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LadyPact -> RE: Dommes (3/8/2017 3:11:49 PM)
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Sorry to say, but so many submissives here are full of self-entitlement, kink-centricity, and self-absorption . They must believe they are interesting men and can treat others like fetish delivery systems and wank fodder suppliers with impunity,
Even those who just want their kinks fulfilled, which at least I do get the concept, they give nothing and expect only to take from others.
The people who hook up long term with these submissives/bottoms must have extremely low self esteem to allow themselves to be treated this way.
But it seems quite common i.n the culture here.
Sometimes it takes a while to separate the wheat from the chaff. Apologies to any decent submissives out there who are not fitting my description above. But many do!
There. I fixed it for you.
Here's my opinion. We're definitely looking at a 'common denominator' situation. (As in, the common denominator in all of your interactions is you.) Even though I was pretty much aware of what I would find, I checked out your forum posts. At least two thirds of them were you trying to get Dominant women to talk to you about this kink or that kink. Another were a number of posts complaining that Dominant women won't interact with you. The rest were topics opening with some version of 'I was interacting with a Domme online... blah, blah, blah'.
This makes you come across as boring hook-up/cyber guy, which no woman on the site has trouble finding. Even as somebody who does play casually, I can assure you that I've got no interest in boring hook-up/cyber guys because they have little depth or dimension. They are just varied versions of one trick ponies and/or HNGs. The people who do want that kind of thing can find it all over the internet and will generally engage with someone who makes one boring guy better than the other.
It might be worth considering that, if you are not getting the results that you want, change your approach.
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