freedomdwarf1
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders Also, and perhaps this makes me a snob, I don't find it hard to use capital letters and full stops. I'm not perfect, but it takes little conscious effort to use reasonably good grammar. If someone defaults to using text speak or very poor spelling or grammar, that says it's too much effort for them to write properly, either because they are exceptionally lazy, or because they find it exceptionally hard. Someone who is at a very different intellectual or educational level than me might not be a good match. (Yes, I know, learning difficulties can mask this and I'm speaking only in very general terms) I don't think it makes you a snob Athena. I think it's a reasonable expectation for most initial contacts. It wouldn't be the first time I've turned someone down because it is obvious they couldn't be assed to put in any effort. Although punctuation, spelling and grammar isn't the be-all and end-all of everything, it certainly helps that they are either intelligent/articulate enough to spell reasonably well or to have taken the time (and effort) to make it look reasonable. Another thing that really urks me is slang-speak. When you finally get to chat on IM, you ask a question and you get "yer" as an answer. It just shows how uncouth and uneducated they are. I don't consider it as 'cool' but rather as uncouth and very unnecessary. And to be honest, if something like that, no matter how irrelevant it seems to some, is something that is going to grate on your nerves every time, then perhaps it is just as important as many other things. Maybe I'm just too old fashioned to expect anyone to make any effort these days.
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