dreamlady
Posts: 737
Joined: 9/13/2007 From: Western MD Status: offline
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~[Supposed to be a ]Fast Reply~ Not a submissive, so I have to look at it like this. You are willing to meet an Internet stranger who comes with essentially no character references, no work references, and chance having him/her move into your home. (Please tell me you don't have any children living with you or who come over to visit.) This person would still have renter's rights, if I'm not mistaken (if you put anything in writing, message exchanges, e-mails, etc). You might want to look into that, whether a boarder without a lease can be easily removed if not complying with verbal 30-day notice to vacate, or whether you would have to get the police involved -- Do you really want to have to possibly go there? What if said boarder tries to have you charged with false imprisonment? I bring this up because you have no idea how well and how thoroughly this person can do housework. This person may be a lousy housekeeper. Some people can ruin the laundry if they don't know what they're doing. What if his/her cooking stinks? Are you planning on holding auditions? Because unless this individual is experienced in performing domestic duties (in which case he/she doesn't need to be working for just room & board), and can be vouched for, you are playing Russian roulette with your lives and with your peace of mind. You refer to "housework, cooking, etc." Are you expecting your boarder to be a live-in servant who has no job outside the home? If not, then how is he/she going to pay for his/her health insurance, car insurance, gas money -- or are you planning on allowing your boarder to have access to one of your vehicles? (Lone shopping trips?) He/she might end up lounging on your couch half the day watching your large flatscreen TV, playing video games and YouTube videos. Will he/she be allowed to have friends come over? You don't make it sound as if you're looking for a poly arrangement. So you're okay with indulging non-sexual fetishes and doing non-sexual play scenes with this service sub? I don't think either of you have really thought this through. If you had, you would bide your time by putting out feelers in the BDSM community going strictly by word of mouth. If not, then why can't you as a couple be vouched for? DreamLady
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Love is born with the pleasure of looking at each other, it is fed with the necessity of seeing each other, it is concluded with the impossibility of separation. ~José Marti
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