DrkJourney
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ORIGINAL: akbarbarian quote:
ORIGINAL: Lockit Do you feel that you will be embarassed with your cousin in this? What is it that you feel besides feeling she broke her word... which I personally question... given the fact that she gave her word on something based on a deception from her mother. What would you do if you were in your slaves position? Yes, since the relationship with my cousin is new and we were invited to meet her family and friends, it's embarrassing to say the very least. I also can't go because it's in an area she's familiar with driving, and I'm not. See, I normally drive a pretty new car but since it's in the shop I have an old junker I'm driving and the GPS goes with the new car. I also find it harder to navigate the roads at night. Additionally, I lived most of my life until 2007 in a town that has no freeways and is on an island so this sort of driving is all new for me. I really need that GPS crutch if I'm going to go anywhere adventurous and new to me. So it turns out both of us aren't going, and she knows that. No one can pick you up? how about a cab? All that has been said are true about family relationships, especially between moms and daughters...it can be ugly, and you feel you have no choice. If you can't go to your party, I'd take the time to think all this out. If this is the first glitch...I would just find a way to move past it....she probably feels bad enough. She's probably going through the party miserable worried about returning to you. If you can manage it, call her, let her off the hook, and save the anger and disappointment for another real offense. If you can't do this, I still think it's best to talk to her, and if you feel punishment is necessary, do it...then move on...don't sit around letting this fester and possibly taking it out on her in even worse ways.
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