needlesandpins
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I can't cover all I want now but will in 14 hours from now sigh.
Needles, what I keep trying to explain to you but you're too damn dumb to understand is that its not being ill mannered to approach someone with a conversation about BDSM on a BDSM website unless....I have already explained.. Wanna be my mistress etc.
If you even think its ill mannered for a man to approach it in a laid back and respectful way, you are the one with the problem. You would have a point if we're on a non BDSM site but you can't seem to admit or acknowledge my point that we are on a BDSM site where everything on here relates to BDSM. It seems that you have a bug up your arse. What you are basically doing is being bitter. You are judging men based on no fact, just your sexist predijuce. You can't tell if a male is going to be a user until you have further conversation and meet him. Yet you automatically assume he is simply because he has a penis.
That attitude is the problem, yet you are calling me the gender hater. Sure, there are men who you claim that exist. But this needs to stop being exaggerated and this needs to stop being used as an excuse to treat all men bad when they happen to mention BDSM in a respectful manner on a BDSM site.
You have no right telling others they can't talk about BDSM on a fucking BDSM website. If you come in here with your kinky profile and kinky pictures, don't expect a male that you see from a bloody romance novel to come walzing in his shining armor.
You are telling me to grow up and act like an adult while you are stamping your feet at the vast majority of the male population because they don't think things should work in a female centered point of view.
Aren't it funny how you classify me as childish to criticise women yet here you are criticising the vast majority of men and claiming they are all wrong and you are right. Now that's damn childish! Why? Because you refuse to understand that men are different, therefore, things don't work properly for them if you demand it to work from a female centered point of view.
Before you jump in and claim that I'm being a hypocrite and want it in a male centered view...no that's not it at all. I'm asking to compromise differences.
You seem to think a male not working things in a female centered point of view is childish when having that exact mentality is childish within its self.
More irony, you tell me to stop whinging like a little bitch while you are blasting the vast majority of the male population for not being like women laughs.
If you thought I was serious when I said "turn lesbian" it shows how out of touch you are.
You don't need to go in to any more detail, because it will just be more of your same old crap.
You see, again, you entirely miss the point.
This, for you has never been about decent men contacting women in a decent well mannered way, and where a conversation is struct up on a mutual basis, which for the record, I have never once stated I have an issue with. You see, on that basis, then yes, on a kink site, of course you expect the conversation to go along the lines of mutual interest early on.
However, your bitch fits have been entirely on female entitlement, and how women treat men as sub humans because of men being a certain way, and how if men are a certain way on a kink site well women should actually expect this and put up with it.
When I contacted my ex playmate I didn't send him a do me list, I actually sent him a compliment on one of his photos. There was actually no intention at all of thought of him being a playmate, and in fact there was someone else much more local on the cards who had got in contact with me. That guy had also approached me in a very well mannered way on another site, actually a swinging site, but still not in a fashion of 'fuck me now'. In both cases we'd been speaking for a while, and that's how the first guy and I found out that actually it wasn't going to work out.
You also seem to forget something really fricking vital in this whole thing here. It really is especially different for women on their own. There are, regardless of your tiny perception, predatory men out there, there are men out there that don't have the first clue what they are doing, and when you are single with children, you have them to take in to consideration too, even if it is no strings attached.
Regardless of your tiny little view of the world, it is a massive difference for women meeting men, and yeah, guess what, plenty have been stung enough to not give a crap about all the cocks that drop in to their inbox unsolicited.
You've never lead anything with the 'well mannered, well written mail, good approach' point, because that isn't what you whinge about.
Notice how there is only tamaka ever on your side? no-one else agrees with you.
I'm not the one that's dumb, I'm not stamping my feet, and I've repeated put many points across that you totally ignore simply because it knocks your petty theory out of the water.
For instance, on your silly Lesbian note, because it is really petty, and dumb, simply because you failed to apply this SEXUALITY to your own agenda, but what happens to your silly little agenda when it's a Domme doing this to a woman? because women pay other women for pro sessions too, and are treated no differently to men.
Now this may also knock your keyboard socks off, but what happens when it's men on men? Because shock fricking horror, gay men also pay male Doms to session, and they are still treated exactly the same way as women would treat them.
You see, this is where you fail to Adult, because you just don't get how it all works. No-one owes anyone anything special when it's paid for, or someone just wants their own kink relief. You're the one that keeps saying that it should when it comes to women. I've put my views over, which everyone else seems to understand, except for you, and tamaka.
That would suggest that you two are the ones with the issues. That's a reflection on your poor integrity, standards, and self, not mine.
Needles
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