MadameMarque
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Respect! That's a good deed, to expand upon that subject of stalking and violation of boundaries. I've heard that book, The Gift of Fear, touted before. One of the measures I have for whether someone poses a potential threat, is signals that they're not really aware of others, except as objects of their attention. For example, they aren't responding appropriately to what you're saying, they're not picking up your signals as a normal person would. Like this person you describe in this thread, they can't put themselves in the other person's place, they only know what they want to do and what they want from the other person. These are bad signs. quote:
ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze He didn't explain how he did it, he said by "being a bit of a geek" he managed to track her down. Seriously, I tried my best to explain to him that she won't be flattered and that it is intrusive, he didn't get it at all... On the bright side, I decided to throw together a blog entry with a ton of resources for people that are stalked, the victims tend to be mainly women and only a few of them go to the police, I would assume that if it's kink related even less dare to ask for help and report it. Not completely selfless though, having had the dubious pleasure of a stalker for several years, I found it very empowering, almost like I'm reclaiming a bit of my own life. Anybody who knows of some better links, I gladly add them, just thought it might be a good idea to have - while not everything - a ton of things in one place, it seems to be the elephant in the room, nobody likes to admit it happens to them, often the victim is actually ashamed, if they know it happens to others too, maybe more speak out, there is more awareness and hopefully steeper punishments for stalkers. So yes, if anybody knows of anybody being stalked, feel free to pass it on: Resources for Stalking Victims If anybody has more links or better links, I'll gladly include them.
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