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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 7:42:48 AM

kyraofMists

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It has been almost four years, so I am trying to remember what specifically came first. I think this is the order:

Background is that he is the first (and only) person who has ever played me and I was only just beginning to learn about SM when we met. This was before we met face to face.

With words he painted a fantasy of pain and torment in his dungeon. He is really good with words that just reach out and grab me by the throat. The scene scared the fuck out of me and then he told me to go into my bedroom and write in my journal everything that I was feeling and thinking.

The next task was to research safe calls; what they are and how they are used. I had to write him a report about it.

The last task that I received before I became his slave, was that when we met face to face I was not allowed to speak to him until he gave me permission.

The first task I received as his was how to address him.

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~edited to add, thinking back to the fantasy he painted now, it is pretty tame compared to some of the things he has done to me in the last few years.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 12:20:07 PM

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We'd spoken alot on the phone and through IM's, just in general about things. (He wasn't and still isn't my Master) Then one day he randomly sent me a task via text message that said "mouth gagged, nips clipped, naughty pic. 5 minutes" He'd seen pics of me, but never made a demand such as that. It was so exciting to have it enter into my daily life. I remember sneaking into the restroom at work, after digging through my desk to figure out what I could improvise with as a clamp for my nipples. (office supplies work wonders).

When we met for the first time (in public for a drink and bite to eat), the first thing he told me to do was breathe, because I was of course pretty damn nervous. Then after walking around the mall a bit, he told me to stop and put my hands behind me, he pressed me into the railing a bit and told me to ask him to kiss me. I did, followed by "Sir" (the first time I said it in person) and he did. I still get butterflies when I walk by that area in the mall.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 12:27:31 PM

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i once had to fill out a very, very long application. complete with written essays, yes & no questions, multiple choice. i felt like i was taking some kind of test. i was. & i didnt end up with her...

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Your First Task - 11/11/2008 5:10:02 PM

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My first "task" was more of an order. The day of our first meeting was for coffee. I was told to stay in my car until he got there and he was to open to door for me and take my hand and lead me in the store. It was rather romantic and sweet. Just like he is...

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RE: Your First Task - 11/11/2008 10:47:00 PM

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this is good, I'd enjoy hearing about some examples of what you found and how you used them.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/14/2008 7:01:49 AM

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im not sure if you ok with sub males respondeing but i do rember being told too wear panties undermale clothes for a meet in public . i guessing too see if i was realy going too follow orders

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RE: Your First Task - 11/25/2008 2:54:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

My first "task" was more of an order. The day of our first meeting was for coffee. I was told to stay in my car until he got there and he was to open to door for me and take my hand and lead me in the store. It was rather romantic and sweet. Just like he is...

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Aww....thats soooo sweet!!!

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RE: Your First Task - 11/25/2008 2:59:55 PM

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With Sir his first task was that I'm not to wear panties when with him, any other time I'm allowed.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/28/2008 10:39:34 PM

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One of the first tasks my Mistress gave to me, was to list 10 things I wanted to explore and experience. At least one of the first tasks that I remember. She used these tasks as a tool to find out a little bit more about my interest, desires, and fetishes I suppose. =). There were lots of picking my brain sort of questions.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/28/2008 10:50:48 PM

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I guess it was the first time he met me, and it was to wear heels, thigh highs and a bra with nothing else.

mine was close to this!! It was cold i was to wear a short skirt, heals and a white tank top and wait outside of my apartment for Him. i was really new to this whole thing so i always got nervous when a car would drive by... It was hoping it was him and fearing people were not looking, lol. i felt better when he got there though... so i could go inside. =).

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RE: Your First Task - 11/29/2008 7:35:30 AM

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I am just curious as to what some of your "first tasks" for your Doms, Masters, Sirs, were. I am interested in hearing about what that means both online and in r/l.

well, we hadn't established a D/s or M/s relationship yet, but that isn't necessary for this slave to submit to a task from a dominant individual, so she didn't perceive it as being out-of-line, in the least. she relished it.

within the first couple of days of first contact, via an internet BDSM personals site (not this one), we exchanged e-mails and telephone numbers. after giving His personal phone number, He gave this slave a task. He directed her to a business website, instructing her to check it all out...there was a head shot pic there, verifying the same person from His pic at the personals site (except in this one He was wearing a tasteful business suit). next to the pic was a short paragraph about His role in the business and included on the site was an 800 number to call. He insisted that this slave call the 800 number and ask the receptionist for Him by full name and extension.

the next task was to pick a public place to meet...this slave's choice, on her "turf"...as we were 200 miles away from each other in the beginning, and neither one of us was interested in staying online/phone.

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RE: Your First Task - 11/29/2008 7:49:31 AM

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I don't remember what my first task was. How sad is that? Granted, it's been over 10 years, but still...considering that He was my first (and current), you'd think that'd be something I'd recall with better clarity. My best guess is that it had something to do with telling Him a secret; something I'd never told anyone else. He's always loved having me open myself up so He can crawl in and play with what He finds there *laughing*

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