LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Removing a collar as punishment.... (3/29/2006 7:39:21 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MyCaptainsPet In a group on Yahoo they are discussing the removal of collars as a form of punishment. i don't know, this just disturbs me... My collar is a symbol of US and of what we are together. Anyone have any thoughts on this???? Are you also on the DDSS group? If not, I always marvel at how similar topics seem to run through online forums at the same time. It depends on what the collar symbolizes, which can vary greatly. If the collar is a gift or a reward to the sub, given as an anniversary present, or just a special piece of jewelry, then it makes sense that it could be taken away as punishment. If it's a symbol of the relationship, then taking it off doesn't seem to make much sense as a punishment. I don't think it really makes a useful punishment anyway- it really doesn't work towards any change in behavior which is what punishment is supposedly about. Instead it's a bit more like taking your crayons and going home. But for some people, it works for them.
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