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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 3:32:57 AM

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They only hung the albatross around his neck so that the Gods would know which idiot had killed it, and hopefully spare the rest of their lives..

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 10:40:17 AM

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of course I had no intentions of stirring things up the way it did. But once the fur started flying I (secretly) was the first to break out the popcorn. As far as taking anyone's advice from on there, I may have read 10 or so postings. I have a life. My message stands.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:06:24 AM

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As you can guess from my ID (SadisticBeastCA) I am someone who is often called a MISOGYNIST, and I must I agree with the OP. I know I am a not a True Dom, I am douche bag, a wanna be, an asshole and I should be immediately put on the BLOCK list of every true submissive woman here on collarme!!

Of course, if any of you "non true" submissives (or whatever the correct term is - little help steamynotraunchy?) are looking for a man to beat, punish, humiliate, degrade and inflict pain on you, then unblock me and drop me a note and say hello!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:19:43 AM

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lol. Nice posting and thank you for the correct spelling. I can never remember how to spell it.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:26:08 AM

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No problem, it is a tricky word to spell. I had to look it up myself and double check it before I hit the reply button!!!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 4:54:26 PM

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All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this. You know how every DAY you're getting mail from same nasty bastard masquerading as a "dom" and wanting to treat you like some 5th class citizen and doormat?

Well understand something. There are submissives and there are subordinates. A submissive is one who wishes to submit, who is unresistingly or humbly obedient. A subordinate is one who is under another, of less importance, subservient and inferior.

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.

Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them. They're not even doms. They ARE THE WANNABE'S. And whatever you do, don't take their hate for women on. It has nothing to do with you and they have nothing to do with D/s.

I hope this makes a difference in someone's life cuz I've had it with these douche bags

You're kidding right? I mean you're not seriously telling someone what a "true" Dominant looks and behaves like...right? Who are you to determine that for anyone else?

Here's a little piece of something I've learned...people who are "wanna be's" call other people "wanna be's" and talk about shit they know nothing about.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 5:05:54 PM

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Well, I want to thank the OP for pointing this out to me, submission is all clear to me at last, thank you

*wanders off muttering 'now sod off and save someone elses soul'

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 5:47:01 PM

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If you believe that dominance is about nothing more than power, then you're missing out on a lot, as is any girl that may decide to give you her submission. A dominant's power comes from those who are willing to give it to him/her.

If anyone needs to grow up, I'd say it would be you, not Steamy.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 7:23:51 PM

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I was thinking earlier this evening about hitting the cinema. Watch a good comedy while munching on popcorn and chewing on juicy fruitellas. Then I stumbled on this thread, saved myself the fee (about 12 bucks) aaaand it totally delivered!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 7:46:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this. You know how every DAY you're getting mail from same nasty bastard masquerading as a "dom" and wanting to treat you like some 5th class citizen and doormat?

Well understand something. There are submissives and there are subordinates. A submissive is one who wishes to submit, who is unresistingly or humbly obedient. A subordinate is one who is under another, of less importance, subservient and inferior.

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive. A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.

Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them. They're not even doms. They ARE THE WANNABE'S. And whatever you do, don't take their hate for women on. It has nothing to do with you and they have nothing to do with D/s.

I hope this makes a difference in someone's life cuz I've had it with these douche bags

This should be required reading for all submissive women new to the lifestyle.... Well said and well taken... The only Dom that would object to what you have typed here is one of the so called Dom's it is directed at.

Sir Ray

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 10:01:22 PM

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I always find it cute when people try to use the GROWN UP words and do not understand thier meanings.

"subordinate" This word has many meanings, most of which the OP didnt read in Websters...

subordinate - WordNet (r) 2.1 (2005) :

subordinate
    adj 1: lower in rank or importance [syn: subordinate, low- level
           ] [ant: dominant]
    2: subject or submissive to authority or the control of another;
       "a subordinate kingdom" [ant: insubordinate]
    3: (of a clause) unable to stand alone syntactically as a
       complete sentence; "a subordinate (or dependent) clause
       functions as a noun or adjective or adverb within a sentence"
       [syn: dependent, subordinate] [ant: independent,
       main(a)]
    n 1: an assistant subject to the authority or control of another
         [syn: subordinate, subsidiary, underling, foot soldier
         ]
    2: a word that is more specific than a given word [syn:
       hyponym, subordinate, subordinate word]
    v 1: rank or order as less important or consider of less value;
         "Art is sometimes subordinated to Science in these schools"
    2: make subordinate, dependent, or subservient; "Our wishes have
       to be subordinated to that of our ruler" [syn: subordinate,
       subdue]

"submissive"

submissive - WordNet (r) 2.1 (2005) :

submissive
    adj 1: inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of
           others or showing such inclination; "submissive
           servants"; "a submissive reply"; "replacing troublemakers
           with more submissive people" [ant: domineering]
    2: abjectly submissive; characteristic of a slave or servant;
       "slavish devotion to her job ruled her life"; "a slavish yes-
       man to the party bosses"- S.H.Adams; "she has become
       submissive and subservient" [syn: slavish, subservient,
       submissive]

oh, big grown up, how is that not EXACTLY proving my point? My point was, nowhere in the definition of SUBMISSIVE do you find subordinate although in the definition of SUBORDINATE you find submissive. Now let me say this s l o w l y for you. We are SUBMISSIVES, not SUBORDINATES. If you want a subordinate, go get one, but leave a SUBMISSIVE alone. GET IT????? GOOD

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 10:17:04 PM

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What do you hope to accomplish with all this anger and bitchiness? Beyond showcasing your seemingly limitless capacity to be rude, obnoxious, ill-mannered, and generally unpleasant, what have you accomplished?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 10:20:02 PM

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Ok folks, enough.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:08:22 PM

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ok children. mommy says stop. wtf is THAT about? Are we adults or not?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:14:03 PM

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Q: Are we adults or not?

Interesting question from someone who recently posted the rather childish comment:

"What a bunch of tools"

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/23/2007 11:34:50 PM

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lets all play nice - thats so much more fun. actually, hold up... no its not lol.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:33:23 AM

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I miss Steamy already. I hope she comes back.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:41:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

ok children. mommy says stop. wtf is THAT about? Are we adults or not?

*shakes head*

this little one has lots to learn, Mod XI

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 7:09:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy
All submissives out there owe it to themselves to read this. You know how every DAY you're getting mail from same nasty bastard masquerading as a "dom" and wanting to treat you like some 5th class citizen and doormat?

Actually, no, i don't know what that's like. i can't remember ever getting an email like that. i have gotten IMs like that, mostly on Yahoo but, i don't get emails like that.

In fact, i am amazed at how often i read on these boards complaints, especially by women, that the emails they get are rude, ignorant, poorly written, obscene, arrogant, demanding, etc., etc.

The emails i get are polite, well written, seem to be sincere, and either offer compliments to myself or my Master or both or are a thoughtful message regarding a journal entry. They see that i am an owned slave and they respect that. i don't see the ugly, nasty, mean emails that others seem to get and i'm glad. i feel bad for anyone who gets ugly emails. i don't see any reason for them.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 7:26:04 AM

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i believe we all have our own thoughts on this issue... i will be one to keep my mouth shut!

edited to add:
ok... i could not resist! though there may be Dominants on CM that seem rude and sometimes unreasonably demanding... i have also heard quite a few stories about the subs on CM being disrespectful and deceitful, it goes both ways... yet, i have yet to see a Dom 'bashing' subs on CM!

(suck it up!)

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