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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 10:36:12 AM   
SmokingGun82


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ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

ok children. mommy says stop. wtf is THAT about? Are we adults or not?


You don't have to like it- lots of people, myself included, don't, but it's their pool and their rules. So your choices boil down to follow them, or leave.



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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 11:45:27 AM   
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It takes a lot of courage to complain about other people without a profile of your own.  I'm really impressed.

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this. You know how every DAY you're getting mail from same nasty bastard masquerading as a "dom" and wanting to treat you like some 5th class citizen and doormat?

Well understand something. There are submissives and there are subordinates. A submissive is one who wishes to submit, who is unresistingly or humbly obedient. A subordinate is one who is under another, of less importance, subservient and inferior.

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.

Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them. They're not even doms. They ARE THE WANNABE'S. And whatever you do, don't take their hate for women on. It has nothing to do with you and they have nothing to do with D/s.

I hope this makes a difference in someone's life cuz I've had it with these douche bags

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 1:34:52 PM   
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just ... ~chuckle chuckle~ ... wow.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 1:39:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
It takes a lot of courage to complain about other people without a profile of your own.  I'm really impressed.


I have a feeling that either the flames were eating up her inbox or alternately the CM moderators actually pulled the plug on her profile.

A bar from a John Denver is playing in my head "...where she's reaping what she's sowing..."

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:23:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dom87110

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
It takes a lot of courage to complain about other people without a profile of your own.  I'm really impressed.


I have a feeling that either the flames were eating up her inbox or alternately the CM moderators actually pulled the plug on her profile.

A bar from a John Denver is playing in my head "...where she's reaping what she's sowing..."


Well whatever the case is she had a right to her opinion as we all do. Be it correct or not. I know first hand from many friends here who have been stalked and harassed to no end by a few Bad so called Dom's that I understand why she feels as she does. I have one very special to me who is going Thu it now with some as* she thought was in control but has shown he is nothing more then a bully who has labeled himself Dom...

submission can not be taken it must be given... After it is give to you then and only then is a submissive subordinate to you until then she is a submissive soul with choices. A choice of who and how she submits to someone or anyone for that matter.

It is sad a few bad apples can spoil it for those who are truly in there soul who they are. This lifestyle so not something you learn from a book... You are or you are not Dominant in your Soul and you are or you are not Submissive or slave in your soul....

She shared "HER" opinion and that is what it was an opinion some could relate some could not. Those who flamed her for her opinion where no more right then she was or was not..... This is a forum a place for people to exchange ideas... If you don't want others opinions don't read them.....

Opinions are like A**Holes everyone has one and some are full of S**t... Some are not.....

Truth is life goes on and for each individual the life they lead must be chosen by them.... Just my Opinion and being so I don't really care what anyone thinks of it.

Everyone play safe

< Message edited by MstrSkyWoIf -- 8/24/2007 4:32:24 PM >

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:25:52 PM   
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my inner asshole is snoring.

Ron


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:28:47 PM   
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Sharing and opinion is al well and good.  Commanding others to act a certain way becasue it is your opinion they should do so isnt. Had she presented her opinion on these Dom contacts as such, her resopnses wouldnt have been what they were. And then, on top of it, she got insulting.
Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. Just because you put it out there, doesnt mean anyone is going to agree.  And if you are going to take exception to disagreement, and get insulting and nasty, you really shouldnt be putting it out there in a free forum.

DV


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:36:00 PM   
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I will have to go back and read it again but I don't remember her telling anyone they HAD to do anything...... just like none of us had to read anything posted here in the forum.... We all made a choice and in doing so we also had a choice as to agreeing or not... Life even for a submissive or slave is about choice...

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:40:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this. You know how every DAY you're getting mail from same nasty bastard masquerading as a "dom" and wanting to treat you like some 5th class citizen and doormat?

Well understand something. There are submissives and there are subordinates. A submissive is one who wishes to submit, who is unresistingly or humbly obedient. A subordinate is one who is under another, of less importance, subservient and inferior.

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.

Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them. They're not even doms. They ARE THE WANNABE'S. And whatever you do, don't take their hate for women on. It has nothing to do with you and they have nothing to do with D/s.

I hope this makes a difference in someone's life cuz I've had it with these douche bags


Yes I re-read and re-read it again and I only see an opinion being shared I don't see any orders to anyne in her post....

her opening statement "All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this" Is not even an order it is an opinion...


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:44:53 PM   
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I think it was a rhetorical post, I---her---and you by your own edict are just a bunch of assholes with opinions, the alternative is not in the realm of contemplation for me tonight, anyway.

Opinion of:
iRon, interTubelianMasteroftheinterGallacticinterStellarNebulae


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:48:22 PM   
slaveish


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

my inner asshole is snoring.

Ron




Well ... what is your outer one doing? Having a jamboree?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 4:53:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mn ottertail

I think it was a rhetorical post, I---her---and you by your own edict are just a bunch of assholes with opinions, the alternative is not in the realm of contemplation for me tonight, anyway.

Opinion of:
iron, interTubelianMasteroftheinterGallacticinterStellarNebulae



Well here's an opinion for you judging from the number of posts you have on the message boards 11588 in under 3 years you have no life outside of the forum ROFLMAO... that's almost 11 posts a day... Great use of your time there....

Obviously you missed the point to the post.... Maybe you should read more and post less....

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:20:20 PM   
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Thanks, you say in your profile you magnanimously offer advice.

Here is the situation.
brains enough + piss + pour = boot (you)

solve the equation.

It takes about 5 seconds per post, some could go as long as 2 minutes, I am a computer programmer and you are a what? Additionally, many of my posts actually contained advice or queried knowledge, and you....have  in your  little time here, posted such inestimable wisdom as could have been phoned in by a telemarketer. You can cipher that can't you Leibnitz?

I will disregard you with all the interest I can  muster.

You might wanna get yourself some extra learnin', Jethro.

Ron




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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:25:13 PM   
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You know, normally, Id argue.  Tonight, it just isnt worth it.
She decided to give instruction on how to handle the woman haters.  ot in my opinion this is how it is done, but This is how to do it beacsue as a sub you shouldnt dealw with this.  Wel, some subs LIKE that.

But, honestly, I couldnt care less. Personally, I objected to her deciding to seak her opinion and lumping all subs into how she should act.  Which is why *I* added what I did.
You take that as you will

DV


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:27:06 PM   
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Perhaps, the OP did offer her opinion, as you stated; however, it was a VERY strongly worded opinion and smacked of an edict.  In fact, in her fourth paragraph she TELLS submissive who they should block.  That's hardly an opinion. 

As regards mnottertail, although his posts are often humorous, he often has some excellent advice in them.  I, for one, would miss them if he chose to post less often.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:27:36 PM   
slaveish


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I still wanna know what Ron's outer asshole is doing.

Mine might want to emulate it.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:31:26 PM   
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My inner asshole is looking to stick my dick in your outer asshole, and help you to realize your inner asshole.

Eric Cartmann


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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:37:05 PM   
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Gotta just love a computer programmer with an inner asshole and a posting kink. 

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 5:45:17 PM   
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Aw, shucks.....thanks....

I'd just like to think I am growing in the lifestyle; at this point.

Humbly,

PostMasterGeneral

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:05:18 PM   
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If your inner asshole shoved your dick in my outer asshole so that I discovered my own inner asshole, then would it be a double date?

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