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Griswold -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:04:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: puella

Hello all,

Just a casual question .... why do so many men (I must say that I have found this to be almost exclusively a male thing here on the forums) throw in that line?

"I have fucked many women who were gorgeous, but that doesnt mean that that is important to me in finding a partner"

or

"I have had many women who were model pretty want me, but I turned them down because they were not pretty on the inside"

or some other variation... I do not think I can go three days without seeing someone put that in a post on on one of the topics. 

Why do men throw that little qualifier in?  If they need to toss it in, isn't there an inherent value on beauty as well.. because the are better that the hot chicks that want them... they are placing a value on them by making themselves better than that, no?

Dunno, semi-rant on a morning with no caffine I suppose... maybe I am getting too crotchety in my  old age! [;)]


Ya know...I'm going to comment on this, prior to reading other posts....

There's others;  "My preference is____________, but you strike me".

"I've been lucky, I'm not exactly (Robert Redford/Brad Pitt/Mister Rodgers), but I tend to associate with women that are...(like)"(Brad Pitts {current} wife, Traci Lords, Dolly Parton)....but I prefer a (type of woman).

He's just trying to tell you what he likes.  What turns him on. 

It's no different than the female ads that state "Looking for...43, built like a brick shithouse, non smoking..." etc.

The difference is....we actually believe you want what you ascribe to (which, by the way, just for the record, limits your choices...I'd just like to add).

You are actually smart enough to realize that the guy you describe is living in Iowa (with his Mom)...he's gay, and the only reason he agreed to let you spank him...is/was because he was absolutely certain you'd be nekkid when you did so....whereas we're thinking....if you get naked sometime before we fall asleep...and laugh at at least 40% of our jokes....you'd be in the top 3...(and by this time, we'd have enough trouble finding our keys).

(Just thought I'd hand off a guy perspective here).
 




SanDieganMichael -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 7:37:24 PM)

I am new to posting on these boards.  I have to say, that I find generalizations insulting (generally [:D] ).

I can say honestly, sometimes you see a woman you are attracted to, who thinks she is unattractive.  They ask "Why are you hounding me?"  (or some variation involving stalking, hounding, bothering ... etc.) In an attempt to explain an attraction, words are often difficult to convey when put on the spot.

It's not just to get laid (though that is part of it); there is part of it trying to convince the woman you are chatting up is prettier than she beileves.

Asking this question is one of many unfair word battles.  It isn't always a line ...  




Griswold -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 8:40:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SanDieganMichael

I am new to posting on these boards.  I have to say, that I find generalizations insulting (generally [:D] ).

I can say honestly, sometimes you see a woman you are attracted to, who thinks she is unattractive.  They ask "Why are you hounding me?"  (or some variation involving stalking, hounding, bothering ... etc.) In an attempt to explain an attraction, words are often difficult to convey when put on the spot.

It's not just to get laid (though that is part of it); there is part of it trying to convince the woman you are chatting up is prettier than she beileves.

Asking this question is one of many unfair word battles.  It isn't always a line ...  


You lost me on the very first letter.




MasterKalif -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/14/2007 8:42:46 PM)

LOL....domiguy, my very aristocratic-like friend has used the word "dishy" before to describe a girl...lol...I love that word.

Anyways....so much for crying, guys are bad this and that...well girls are full of it, more than men in my opinion. Half of the time why men put up this "show" so to speak with women is because women can be swallow...how many times I hear at work or from women in general (yes I am grossly generalizing much like our OP) "oh I need to find a man who is wealthy and handsome so I don't have to work anymore" or something along those lines. Or some are plain mean, Ive seen nice guys approach some women who flirt and all and then act mean like they won't even answer a hello...so "assholes" or "bitches" exist on both spectrums and as someone mentioned, is a human trait. I don't buy or act in this game because I find it silly....particularly bragging about sex...usually means it did not happen or is grossly exaggerated. Anyways just giving the posters more to ponder about, with a different point of view.




puella -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/15/2007 2:51:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MasterKalif

Half of the time why men put up this "show" so to speak with women is because women can be swallow...


Hehe... Freudian slip?




BlindUnknown -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/15/2007 4:32:07 PM)

<OP>

Oh, it falls in with all kinds of stupid things, bragging to women, men, society in general. 

I tend to agree with the "Hey, I've slept with hotter women than you, be grateful".  just another way for a guy to say "do what you can to please me, because you dont deserve me"

If women didn't respond positively to it, it wouldn't happen.  Alas, most women respond positively to jerks, so men like me have to look for a deviant and off-balance woman to dote affection on and be compassionate towards.

This is the main reason i put "most of you are idiots and are incompatible in some form, truth of the world".

Maybe in the older demographics, this doesn't remain as true, but in my social circles (<30 years old), the "let's treat women like shit" thing works, and it works WELL.  i see it every day.  Thus, even if you see an older man saying it, he's learned when he started dating that approach works and it gets a bit ingrained in the brain.

That's my rant for the next ten minutes =P




ancientseawolfe -> RE: I have fucked lots of pretty girls...." (5/17/2007 8:01:58 PM)

...Life is too short to............




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