SexyBossyBBW
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ORIGINAL: daintydimples It has been my experience that there is a huge difference between male and female subs. Yes, male subs do exist. It will take time and patience to get them past the fantasy only do me phase. Which is perhaps difficult to achieve if you are domming for bucks I submit that the process of getting males past the fantasy, to accepting and allowing a D/s relationship, to emerge organically, is difficult, even when one is not domming for money. For what it's worth, I do think there is a need for teaching. There is nothing wrong, with teaching the basics of gentleman manners, obedience, listening skills, learning, interacting with a (dominant) lady, without coming across as a corosive wanker. I further, do not consider charging for said lessons to be corrupt. No one can teach him about me personally. If after attending AcademyForSlaves, he comes to me with communication skills, doesn't perceive healthy male ego as being contrary to obedience. If his percetion of service equals his lady's understanding of service, and is his primary focus, he'd have been well served/trained. The rest, I would take on gladly. quote:
Male subs can easily be every bit as sub as a female, and the best ones I know have learned from fem subs how to put their own needs on the back burner and concentrate on SERVING. This makes perfect sense to me, since I often identify submission, as expressed in large part, by female submissives. quote:
A magnificent male sub/slave is a pleasure to behold, as is a female sub/slave. The intensity of their desire to serve tends to subsume all other aspects of their dynamic Agreed. M
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