LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: Shandirra @OP - You ~do~ realize that "safe" is the biggest misnomer in BDSM, don't you? Nothing done in the fetish world is ever safe. Which is part of the taboo appeal of the realm. Point is, every single suggestion made so far has the 'potential' to harm, even permanently, the subject. What makes the potential manageable is the steps that all parties involved take to minimize the risk for damage. One method; for any impact play, use a pillow with a sheet of paper taped upon it for target practice. (Whips, canes, crops, Evil Stick, etc.) The more damage to the paper = more damage to skin. Bear in mind, certain areas of skin are more resilient than others. IE; bottom of feet versus inner crease of any joint. More resilient = able to soak more damage. Testing various implements or methods on yourself is admirable. However, your subject's paint tolerance or reactions is their own. Their ability to process or endure pain may be quite higher/lower than your own. It really comes down to build up coupled with trial and error. Does my tale of caution mean you shouldn't do any of those wonderful suggestions? Not at all. Being a sadist, I was cheering several of them on. What I want you to do is use the greatest tool in your arsenal, your mind. Use that to protect your subject. Not to be a party pooper, but most of the suggestions, you will have to be seriously stupid to harm somebody permanently with them, and if somebody is that stupid, I doubt they will have managed to make it to the site without croaking beforehand. The part I have a problem with is, that if you do want to step it up and make it painful for somebody but in a safe manner, if that is what you really want, your mind (general you) should be in overdrive and the question would be "What can go wrong with ... What do I have to watch out for?" I mean any sadist won't have a problem hurting somebody or thinking about ways how to do it
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