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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 2:58:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

I take issue when people think fat people can't be confident. I suppose that's a bit hostile. i agree with school stuff tho.

You're correct, it was a mistake to include the word confident. I would appreciate if you would drop the hostility? Especially now that you have admitted it.
Thank you.

*edit/blush I used the word 'now' too many times for comfort.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:00:44 PM

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Why does this type of thread always get so much attentionBiggest Problem in the World is FAT
Fat Women- no such thing as Fat men

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:05:02 PM

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I know that as a society we have a problem with obesity and I want to preclude all those who will respond with..... a little overweight or a little larger. This is for the 350lb individual that should be seeking major medical help not walking around thinking this makes them attractive

They are still attractive to others. I wonder what would have happened if you would have posted this under your normal male slave nick. Do you email bbws under that nick? Is that why you changed on the nick, so as not to hurt your hunting grounds?

Edited to add: even though there is no pic on your other profile, I looked so you would know I knew who I was talking about............(I like the ..., adds something, don't you think?)

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:12:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: gothicdiva

Being relatively new to the forums, I didn't realize you could have a different pic specifically for the forums? I thought that the pics on here ARE the same as on the profiles and I don't know why they wouldn't be. And no, I don't click on most avatars or pics, etc. and read the majority of people's profiles unless I find them of interest in some way. I was wondering how some pics that seem to violate the TOS IMHO have found their way on here as well...however, that is another thread in itself.

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If you feel that way, report the picture/profile. They are only human at the top, and would review any pics you reported.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:15:38 PM

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I was overweight. Now I am underweight. I was healthier overweight - now I struggle with so many issues I thought I would never have. The vain side of me says I would not go back to where I was, the sane side of me says I will probably die younger because of what I have done to my body my whole life. Sigh.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:53:28 PM

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hypo theyroidism will do it, otherwise i cant think of anything else that could cause it.

You're kidding right? There are many genetic reasons why everybody in a family would gain weight, including what area of the world their ancestors came from.

There isn't only one medical reason to make a person not be able to lose weight.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 3:57:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: MellowSir

Well it shouldn't be encouraged if only because it's just unhealthy. I like women of all sizes, for bdsm/sex/friendship, but wouldn't marry a bbw mostly because my partner would literally have to keep up with vanilla activities, ie hiking, biking, etc.....

You are buying into the hype that most people buy into.

Just because a person is overweight, that doesn't make them unable to go hiking or biking or anything. And the inverse it true as well. Just because a person is 'normal' weight, doesn't make them able to go hiking or biking or anything.

See, that's where the PR is working (to everybody's detriment). By saying that fat people can't be active and suffer from more health problems then skinny or 'normal' sized people enough, they get the majority of the people to believe them.

Even if it has no scientific basis.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:06:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: merrysbrat

There's a point people can reach where it's obvious they're not exercising enough, it's all fat and no muscle, and that's when it gets unhealthy.

Who gets to define that point?

I was walking 4 miles a day (5-7 times a week), biking up to 10 miles a day 2 or 3 times a week, swimming (not playing in the pool doing laps) for an hour a day, and was still over 100 pounds overweight. I'd tell the doctors what I was doing, and they'd call me a liar.

After I moved from the area I was doing that (which was midwest flatlands) and moved to the east coast mountains, I mountain hiked 2 or 3 times a week (on catagory 4 or 5 hiking paths, not QUITE into mountain climbing but pretty strenuous exersizing), did aerobics tapes at home every day, and continued walking 4 miles a day (only about 3 times a week though). Again, the doctors called me a liar.

One doctor went so far as to say, "If you are doing all that exersize, you wouldn't be as fat as you are."

I've now got doctors who have listened to me, and have started treatment, and I've actually been able to lose weight. To the tune of 71 lbs so far. (And I'm not exersizing near as much right now as I used to.)

As far as in shape goes, when I was doing all that exersize, I was really in shape (much better shape than I am now, I dare say). Yet all everybody could do was look at a woman who weighed 150 lbs more than her ideal weight and treat me with disgust. (Not everybody, again, my Sir has always thought I was beautiful, even when I was 270 lbs and a size 28 womans.)

I say, *I* am the only one who gets to decide if my weight is unhealthy or not. Especially since (general) you who only see me in a store, on the street (doing that exersize I was describing), or in a restaurant, DON'T know enough about me to make such a judgement call.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:11:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy

Go ahead... keep thing fat is fine, fat is pretty, you can be healthy and morbidly obese....that if other's cannot except you for being 75, 100, 200 over weighing than it is their problem not yours... keep thinking that. You'll be dead soon but at least you can go to your grave bitter.

Uh, no. Actually, by saying I'm absolutely fine where I am, I love myself and so do the people who are important to me, I'm not bitter.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:15:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: cjenny

bandit, that is why I personally don't like the term BBW. It makes it easier to stay fat if you can convince yourself it is beautiful.

Someone may be beautiful despite being fat, but I cannot swallow (yesssss pun intended) thinking that an average height woman who weighs in over 250 pounds is a healthy, confident & beautiful woman.
I dont mean folks who are overweight, I mean fat. Fat to me is 50+ pounds over the average weight for that height.
Curvy is good, fat.. not so much.

Anyone ever wonder why there is a stigma against fat folks?

I am a beautiful woman. Even when I was 270 I was beautiful. My problem at that weight was that I bought into the same line you did that made you starve yourself to lose weight. I did EVERYTHING I could to lose weight, and couldn't. Did that make me less beautiful? Nope.

Because really, true beauty comes from within, not whatever the wrapping is.

And even at STILL 70 lbs overweight, I'm fat, and yet I'm beautiful and sexy.

If anybody doesn't like it, then just don't talk to me. See, it's that easy.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:16:33 PM

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hypo theyroidism will do it, otherwise i cant think of anything else that could cause it.

You're kidding right? There are many genetic reasons why everybody in a family would gain weight, including what area of the world their ancestors came from.

There isn't only one medical reason to make a person not be able to lose weight.

ok call me stoopid then!

what genetic reasons?

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:19:05 PM

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Cushing's Syndrome is another medical reason besides hypothyroidism.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:20:38 PM

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Pcos maybe? I've heard people say having PCos makes weight loss harder.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:21:03 PM

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Don't forget medication side effects... I swear half mine have 'weight gain' as one. Gee maybe that gets balanced out by the ones that cause 'loss of appetite'? LOL.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:22:39 PM

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Cushing's Syndrome is another medical reason besides hypothyroidism.

is that genetic? disease is not necesarily genetic

ok got it

Cushing's syndrome is a hormonal disorder caused by prolonged exposure of the body's tissues to high levels of the hormone cortisol. Sometimes called "hypercortisolism," it is relatively rare and most commonly affects adults aged 20 to 50. An estimated 10 to 15 of every million people are affected each year.

a lot of us guys have the beer in hand ass on couch watching sports 24/7 stuffing our faces with chips and bbq'd ribs genetic disorder LOL

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:26:22 PM

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Pcos maybe? I've heard people say having PCos makes weight loss harder.

Pcos or PCos is? Are?

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:32:29 PM

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ok call me stoopid then!

what genetic reasons?

First off, I didn't call you stupid. I just couldn't believe you were serious.

There is just plain ol' genetics. Was your mom and dad fat? How about both their parents? And do they report their parents were fat? Well, that JUST might be a reason you also have a seriously hard time loosing weight.

Then there are many diseases besides hypothyroidism. Cushing's Disease. PolyCysitic Ovarian Disease. Insulin Resistance. Those are only 3 things off the top of my head. I am not a doctor to know all the reasons why one could be fat no matter what, but it shouldn't be too difficult to research something on Google, if you seriously want to find out more.

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:35:54 PM

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Just jumping in here, but I love BBW, I myself am a BHM

There is more and more proof that weight is genetic, so all these government officals who are determined to shove a healthy lifestyle down are throat are just making a mountian out of a molehill.

If the government wants to do something for us POOR FAT people, then why don't you delare a ware on obesity like they did for cancer back during LBJ's admin. OH WAIT that didn't work either that's been over 40 years and haven't ended cancer!

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:37:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling
Fat Women- no such thing as Fat men

Ach hem.... Hello????

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RE: BBW's, Is this something as a society that we shoul... - 5/12/2007 4:37:53 PM

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Pcos or PCos is? Are?

PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome (now known as Disorder). It's really a hormonal imbalence (massive hormonal imbalence) and one of the symptoms is weight gain for no known reason and incredibly difficult to lose. Obsesity is one of the qualifying symptoms of PCOS. I've read statistics that say that over 50% of women who have PCOS are morbidly obese.

Of course, when you HAVE PCOS the doctors still won't believe that you aren't just sitting at home all day doing nothing and eating bon bons. But that's a rant for a different place altogether.

And yes, PCOS is genetic.

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