Rochsub2009 -> RE: A mature submissive? (8/15/2012 7:44:21 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Timonat I am beginning to find submissives my age somewhat tedious and am now leaning towards the older more experienced submissive........ I find it psychologically fascinating......... In our society we are used to our elders being figures of authority, pretty much all the way through our lives. To turn the concept on its head by dominating an older woman is very exciting and psychologically wonderfully intense and fascinating in my opinion. Timonat, I can definitely relate to your interest in dominating someone older. The contrast in age, and the breaking of age appropriate roles, can be very erotic. I have stated in the past that one of my most enjoyable experiences in the D/s lifestyle was submitting to a 21 year old Domme. I was in my mid-30's at the time, and I was a successful corporate executive. She was a full-time college student. I was far more educated than she was. I had far more life experience than she did. And when we were out together, people sometimes thought that she was my daughter. In every way, I should have held the dominant position over her. I could have been her boss. Or teacher. Or counselor. Or parent. Or mentor. Yet, i was her submissive, violating all societal norms. Both of us found this to be incredibly erotic. She enjoyed dominating someone who was older, and more powerful (in societal terms) than she was. She liked bossing around someone who should have been over her. Knowing that I was close to her parents' age was really exciting to her. And she particularly like dominating me in public. She got more aroused by having others see her dominating an "older man". For me, the opposite was true. There was something very erotic about submitting to someone who could have been my daughter (or much younger sister). The age contrast made my submission feel more.........naughty. When we were out in public, it always surprised people when she would give me an order, and I would respond by saying "Yes Ma'am". They were shocked to see what appeared to be a daughter giving her father orders, and he was obeying her. I drove a foreign luxury car, and she loved having me chauffeur her around in it. Particularly when she had several of her girlfriends with her. She enjoyed telling them that I was a VP at XYZ company, but that I was also her slave and obeyed all of her commands. Then she'd say, "Isn't that right?", and I'd have to say "Yes Ma'am". Of course, all of her girlfriends would start giggling. None of our activities was unique for a D/s relationship. Yet the age difference made them much more noticeable, and IMO, more powerful and erotic. In some ways, it was a form of age play. So despite the responses that you've received so far, don't be discouraged. I understand and appreciate your desire to dominate someone older than you. It can be very hot if done right. But based on the responses that you've gotten from the ladies, you obviously need to be careful about how you bring up the age issue. [;)]
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