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RE: Your First Task - 11/8/2008 8:56:22 PM

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Thanks califsue, yours all sound fun to me, but I hope I won't get told to do something like your tasks first off lol. I'll try to stop my poor, wee mind coming up with more and more confronting possibilities - he definitely has a devilish mind lol so I'll just relax and wait for his decision one way or the other.

(I'm new on the forums too, so wasn't sure if I should start a new thread or bump this one - didn't want to violate any rules so played safe).

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RE: Your First Task - 11/8/2008 8:56:54 PM

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Fox's first task was to learn to make me coffee. Nothing special and nothing difficult, but anyone who has met me knows... it was very important.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/8/2008 9:05:20 PM

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My first task was, "Bend over!" Shocking I know (ha), but it has remained a theme of sorts even now. Now, I here a lot of bend over and hold still....
I am so disobedient when I am hoping for a good spanking.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 2:07:42 PM

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Met him, didn't even know what a Dom was let alone what I was. Next day hes calls and informs me hes picking me up for dinner later and to dress casual. I forgot all about it, he shows up, I'm in sweats. I failed

but a 5 year relationship began.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 2:50:42 PM

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My first task was to fill out a questionaire about likes, dislikes, what I'd be interested in exploring and what would be hard limits. It was a great exercise that forced me to really think about what I wanted, and gave us material for a lot of very interesting conversations. When we met in person, I was sent to the restroom to remove my panties for him. mmmmm, that was a fun night!

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 3:04:49 PM

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We don't do tasks and other such things.

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ORIGINAL: fourpeas

I am just curious as to what some of your "first tasks" for your Doms, Masters, Sirs, were. I am interested in hearing about what that means both online and in r/l.

Your story gets mine ;)

Who's the brave one to go first?

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 3:25:07 PM

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Master told me i needed to send a picture of myself everyday. No excuses and if He asked for another pic i was to do it imediately.

No-a-days since W/we are living 24/7 i do any thing HE desires.(most of the time)

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 3:45:01 PM

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Tasks don't figure in our dynamic, never have or ever will.

That said, i was always expected to be online when he arranged a time, or to be available to take or make a call to talk together, but those never did feel like tasks, just a respectful thing i felt i should to be adhered to.

The first real time difficult thing Andy asked me to do was to disrobe and stand naked in front of him. Being a little round disabled woman that has always been my stumbling block, get over that and the rest falls into place, and he knew it.

He sat and looked at me for what felt like a lifetime before beckoning me to kneel before him, when he smiled broadly and kissed my forehead.

i don't know if these are examples that fit with what you are asking, they are the closest i can come to it though!

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 3:46:29 PM

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Even though we had met (real time) before and had talked on the phone and in IM for a few months, there was never any specific "task". Then one day he tells me to take a half day from work and met him at a neighborhood bar/restaurant. We met and ate lunch and then he passed me a manilla envelope. Told me not to open it till I got home and follow the instructions to the letter. I was supposed to call if there were any "real" problems. I felt like I was on Mission Impossible"...your mission, should you choose to accept...lol.

In the envelope was a pair of thigh highs, a very skimpy pair of panties and a sheet of intsructions. The instructions said to shave my pussy smooth smooth smooth, to wear the thigh highs and the panties and whatever top I had that would "match" and that's it. I could wear a coat and shoes also (a blessing since March in upstate NY is not particularly balmy). I was to meet him at a bar, he would be waiting inside for me and once there, he would make sure (discreetly) that I had followed the shaving part of his instructions.

Walking into a bar alone was a challenge, even though my coat covered me, I still felt like everyone knew. Walking through the grocery store was challenging, especially when he stopped me in the middle of an aisle and said "show me"...expecting me to open my coat, which I did, making sure no one was around and trying to hide my red, red face.

It was exciting to be given such simple directions that it's (almost) fail proof, and yet have so many aspects of it be more difficult than you'd ever imagine. Thanks for bringing back such a tingly memory! :O)

~leira

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 5:12:27 PM

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My first task was to start a journal for Him, and 2 years later it is still going very strong.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 5:40:38 PM

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My first task was to write a sexual fantasy for him.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 7:17:00 PM

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We met for brunch, I was in jeans and high heeled sandals. The first task was to bring shorts to change into if we clicked and decided to go spend the day at the beach. Thankfully I added sneakers also, I had to toss those sandals after wearing them just that once, they caused horrible blisters.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 9:27:07 PM

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We haven't played yet .. haven't shared more than a kiss. He wanted to hear me cum and had me masturbate while he listened on the phone. Very hot and intimate, especially considering he hasn't even touched me yet....

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RE: Your First Task - 11/9/2008 9:54:06 PM

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My first experience with a Dom was online, and while that did not work out, I value some of the experiences I gained from that time.

My first task was to shave, insert my favorite toy and go swiming. This was difficult, because I had to make sure I was walking the "right way" and that the toy stayed in...I was sure it would just slip out.

I had a certain amount of time, and just to be sure I set the alarm on my cell phone. Well, I was so flustered that I accidently set it for am and not pm... but it all worked out well.

It's wonderful to secretly push through boundaries while the world looks on, none the wiser.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/10/2008 12:31:29 AM

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My first task for Sir was to take the weekend and look around my house for things that I would…. well, let’s just say things that we could use for different purposes other than their intended purpose. I had a pretty long list by the end of the weekend.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/10/2008 6:46:22 PM

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My first task was from my first play partner. I had to write him a paper about my first scene and my emotions that day. Everything that lead up to it and after the scene. It was really nice...and I love that paper. I've shared it with a few people. It helped me see things more clear when I wrote them down. I had a task where I was to call at 9 on the dot with another play partner. Now...I've never watched a clock SO much. ROFL!

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RE: Your First Task - 11/10/2008 7:25:20 PM

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My first task to send a detailed email of my wants. Yes I thought that strange of what I wanted. Though he did come back and say "doesn't mean you will get them". LOL

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RE: Your First Task - 11/10/2008 9:17:00 PM

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Hmm... my first assignment was to send Him daily reports of my day, how it went and what I did. It became a wonderful game for me to try to do the most interesting things so that I could tell Him about them. Now, we're together most of the time. So I get to do intersting things with him which is even more fun.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 6:58:27 AM

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I don't remember any tasks until after Master T and I were married...then it was to keep a journal about our relationship and then he wanted me to blog about our training..other tasks Master T told me to do...wear a butt plug all day...video tape myself with a vibe for him to watch when he returned home from work...wear no underware...list goes on and on...but, no cat box duities :)

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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 7:23:47 AM

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Interestingly enough...two minutes after I walked into her door for the first time, I was making a salad for dinner...not an official first task and I initiated it, but I think it does count as my Lady recalls that fondly.

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