HeavansKeeper -> RE: Unprotected Sex (6/21/2007 12:27:56 AM)
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I have had unprotected intercourse. (Although she was using birthcontrol, so it was protected in that sense.) I'm not particularly proud of that fact, but not ashamed either. I trusted her word enough to risk a possible STD. She was clean, and you can't catch what isn't there. I have given all my partners the curtesy of KNOWING I am disease free. I get fully tested after any fluid exchange. The difference between being 99.9999% sure and 100% is huge in my book. I'd rather KNOW than THINK. Unprotected sex is not an evil thing. If you are in a relationship where there are no outside contaminates, or a fluid family that is all tested and secured, then there is no risk of disease. There can be a risk of pregnancy. I honestly have never made a partner get tested for me, but if they didn't on their own accord, it was safe sex every time. I am not too proud of my history of oral sex... I've actually only had protected oral sex once, and that was so I could call her a hooker after... The good news is I'm free, clear, and in love. By the way, there are HIV tests that do not require giving blood, just a swab of the mouth and a ten minute wait for the results. 99% accurate.
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