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ORIGINAL: sappatoti Without having experienced receiving pain in a lifestyle form, and only having received it as the result of a corporal, disciplinary fashion, I'm finding the whole idea of the "pain is pleasure" thing to be utterly confusing. I'm not a huge fan of receiving anything "stingy".. crops, switches, belts... even open hand spankings are too... "reminiscent". Floggers, on the other hand, deliver that "thuddy" strike, and while it does nothing for Me sexually, it's something I can deal with. IMHO, the pain itself isn't pleasure... I think it's the whole picture... the submissive giving themselves to their dominant, giving total control over thei heart, mind, body and soul. The pain is more of a "vessel" to carry the submissive to their respective "floaty space". I also think a lot of the pleasure is derived in the days/weeks following the scene... when it hurts/aches to sit or move... or the pride the submissives feel in bearing the marks delivered by their dominant... the "painting on the canvas", as it were. I know that when b's ass is marked and bruised, she'll "complain" about the hurt, but literally feels more beauitful with My "art" painted on the canvas of her skin. quote:
ORIGINAL: beargonewild For me it's partially because of knowing the person who applies the pain though it's more on the type of pain being caused and what is being ued. I'd have problems if a wooden spoon as I associate that with corporeal punishment. Yet being bitten hard enough to leave bruises or being flogged fairly rough I will still feel pain but my mind and body interprets that in combination which is then found pleasing and erotic. Why am I not surprised bear "gets it"? :-) quote:
ORIGINAL: Aylee Oh, the worm sent me a note saying he was blocking me, actually he sent a note from EACH of his profiles, and then told me to message him is August. I will make sure I write that down in my day planner. Sounds to me that your problem is solved then. Good riddance to bad rubbish and all that. Need me to go bust some kneecaps? I'll bring bear and sappa to back Me up...
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