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What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for in a... - 8/13/2012 9:16:39 PM

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What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for in a potential sub's profile?

I feel like my profiles not as good as it could be... just curious what makes a good sub's profile..

Thanks

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/13/2012 9:21:02 PM

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I'm not a Mistress...sorry ladies for "stepping on your turf".

IMHO..... I didn't like any of your photos. Cut the cock photos... seriously... you think women you don't know want to see your cock? Grow up.

The ass photos are appalling as well.

Do you walk around showing your cock to people in the grocery store? (I hope the answer is no...) You should treat this site... and your photos/profile as a first impression.

Stop trying to impress people ..with something that isn't so impressive. How about you just try being yourself with a normal photo of your face.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/13/2012 9:36:01 PM

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This is the message your are sending out with your current picture selection.

Now, if that's the message you are trying to convey, than job well done.
Granted, it's fine if it's really just your cock thats looking to be dominated,
but you aren't going to attract any free rides with it.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/13/2012 9:49:40 PM

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thanks for the feedback... I mean that photo is pretty much accurate but definitely not what im trying to convey :) jk jk

so what pics are good pics?

Thanks
HB

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/13/2012 10:20:23 PM

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If you're looking for a relationship, then consider awhat you would wear for the job interview of your dreams, which is what this is; Dommes like suits.
I like torso pics! I also like artsy clothed or tasteful semi-nude pics/B&W in shadow. Some ladies require a face pic; I don't require one until after a few e-mail exchanges.

As above, by definition, every man has a cock, and yours is no different from billions of others, yet somehow you are all convinced you have the best/prettiest/biggest; we know better. Yawn.
But your brain and heart can make you stand out.

As for your profile, add some vanilla interests, and get rid of the extra chica/chico pix on your wall so a prospective Domme won't think you're just into gathering a picture gallery. If you're bi-: say so.
Although the phrase 'handsome brute' is well-known to some, others may be turned off by the 'brute'; we hear from all too many of those, too.

Bonne chance!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/13/2012 11:17:30 PM

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Look Handsome...

It's clear you want a few FWB's, some kinky sex, a little adventure. Your profile is perfect for that. Don't change a thing, Doll, but do use a rubber, mkay?

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 8:35:01 AM

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HB, after looking at your fotos, all I want to say is "Pack it in", we're nearly not as impressed with a cock (unless you really manage to stick some feathers on) than you are

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 8:46:52 AM

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The whole profile needs work. It says "I am a male sub". That's it. Your sole journal entry says you're up for NSA play sessions. Any woman can get a play partner just by standing still, so you're not offering them anything unique.

Dominant women are nothing more than women who happen to be Dominant. As such, they go for the sort of stuff women go for. You gotta paint them pictures.

Your photos should show you, WITH CLOTHES ON, doing the sorts of stuff you like to do. One guy had pics of himself playing soccer, and one of him playing the piano. I'd recommend pics of you using a wrench on a car, riding a horse, riding a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument, fully dressed for a night on the town, etc. Whatever you like to do, give a pic. Each pic should say, "This is an aspect of my life."

The rest of your profile should describe who you are. What kind of job you hold - desk job, blue collar, student, etc. What do you do for fun? The quirkier the better - mention your standup hobby or that you play drums in a punk band on weekends.

Make your profile describe the kind of man a woman would like to be with.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 8:53:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: HandsomeBrute

What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for in a potential sub's profile?

I feel like my profiles not as good as it could be... just curious what makes a good sub's profile..

I know that you asked for help from "Mistresses/Goddesses", but perhaps a fellow male sub can give you a hand.

Your profile sucks! But the reason that it sucks is that you're thinking like a man. Try thinking like a woman.

For example, men tend to be visually oriented. So you included lots of pictures in your profile. Men like looking at breast and other female parts, so you included lots of cock shots. Men don't like to talk much, so there is very little text in your profile. And despite saying that you are a sub, the little bit of text that you have basically tells the dominant women exactly what you want them to do to you. See the problem?

Instead, why not try thinking like a woman. Get rid of the disrespectful photos (e.g. the cock shots and ass shots). Most women won't like those. But your ab shots are okay. One of our most popular male subs leads with a nice ab shot.

Then, add more text to your profile. Women want to know the person on the inside, not just the penis on the outside. So write more about yourself. Tell them why you're interesting. Make them want to know more about you.

The title of this thread was a huge sign that you were clueless. After all, even the title focused on pics rather than text. You should have been asking "What type of content do Dommes (don't call them Mistresses/Goddesses) like to see in a profile".

I hope that helps. Sorry for calling you "clueless", but you kinda are.

Good luck in your search.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:00:36 AM

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*swoooooon* I do SO adore you, Roch!!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:01:35 AM

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The consensus of my female friends on Fetl is that torso shot = douche. I cannot convince them otherwise.

I really don't look at profiles, except when they pop up on my feed when I check my cmail. I still use that HIDE function for whatever is especially heinous.

Bambi has a marvellous point---aim for your target market. If your target market is FWB, then this might not be the site that gets you the best results these days. Have fun, regardless.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:01:51 AM

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Your photos should show you, WITH CLOTHES ON, doing the sorts of stuff you like to do. One guy had pics of himself playing soccer, and one of him playing the piano. I'd recommend pics of you using a wrench on a car, riding a horse, riding a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument, fully dressed for a night on the town, etc. Whatever you like to do, give a pic. Each pic should say, "This is an aspect of my life."

I'm not dominant but I am a woman, and I owuld like to say this ^^^ a million times.

I only want to fuck interesting people. You list yourself as male so I am going to assume you have a penis. What I don't know is whether you have any personality. I assume your profile pictures show the things you value about yourself and that's what you have to offer. So clearly you think you have a really hot body. And you do. But there's lots of hot bodies around, and being greatly outnumbered, dommes can have their pick. You need something extra.

Also I think lots of mirror shots, especially nude and semi-nude ones, give the impression that you really like looking at yourself in the mirror.

A nice clothed shot which hints at some interest or skill you have. Should be taken by someone else to prove you occasionally leave the house. Keep the 'my bod is smokin'' shots to one or two, and leave out the cock until someone asks to see it.

Your profile suggests that you are just looking for an ass to lick and a pair of sweaty feet to worship. Tell us what kind of woman you would like - think beyond fetishes. Do you want someone to work out with? Someone who loves to travel or cook? Someone spontaneous? A party girl or someone who likes quiet nights in?

Then tell us what you have to offer that person. What are you good at (not sex acts! Everyone thinks they're good at sex!)? Can you give a great massage? Do you love to come up with fun surprises for your partner? Can you offer lively philosophical debate? Do you love animals or play the sax or can you make sure her car always runs smoothly? It's easy for a domme to find someone to worship her feet and ass - you can't swing a cat without hitting a couple round here. Show her why you should be the one she hands those sweaty socks to.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:05:33 AM

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*adoring Athena again*

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:40:42 AM

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That's enough adoring for today, Greedy.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:45:10 AM

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That's enough adoring for today, Greedy.

getting greedy, Peon? You know that my adoration for you knows no bounds...

but I DO have enough left over to adore others... even if not to the degree that I adore YOU!!

*kiss hug and grope*

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 9:49:57 AM

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That's enough adoring for today, Greedy.

getting greedy, Peon? You know that my adoration for you knows no bounds...

but I DO have enough left over to adore others... even if not to the degree that I adore YOU!!

*kiss hug and grope*

Hell's bells, you're incorrigible!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 10:14:04 AM

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and this is NEWS to you?? Sheesh....

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 10:27:40 AM

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What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for in a potential sub's profile?

I feel like my profiles not as good as it could be... just curious what makes a good sub's profile..

Thanks

I've seen a few frustrated subs on here complaining in a way that suggests a picture of your bank statement might be a big win with some dommes, but that could just be sour grapes on their part.

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 10:45:47 AM

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personally? I think Gothy's avi pic is just HAWT!!!

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RE: What kind of pics do Mistresses/Goddesses look for ... - 8/14/2012 11:03:35 AM

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Clothes. We like clothes.

Cock shots. Kiss of death. We don't really have any interest in your cock unless we are actually fucking you. Even then, we probably don't want you showing the goods to the rest of the world.

Ass shots where you are bent over are also a huge turn off. Great! You have an asshole and want to be fucked. This is the most unoriginal shot on a kink site. I mean, think about it. Do you really find your asshole attractive? No, we don't, either.

The standing torso with the head chopped off. Yes, we know. You think, "hey! as a guy, I like looking at boobs" and the face is an after thought. Guess what? Women don't work that way. Your pecks or abs aren't nearly as interesting if we don't see you as somebody with a personality.

All of the above on your profile? Take them all down and start over.

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