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puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 5:46:20 AM)

Dunno... my immediate thought to statements like that (and it is reactionary, I will give you that) is something along the lines of "... well, you won't need to be fucking me then.  I wont buy into the game of self worth by physical blessings, nor do I want to be with a guy who is so easily manipulated by that game (or thinks so little of me to try it on me)"   ... well that and... "really, what did you slip in her drink?"




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 5:48:00 AM)

what ever happened to the addages of: "Don't judge a book by it's cover" or "Beauty is only skin deep"?




Sicarius -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 5:49:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: puella
Interesting post... thank you for it.

It does make me wonder as well... who are they posting this for?  It is not only the idiots who make these statements...

Surely men understand that a statement like one of the ones being discussed does NOTHING to forward either their cause with women or their reputation with women.  In fact, I find it to be one of those little mental 'marks on the chalkboard', that though I do not really want to 'mark down'... just happens and I think... thats a shame!

So given that men must know that it is not at all effective with or on women... are they doing this to muscle up around the boys?  Even at the cost of being (even to a small degree) scoffed at by the other half of the planet?

I never will fully understand you creatures.


You're most assuredly welcome.

And to be honest, I don't think most men are necessarily in-synch with that line of reasoning.  I know that as recently as this year I've heard male friends go off on a rant about the "brilliance" of spreading rumors about their successes with other women as a means of luring or otherwise enticing females ... I assume by advertising their "prowess," or something along those lines.  I can't really say whether or not I've ever seen this tactic successfully employed, though.

There is certainly the ego-posturing that goes on amongst male peers, but I think that's motivated by different reasons ... I assume you're largely asking why a man will directly say this to a woman.  In groups of men, there's always a bit of subtle competition going on, and everyone knows it ...

"My car is faster ..."
"My computer is more powerful ..."
"I've slept with more pretty girls ..."

And so on.  It's a power-play, or at least an attempt at vying for further respect despite the fact that it usually backfires.  :)

-Sicarius




puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 5:50:00 AM)

I believe that addage, on it's own is a crock of shit as well.  We all have preferences, physically... I just think it can get wacked out of control sometimes... and it is even worse when it is manipulated to make a partner feel less, and then somehow more 'lucky' to have you...




LadyPact -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 5:58:25 AM)

I would think it is because men have a special fondness for 'trophy' women, and do not realize it is very shallow to focus on that particular point.




spankmepink11 -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 6:04:01 AM)

Usually when men tell me about the "gorgeous, beautiful" women they've been with, i wonder...and ask...."why are you not with one of them?"  (average here)

Do women ever do this?   I admit, that the few occasions that i  considered a partner who was not local, i seemed to find it necessary to point out that there were local men who desired me, but that i did not find them suitable. I imagine thats a type of insecurity in itself.




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 6:06:44 AM)

i think more men should watch the movie "Shallow Hal". yes, it's a comedy...but it has quite a bit of truth to the subject at hand.

hell, i'm too damned ugly for my own good myself...so who would want me anyway?




BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 6:13:08 AM)

I too have fucked and owned some very beautiful  women but would be dishonest if I didn't say that I also did a hoggggg  or two along the way.THEY say a stiff cock has no conscious and some times I believe that.Women or some women believe  that if you aren't with or have been seen with a pretty woman on your arm or in your bed that you aren"t
worthy material to pursue,wome  are fickle you know..BE honest folks if they weren't
attractive enough to catch our eye ,WE would  pass them by shallow maybe but    thats how it is out here...bounty




puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 6:30:43 AM)

Oh dear....




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 6:55:47 AM)

it's called  "all the pretty women want me but i can settle for you until another woman who is prettier than you comes along" mentality.  it stokes their ego when a "non"pretty worships the ground he walks on yet he'll treat her like dirt in front of his friends and/or model types. i met a guy (not from here) who was like that.  he made it quite known that i wasn't the type of woman he wanted hanging out with him at the clubs ...he didn't date "fat" women so meeting me was to help with my self esteem. lol - i dumped him in a heartbeat.




seeksfemslave -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:21:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol
YOU say it, mate. I take your word for it rofl.


Well at least I made you larf, thats a start,
By the way I dont usually use the eff word but since the OP was so crudely expressed I thought I would have to join in and lower my standards.

It does evoke quite basic urges,  maybe I should try it and  see if I can improve my
"batting average" Not looking for anything permanent you understand, just a a a well you know what.




puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:31:47 AM)

Oh please,  it is far too late... you have rolled in the mire!

heh




meatcleaver -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:33:30 AM)

You should follow Rod Stewart's philosophy 'Anything with a pulse.'

I'm sure most men have said out of the side of their mouth to the unattractive cert in a nightclub "See you outside.' then later told their friends how beautiful this catch was.

Of course I haven't. I just need to give a wink to the most beautiful woman in the room and tell her to get her coat, she's pulled.[:)]




kittinSol -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:37:35 AM)

Ahem. Are you saying if you got to fuck me (albeit for a gigantic fee, I tend to like trophee boys - and girls, and you just don't cut it, but you understand), you would be lowering your standards rofl?!

Woah, you are a true gentleman, aren't you?

Good luck: I think you need it [:D]

If I got it wrong, mea culpa, mea culpa.

A bon entendeur, salut!




seeksfemslave -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:49:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol
Ahem. Are you saying if you got to fuck me (albeit for a gigantic fee, I tend to like trophee boys - and girls, and you just don't cut it, but you understand), you would be lowering your standards rofl?!
Woah, you are a true gentleman, aren't you?
Good luck: I think you need it [:D]
If I got it wrong, mea culpa, mea culpa.
A bon entendeur, salut!


Kitten, arent you doing exactly what the OP was complaining men do ?
I would try reverse psychology on you. Beautiful words, a poem or two, lavish praise, politeness, consideration ,concern, interest, admiration on my part, a certain appealing uncertainty and then I would fuck the arse off you LOL.

At least Puella still speaks to me. I'm doing well today.
See there's a little intimate "something" only we can share. lol




kittinSol -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:50:10 AM)

My tongue was firmly stuck in my cheek... thought you'd noticed that.

[8D]




puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:50:28 AM)

.... Oh dear...




cabernet -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:53:22 AM)

Does anyone remember the Seinfeld episode where George had a picture of a beautiful woman, I think maybe it was a friend of Elaine's, and he put it in his wallet.  When he saw pretty women he would find a reason to open his wallet and "accidentally" let them see it.  He would tell them that it was his former girlfriend who was dead.  The women would then think that because he had already had a woman that beautiful that he was on their level and in the club.  In fact, I think that there was even a club that beautiful women went to in the episode.  Then he lost the picture and wasn't getting the beautiful women to go out with him anymore.

I think this is what the guys who use those lines are going for.  They are thinking that if they have been with one or two beautiful women that it will make them more attractive to women in general.




seeksfemslave -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 8:05:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol
My tongue was firmly stuck in my cheek... thought you'd noticed that. [8D]


Kitten please dont talk dirty to me, it wont work.

Puella, Thats OK I forgive you lol




domiguy -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 8:05:58 AM)

There is something to all of this....Let's say that I was banging Puella and we were out and about, after she had blown me on the el enroute to our destination. So we are in a cute little boutique purchasing her a gigamous butt plug, when she says, "Look there is my ex!"  I turn and I see this guy who looks like a cross between Quasimoto and a rotting dead corpse....I would think to myself, "what in the fuck!....Puella is one twisted and sick fuck."  I know this shouldn't bug me but I would wonder how this is possible that she could've ever been with this guy? Of course the topper is when she says that he broke up with her....Because she wasn't up to his standards.




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