stella40
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Joined: 1/11/2006 From: London, UK Status: offline
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Marilyn Monroe's body, Tom Hanks, Bette Davis's eyes... let's face it, it's all been done before, and bigger and better. We know that chasing the dragon of beauty is fleeting. We all desire to be attractive and pleasing on the eye.It's been that way ever since the dawn of time... but has it really? Physical beauty and what is considered attractive changes over time. Will a Dom really die on the floor if he doesn't have the perfect female submissive?. Will a Domme simply waste away if she doesn't meet that handsome male submissive? So why are we so hung up on perfection? Life is short and you may be missing out on many wonderful submissives as you wait for slave perfect. And it is the same for the men. Why hang out for Mistress Perfection? A good male submissive is hard to find.. true maybe because he lost a few hairs and gained a few inches round the waist.. but he also might have finally woken up and gained a soul. It can be said that a lot of women and men have it tough.. but it's also really tough for BBWs, and it can be even tougher for transsexuals .. we all have it tough when we are chasing the dangling carrot of the beauty ideal. Isn't there more to life than trying to attain a physical specimen of perfection in a partner? If your answer is 'no', then you are probably a teenager (at least mentally anyway). And anyway, just how perfect are you yourself? Life is short - very short. There is probably a wonderful Dominant or submissive out there for you, if you gave them half a chance. An attractive person can turn ugly very quickly especially if they have an ugly attitude, and a moderately attractive person can become very beautiful in your eyes if you find that they have a good, warm heart and a good personality. Why not try taking the time to get to know them? Please don't get me wrong, initial attraction IS important, but it's only one small slice of the whole cake. So many people are lonely because they don't quite fit the 'media' stereotype image of what is attractive, or they don't attract who they 'deem' to be their match. So why run around with a mental frame trying to fit someone into it? Why not first appreciate the art for what it really is, and then frame it? I've been meeting Dommes over some years and while physical attractiveness is nice, it really isn't much more than that. Being beautiful causes people to love you, it causes people to hate you, and then you have to weed out all the freaks and weirdos. Why not try to spend time seeing the good qualities in someone? Maya Angelou once said," Let someone show you who they really are, and believe them the first time."
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I try to take one day at a time, but several days come and attack me at once. (Jennifer Unlimited) If you can't be a good example then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
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