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Vacation without my dom - 6/17/2017 4:34:31 PM   
Hotcuppajo


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I'm about to go away for two weeks without my dom. What's a good way to keep serving him while im gone?
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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/17/2017 5:59:25 PM   
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Umm.....unless you can fly like Superman, you can't "serve" him if you aren't in front of him.

On the other hand, if you behave as if he was, you are serving the ideal of him. Not as satisfying for him, but good for you.

and as a human being, I would think he would want you to enjoy your vacation and come back refreshed.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/17/2017 7:42:25 PM   
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Do you normally wish him good morning? Then you can test him that.
If you frequently bake him cookies, you could order some from a local bakery and have him pick them up. Or get an Uber driver to deliver them for you. Or order from Etsy or Amazon.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 2:26:05 PM   
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I love that idea!!! 💕💕

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 2:34:20 PM   
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Do what you're told.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 3:13:53 PM   
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You'll have to excuse me.

This whole 'two week' idea just isn't a big deal to me.

Let me explain myself. I've been a military wife for fifteen years. Two whole weeks is like sneezing to me. I'd have traded any of those four, separate, year long deployments for some kind of two week vacation.

If you are pissing your pants over not being in the presence of your S/O for a whole dang fourteen days, I'm going to tell you to grow the hell up. You are (supposedly) a responsible adult. You don't need other people to tell you how to serve while you're away. You already know.

I highly doubt you really needed other people to tell you this.



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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 3:22:01 PM   
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You'll have to excuse me.

This whole 'two week' idea just isn't a big deal to me.

Let me explain myself. I've been a military wife for fifteen years. Two whole weeks is like sneezing to me. I'd have traded any of those four, separate, year long deployments for some kind of two week vacation.

If you are pissing your pants over not being in the presence of your S/O for a whole dang fourteen days, I'm going to tell you to grow the hell up. You are (supposedly) a responsible adult. You don't need other people to tell you how to serve while you're away. You already know.

I highly doubt you really needed other people to tell you this.




LP- the rest of us don't base our lives on yours.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 3:55:27 PM   
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Whats your address again so I can burgle you?

Anyway you women you are are aware wickeds cock is a destination and it likes
Cuddles and cake offering, etc

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 3:58:03 PM   
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LP- the rest of us don't base our lives on yours.


Might do some folks good.

You folks on the other side of the slash? You're honestly not children. You honestly don't NEED a Dominant to stand over your shoulder and teach you how to ADULT.




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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:00:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact


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LP- the rest of us don't base our lives on yours.


Might do some folks good.

You folks on the other side of the slash? You're honestly not children. You honestly don't NEED a Dominant to stand over your shoulder and teach you how to ADULT.





And now you are making assumptions about her intent.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:01:55 PM   
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Whats your address again so I can burgle you?

Anyway you women you are are aware wickeds cock is a destination and it likes
Cuddles and cake offering, etc


I'll be sure to let you know when i'm in Scotland. Your cock will be so happy you'll forget all about cake. ;)

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:06:12 PM   
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I am not sure it works any more or I can get it up

But I do like cuddles x

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:12:10 PM   
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I am not sure it works any more or I can get it up

But I do like cuddles x


Me too. :)

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:22:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


LP- the rest of us don't base our lives on yours.


Might do some folks good.

You folks on the other side of the slash? You're honestly not children. You honestly don't NEED a Dominant to stand over your shoulder and teach you how to ADULT.





And now you are making assumptions about her intent.


A vacation is supposed to be... A vacation. Stay up late, sleep in, order that dish from the restaurant that you'd probably never make for yourself at home because it really does have 15,000 calories. Have the glass of wine that your partner wouldn't drink or go places with your girlfriends that your partner wouldn't dig. Walk on the beach. Look at the stars, etc.

(Please try to avoid things that would land you in jail. Orange really isn't the new black.)

Point is, a vacation or time away from a partner, doesn't mean just because they aren't in the same room with you, doesn't mean you are unpartnered in some way. Ya still know the difference between right and wrong, yes?



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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:40:00 PM   
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One must have 45 glasses of wine mulady ;) 1 glass who the fuk are you kidding.

Op lacks reality. If I had another we would vacate together...between my savage beatings of course

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 4:45:44 PM   
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Forty-five glasses of wine would put me into an alcohol induced coma.


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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 5:04:52 PM   
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you all know I have a twin sister. She can totally drink me under the table with her posh wine v my cheapo shite

No-one has just "one" glass


Anyone who says just one glass is on their third liver

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/18/2017 8:48:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hotcuppajo

I'm about to go away for two weeks without my dom. What's a good way to keep serving him while im gone?


Act in such a way that he would be proud of you.

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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/19/2017 11:29:19 AM   
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I'm about to go away for two weeks without my dom. What's a good way to keep serving him while im gone?


What makes you serve him while he is sleeping? He has no ability to enforce rules, protocols but you still serve. You can immerse yourself in a way a dominant never can. Your life, sleep included, may be disturbed any moment of the day or night at his whim.

I am leaving on my own vacation and I am considering drawing a boundary at getting arrested. You might want consider it as well. It would be better to get picked up at the airport than from prison..probably..maybe.


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RE: Vacation without my dom - 6/19/2017 2:09:20 PM   
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I'm about to go away for two weeks without my dom. What's a good way to keep serving him while im gone?


Some ideas, but a lot of this will depend on what his AND your interests are:

Make sure you come back refreshed, rested, and stimulated from your trip, so you sparkle with that 'after vacation glow' and are interesting/stimulating for him to be around. Go get a massage, go to the spa, work on your tan by relaxing with a good book, so you come back in top shape for him.

Learn, do, practice some new skill he might be interesting in you picking up an interest in (belly dancing, yoga, horseback riding, scuba diving... whatever matches both of your interests).

Do fun, interesting, exciting things, so you have something to talk about/share with him when you get back, and can draw from your new experiences to provide entertaining, engaging conversation for him.




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