelled at me when I had a panic attack. I have every right in the world that when we're fighting he stay away from me. He wasn't trying to protect me, he thought I was going to call 911 simply because I had dirreah and wanted to stop me, knowing full well I was also having a problem with one of my meds since I TOLD HIM it was a medical emergency, and kiaser said if you think it's a medical emergency hang up and call 911, so then he flew off the handle and started being irrational and when I told him to leave he said no and then I came out to confront him and he hit me with an armband. then I punched him yeah, but I also left to get away from him and he kept following me , and I was finally screaming for him to leave me alone. IT IS ABSOLUTELY A OK TO PLACE BOUNDRIES ON SOMEONE WHO IS TRIGGERING YOU, and when they don't listen to your boundries for your own safty, then yeah it's their fault what they get. Do not dare tell me I don't. If your showing your ass and acting like a fool and baiting a sick person who's in a panic attack, by flying off the handle and saying inflamitory things, like fine what ever do what the fuck you want, and I tell you to leave and you say no, and I tell you to stay away from me, you better damned well cause I fucking warned you. I warn him all the time I can not tell if you're friend or foe when I am in a panic you will be hurt, I take responcibility for my part in this, and if you, and this is generic you, come at me anyway knowing you have fucked up and set off a fight, and are now trying to hug me and sooth it over, AFTER YOU ASSAULTED ME and I know I am unstable I have every right to tell you do not come near me do not touch me STAY AWAY. then if you ignore that sorry mother fucker you asked for it. quote:
ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead TFB, From what you told me on the phone the other night, and reading this thread, I'm standing by my suggestion that some longterm in-patient treatment, coupled with ending your relationship with your partner, can only do the both of you good. It's not up to other people to manage your outbursts or deal with you in the way that you prefer when they may be trying to protect themselves or help protect you. Like I said, if someone would've died because you two wrecked the car and caused a fatal accident, your temper tantrums with each other and the world at large, would have been the least of your worries. Seriously. ~ Red
< Message edited by Toppingfrmbottom -- 11/7/2009 10:21:09 PM >
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