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ORIGINAL: Faramir
What the fuck is with all you people bitching about someone else's kink? If it's not your bag, that's great, but where's your stake in denigrating other people's sexuality?
If a lesbian posted here about cunnilingus, would a bunch of you who are straight make bitchy remakrs about how you don't like pussy? If someone said "Hey, my master wants to whip my ass and leave welts, but not scar, any advice?" would you all be start making catty remarks about what kind of abusive fuck wants to to hit women?
touched didn't come in here doing anything other than ask for advice. She didn't posture, didn't talk about how all true slaves crave piss service, didn't act holy than--she just asked for some advice for crying out loud. WTF is so hard about about respecting other people's intimacy choices?
Thank you Aswad and gringuita for your thoughtful, well intended replies.
Look, if you're straight, that's great. You don't need to bitch about how icky fags are. And if you think Femdom is yucky, you can keep it to yourself--no need to tell other people how fucked up they are because men should be on top or some shit. And if you don't like watersports, or foot worship, or electric play, or whatever-the-fuck play, what the hell is your stake in shitting on someone else?
That person has one post, and it was a perfectly inoffensive, genuinely inquisitive post. If she didn't post here again because a bunch of judgemental louts felt qualified to shit on her desire to serve, I wouldn't be surprised.
touched: there is nothing wrong with what you and your dom want to do--that's between you two. For what it's worth, toilet service isn't super unusual, and no doubt any second LA will pop in with 25 links. I don't have experience in this particualr area, so I can't offer any technique insights, but I do want you to know that they people who gave you a hard time about this are the ones with the problem, not you and your dom.
LOL totally agree with you. Personally, it's not my thing, but if you like it, go for it.
However, you should consider the following:
- Pee is an acid and as such, can damage your insides if drank enough.
- What goes out isn't supposed to go back in.
- Everyone has limits and hard limits (things you will never ever do.)
- Talk to your Dom. Explain your feelings. If this is something you don't feel comfortable doing, tell him so. Part of a Dom's job is to make sure said slave/submissive is enjoying themselves too.
- If he goes nuts and won't accept your descision, leave. A true Dom understands and respects others' limits. To quote a friend-"It's only fun up to a certain point, when we're both having fun. Go past that limit and it's not pleasurable anymore, it's abuse."
Good luck!
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. When I responded and said I had burst out laughing, it was not at her question or at the idea of toilet service in general. It was at the idea of telling Master to restrict his fluid intake. As He's constantly drinking, especially coffee and cola, the idea of telling Him not to do so just struck me as ridiculous and hilarious. Touchedbyone, if you considered my remark to be in jest toward you or your question, I assure you it was not. Damn Faramir, you ought to be a cop. You could get confessions out of innocent folks with your righteous indignation
.........slave luci 
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