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"tired of the players but.... here is simething ri... - 7/18/2010 7:10:57 PM

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Ok, I dont know if its just me or maybe its the site ( I think its a lot of who you meet) but it seems like there are alot of Mistresses/Dommes bitching about "Im fed up with the fakes and the jokesters and morons" but then posts some shit like this nugget of gold.

"1. You will buy my prized Babe Ruth signed ball which has a COA done by PSA it is graded a 7. You will purchase it for 3k! It is worth 9k! When you recieve it, you will sleep with it EVERY fucking night. You will be my prized possesion, so you need to have something of mine too. Also, you will hit yourself in the balls with it when I say."

Or maybe a little racism is good for the soul.....

" If you are a white male servant the first thing you must accept is you may no longer consider your self a man. Compared to a real man, a Black Man, you never were a real man any way so get over it. Accept that you are the most inferior person on earth."

There are several others, but I figure I will spare you those. I understand completely that people get jerked around and are tired of it, but seriously, I see this followed by some utterly ridiculous shit on every damn profile I look at (Dommes mainly).

" buy me a house if you're a serious sub" Oh sure! and I would just buy an island with about 20 prostitiutes to fulfill every fantasy I ever had just so that I wouldnt have to read crap like this.

Ok, if my being utterly submissive i.e. (surrending my freedom, time, labor, body, etc) isnt enough for you, then get the hell out of here!!!!!!!!!

Sorry, I need to vent somewhere!

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 7:16:58 PM

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i hate to be a kiss ass dicipline2 (actually, i LOOOOOVE it, but you know what i mean) but no question the women on these sites put up with shit that would straighten our pubic hair. Death threats, hideous abuse, every kind of manipulation and lie... Sure, not a big fan of the financial stuff, but cmon, we have it way easier than They do. Something i try to remember when i'm irritated... But E/everyone does need to vent now and then.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 7:55:00 PM

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It is the web - even worse it is the web on CM - don't worry about it. Ask 'them' to send you a picture holding your name written on a current newspaper. That's what I thought. Do not let it change your seeking the greatest of opposites in a relationship.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 9:28:14 PM

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It is the web - even worse it is the web on CM - don't worry about it. Ask 'them' to send you a picture holding your name written on a current newspaper. That's what I thought. Do not let it change your seeking the greatest of opposites in a relationship.

Be Well
}{Sir Guy }{

And how's that working for you with Dominant women?

I was literally just saying this on another thread. I have no intention of jumping though other people's hoops to prove who I am. There are plenty of folks who have met a number of people on this site that is more than easy to verify. Some time back, Wyldheart started a thread on it so people could list all of the people that they have met in the flesh.

OP. there are a number of ways to find out if someone is who they say they are. Try a search of the Positive Experience forum and look for their screen name amongst the text. (This is different than searching for responses they have given.)

Do the same kind of search in the Upcoming Events forum. You can often find people who have met each other at events in various place.

Ask what munch they attend and make plans to go there.

Of course, there is also the thread that Wyld started that I already mentioned. There are a lot of us on it and many of us know other members of the forum.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 9:35:05 PM

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What is it about their profiles that is getting you to view them?

are these people mailing you?

Allie

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 9:54:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I was literally just saying this on another thread. I have no intention of jumping though other people's hoops to prove who I am. There are plenty of folks who have met a number of people on this site that is more than easy to verify. Some time back, Wyldheart started a thread on it so people could list all of the people that they have met in the flesh.

I agree with you, LP. Everyone on this site takes the same risk in meeting people from online. Why is it some of us seem to have it just like real life where you meet some good, some bad; while others seem to only meet the bottom feeders of CM? I have never asked anyone to send a pic of a signed newspaper nor have I ever sent one. I talk and get to know them. Eventually it goes from emails to chat to phone calls to meetings. To me that is just a normal way to do it. Wonder why I am not meeting a whole lot of fakes and scammers.

BTW-for the life of me I still cannot figure out why there are men on this site who believe that "Mistresses and Dommes" are asking them for money and gifts. Especially when we keep repeating to them that the ones asking for material things before you even meet them (some, before they will even chat with you) are NOT Mistresses and Dommes. (Many are not even women.)

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 9:57:09 PM

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I demand a Mickey Mantle rookie card.

In PRISTINE condition!

MistressJeff

(The use of the word "pristine" makes is clear I am not a fake)

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:06:04 PM

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I demand that the sub in question rent out the entire Reno Aces baseball stadium, and allow me to kick him in the balls right in the middle of the diamond, or he isn't a real sub.
That and a foil Black Lotus Magic the Gathering card, signed by Gary Gygax.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:08:23 PM

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That sounds like Minor League ball to me.

You are a fake! I will send you no cock pics!

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:12:25 PM

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Don't need em. I already have this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vH3o2Q-YLPw.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:14:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

You are a fake! I will send you no cock pics!

Some of us are rather relieved at hearing this statement..

Allie ..

< Message edited by SaintAllie -- 7/18/2010 10:15:42 PM >

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:16:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

You are a fake! I will send you no cock pics!

Some of us are rather relieved at hearing this statement..

Allie ..

Nor clit pics!

MistressJeff

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/18/2010 10:22:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

quote:

ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

You are a fake! I will send you no cock pics!

Some of us are rather relieved at hearing this statement..

Allie ..

Nor clit pics!

MistressJeff

I'd dare you to post a clit pic of an anteater.. but am rather concerned that you'd actually find and post one...

Allie

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 3:13:09 AM

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quote:

Ok, I dont know if its just me or maybe its the site ( I think its a lot of who you meet) but it seems like there are alot of Mistresses/Dommes bitching about "Im fed up with the fakes and the jokesters and morons" but then posts some shit like this nugget of gold.

Actually you could leave out the Mistress/Domme part and just say there are a lot of people bitching about others.

So now maybe you could explain why you felt the need to start one more thread bitching about people? Seriously, don't you think most of us are already aware that there are some really stupid profiles out there? Did you really think it would help to post examples of them here?

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 3:57:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: SaintAllie

I'd dare you to post a clit pic of an anteater.. but am rather concerned that you'd actually find and post one...

Allie

Hey, Jeffff, ya might wanna check to make sure you have good health care insurance before ya tackle THAT assignment...

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 4:10:27 AM

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Dicipline,

From my experience, there are three categories of Domme profile out there. One will make the woman in question look normal. You could imagine talking to her as a human being. The second is the same, but looks more bad-tempered. Those in that category usually aren't prickly, though: they've just written their profiles that way as in reaction to the tonnes of crap mails they get.

The third type aren't Dommes. They're just people looking for a way of emptying mens' wallets. Or they have some other silly little agenda. The Dommes using these forums get pretty insulted if they're lumped together with that third type, unsurprisingly.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 4:12:57 AM

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I didn't find a pic, but I did find info:

It appears there is no difference on the surface since the males gonads are internal and their sexual organs are small and very similar to the female. It's relatively simple however to tell the difference. When you look at the openings of their external sexual parts there is a marked difference. The male's opening will be a hole at the end and the female a slit down the middle but you need to get hands on as the males have a line that could appear to be a slit and the females have a clitoris which could be mistaken for the head of a penis. The males sexual mound tends to be more pointed and crescent shaped. The whole thing gets firm and the tip is inserted sideways into the female. *

I'm thrilled to learn that Jeffff (with FOUR F's)has a crescent shaped love mobile and goes at it sideways... I could have lived my whole life without that info...

*From this website: http://hubpages.com/hub/Anteater-Care-Sheet

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 4:15:33 AM

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The second is the same, but looks more bad-tempered. Those in that category usually aren't prickly, though: they've just written their profiles that way as in reaction to the tonnes of crap mails they get.

SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

You, Peon, have no sense of discretion. Don't give me away like that.

:P

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 4:18:33 AM

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FR

I don't have to read anybody's profile so what people put into their profile usually doesn't concern me much, bit of a difference to getting mails in your inbox.

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RE: "tired of the players but.... here is simethin... - 7/19/2010 10:40:09 AM

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And how's that working for you with Dominant women?

I was literally just saying this on another thread. I have no intention of jumping though other people's hoops to prove who I am.

What LP said. Meet me at a Munch if you're that paranoid about verifying my identity, or piss off. Not jumping through anybody's hoops to prove anything. The farthest I'll go is a very brief, polite, friendly, non explicit voice call. Not posing for weird pictures, not meeting you alone for coffee (50-50 you won't show up anyways), and not doing webcam (you'll probably be wanking to it no matter how conservatively I'm dressed). Insist on more than that because you're that paranoid? Then we're not a good match, these aren't the droids you're looking for, move along.

Yes, there are scam artists and flat out bugfuck crazy people out there. I get that. But if you let it make you so bitter and paranoid that you try to make people jump through bizarre hoops before you can even be polite to them, then they've already won. Set reasonable boundaries that make sense, and don't expect strangers to do weird shit. Mostly they're not gonna.

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