UllrsIshtar -> RE: Master's must master the whole slave? (11/20/2016 3:25:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterSpiritual Am I alone in my belief that to master your slave/sub you go beyond the physical and mental aspects to work with the slave/sub at the emotional and psyche level also? I want my slave/sub to be all-in, not just her body and parts of her mind. I believe to really place the collar in the correct place, she must feel like there is no quality of life without you in her life. It is not the collar we place around their necks, but the collar we place around their hearts, that make them submissive to us and to our desires for them. I rambled around this site and others for years, watching and reading. I see sub/slaves rant about all the things missing in those contacting them. So I wonder, as a sub/slave, does the majority want the collar on their neck or on their heart? My motto: Know Thyself First, and you may know others. Here's a hint for you... love makes a Master weak... and slaves need strong Masters. Only somebody who doesn't actually accept that their slave is an actual slave, or who doesn't know how to master a slave, will be weakened by love. if my Master told me he loved me it wouldn't be good for me. Then, if he loved you, and he understood you were a slave, he should be smart enough not to tell you that he loves you. That's exactly what a strong Master would do in that circumstance, btw: continue to meet your needs as a slave, regardless of the fact that he loved you, by not informing you of the fact that he did, and thus not triggering the insecurity it would cause. Edited to add: Or he'd train you to overcome your insecurities, and be able to accept being loved while still feeling mastered. It would depend on his personal preferences really, the amount of time he wanted to put into it, and how important he considered it to prioritizing overcoming this defect in your personality compared to other issues you have be wanted to work on. Personally I'll probably do the later one with my slave, and get her to overcome her insecurities around 'being loved' meaning 'no longer being kept as a slave' even if I never do end up loving her. Other priorities to hit first though, so it's currently pretty low on my list.
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