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A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 4:21:11 PM

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We read/hear regularly of Dominants with more than one submissive/slave.

Do submissives ever have more than one Dominant? .....perhaps one that meets emotional/intellectual needs and another that meets physical needs.....or any variation therein. Do the Dominants get along? What is the dynamic like?

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 4:37:31 PM

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Well, i am no biblical student, but your question rang a bell, so i googled it and here's what i found:

Luke 13:16
"No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other."

So, that's the official answer, i guess...

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 4:53:28 PM

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i have two Doms (insert shock and awe here) Daddy and bf i met here from here. Daddy is first and foremost my primary Dom - Daddy is like the father i didn't have when growing up. He's my nurturer, protector and mentor meanwhile, my bf is my rt relationship in which Daddy approved. my relationship with Daddy will never change no matter how far i take my relationship with the other. even if we break up, Daddy will always be there for me. so i do get the variation of intellectual, emotional and physical needs from the both of them.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 4:54:43 PM

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Hmm well, actually Master is a Switch and we have talked about this a lot of weather I would serve his Mistress when he finds one, we both desided that it would be entirely up to me if I wanted to be owned by them both (suposeing she was interested in owning me as well or was one of those who thought since she owned him she would also own me) so in that case if I desided to i would be owned by 2 Domanents. It hasnt happend yet but it is a possability. I guess the difference would be here there would be some sort of hierarchy (supposing she wasnt a switch as well then hells bells it would get confuseing!)

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 5:08:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticMusic

Well, i am no biblical student, but your question rang a bell, so i googled it and here's what i found:

Luke 13:16
"No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other."

So, that's the official answer, i guess...

<grin>

rosemary

I am not sure that Luke practiced BDSM......

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 6:19:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CelticMusic

Well, i am no biblical student, but your question rang a bell, so i googled it and here's what i found:

Luke 13:16
"No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other."

So, that's the official answer, i guess...

<grin>

rosemary

Good thing I'm not Christian then, and don't have to abide by their holy writings. I'd hate to learn that I hated one of my doms when I thought I love them both!

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 6:21:58 PM

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It's rare, but I've certainly seen it before. I assume usually it can't work, because as soon as the two masters have irreconcilable plans about how to use the slave, the one who prevails becomes the real master. But in a situation where the two masters know each other well and can compromise with each other, I suppose it could work.

And there are plenty of people who are slaves to a couple (although usually one member of the couple is the supreme master in cases like that).

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 6:22:59 PM

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I have two Doms, and have had two Doms in the past as well.

My 'primary' Dom is my husband. I also have had two other Doms (at different times, but both at the same time as my husbandDom).

Sir is friends both with my former secondary Dom and my present secondary Dom. The only hard part is when both Sir and my other Sir are together at the same time. Oy, talk about being in a world of (play) trouble!

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 7:12:15 PM

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Yes. Since neither of them could be completely there for me, i was seeing/serving two Doms. They both satisfied diffrent things in my life. One was a teacher in showing me how power exchange worked, and the other helped me explore areas i never thought i would go.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 8:48:00 PM

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i have read two blogs where one sub had two doms - it was a poly house and she had her primary dom and the other she served as well. The one she served had a sub of his own, who only served him, not the other dom.

In another set up - a Master slave house this slave had her Master, but she also owned a fem slave who her Master also owned. Then there was another couple who the slave called Mistress and Sir, she served them as well, they lived all in the same house. There was another dom male who did not live in the house who the slave also served on a part time basis. i enjoyed reading that blog untill one day it was taken down no notice, warning or anything. Makes me wonder.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 10:15:24 PM

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I know slaves who have had and have two Masters. The Masters are friends and they schedule amongst themselves. There's a clear Primary and a Secondary. Seems to work.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/19/2007 10:23:15 PM

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I don't see a problem with this. Having said that, i personally would only be able to have one...LOL and i one i have wears this old girl slam out!!...LOL

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 12:31:33 AM

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A) Always remember that if you can imagine it, then someone is doing it and very happy about it.

B) Yes, this happens and quite well.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 12:50:50 AM

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I've seen it, and know some who are completely happy with it, but it isn't for Me. At some point, one Master says yes and the other says no. Both can't be obeyed when they conflict, so one Master is only a Master when it is suitable.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 5:34:43 AM

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I have a close friend who is a submissive, and she serves four different masters and even guest masters at times!

Two of them are friends, and usually 'share' her at a time, both being equally important to her. The other two are her employers, and usually meet her one at a time.

She respects each one's authority over her life, and has a separate place for each one in her soft, submissive heart.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 6:17:22 AM

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i have had Two Dommes. One i considered my Primary, the Other One, secondary. It's not for E/everyone, and not something i'd do again. It does require a lot of devotion, love, and communication. Without that, it does not work. my Dommes were a couple, and i was the Primary's sub, but came under the Secondary's orders. In the end, essentially i was owned by Both.

Having Two Dominants is possible, but requires a lot from a submissive.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 6:18:07 AM

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i've had two at the same time with no problem, and they probably would have really liked each other, but since we weren't poly, then they had no reason to meet, let alone worrying about if they got along or not.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 7:16:49 AM

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Fox can and has scened with others with him in the bottom role -- note it is the bottom role and not the submissive or slave position. He tells me he can't imagine it.

I'm so selfish that I couldn't see myself taking second place to another dominant. I think this is part of the reason I won't get involved with someone who isn't single when we begin things together.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 7:24:57 AM

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While I can understand her 'why'~ I don't think I would entertain a submissive with which I know I would never be 'enough'.

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RE: A sub with two Doms - 5/20/2007 7:28:18 AM

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I don't see why not. It might be somewhat tricky, but I should think it could be done if that's what the person really wanted.

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