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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:10:39 PM

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Well, double dates are like opinions, you see.......

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:15:08 PM

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Uh, no it's not 100 percent absolute truth, nlor correct advertising it's just her opinion. I know quite a few doms who do not wish love to be a part of their dominancy. and those who do not wish a love type situation are no less a true dom, nor should it mean so,

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A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive.

Absolutely true and correct!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 6:37:31 PM

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Thanks, you say in your profile you magnanimously offer advice.

Here is the situation.
brains enough + piss + pour = boot (you)

solve the equation.

It takes about 5 seconds per post, some could go as long as 2 minutes, I am a computer programmer and you are a what? Additionally, many of my posts actually contained advice or queried knowledge, and you....have in your little time here, posted such inestimable wisdom as could have been phoned in by a telemarketer. You can cipher that can't you Leibnitz?

I will disregard you with all the interest I can muster.

You might wanna get yourself some extra learnin', Jethro.

Ron

Not that it matters but I am self employed work for myself and answer to no one and doing very well thank you.

It seem to me we all live in a lifestyle judged by many as being outside the norm. Why do we pass judgment on each other so fast....

Ron seems to think because he is a computer program he is suited to judge those of us he dose not know and how smart they may be.... So let me pass a judgement on Ron based on what I do know about him....

Me .... Lets see self employed don't answer to anyone .... Ron It professional has to answer to his boss every day..... So Ron how dose it feel to be subordinate to someone?

Me + self employed + no boss = Dominant in control

Ron + IT Job + Boss = subordinate to Boss

Now I see why he is on the message boards so much

and Ron you might want to check into that learning thing it is over rated... The richest men in the world has less education then you do.. Including Bill gates...... and Ron there is no such word as "lernin" I can see your education taught you well how to speak in good English ROFLMAO

I think I will leave it at that I am finished with this discussion. Its amusement has worn off

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 7:17:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, double dates are like opinions, you see.......

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New opinions are always suspected, and usually opposed, without any other reason than that they not already common. Unlike assholes, which generally run unopposed (unless plugged tight). ~~Joan Locke

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 7:34:16 PM

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Glad you got back to me, I know it took you a little time in the dictionary...

Bill G ates......anyway, owning a burger fry business(how much you owe your dad?) doesn't require a great deal of business writing, but your post count is going up, with all this stupid shit you are posting, but I have over thirteen thousand fuckwads I have dealt with, you have settled on one.

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Ron
LOLOLOLOLOL, so what you all upset about ratcatcher?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/24/2007 11:18:22 PM

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Why does this make think of catholics and protestants arguing over who is more christian?

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Uh, no it's not 100 percent absolute truth, nlor correct advertising it's just her opinion. I know quite a few doms who do not wish love to be a part of their dominancy. and those who do not wish a love type situation are no less a true dom, nor should it mean so,
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ORIGINAL: innocentdarkness

A true dom wants to love, support, understand, cherish and protect a submissive.

Absolutely true and correct!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 3:21:55 PM

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GA all:

(fast reply)

Anyone else notice the OP deleted her profile? Perhaps the shame forced her to tuck tail and run. One can only hope. In the meantime, I've got lots of buttered popcorn and premium micro brews for the Ron vs. Redneck bare knuckled brawl... I got a Benjamin on Ron, 10 to 1!

IMNSHO, everyone is subordinate to someone. Whether it's the cop giving you a summons, your boss giving you an instruction, or a customer telling just how they'd like their order, etc. Everyone answers to someone at some point and time in their life. No one has 100% control over their lives. NO ONE. Anyone who believes differently is only fooling themselves.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 4:05:41 PM

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Truer words could not have been expressed more than these. :)

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 5:17:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: MstrSkyWoIf

I will have to go back and read it again but I don't remember her telling anyone they HAD to do anything...... just like none of us had to read anything posted here in the forum.... We all made a choice and in doing so we also had a choice as to agreeing or not... Life even for a submissive or slave is about choice...

If patronizing people who disagree with you with accusations of theim either being stupid or foreign is courtesy to you, then we obviously have hugely different ideas of what constitutes as manners. Just like with everything in human communication. If you treat people a certain way, you are likely to get the same attitute you gave from them right back at you. That's exactly what happened here to the OP.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 9:06:04 PM

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Wow, this board went from sympathasizing with the OP to debating her about her views. i can agree with her, since i've had emails like that from Doms before and yes block and delete seem to be the best option

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 9:37:06 PM

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you could learn a lesson or two from LA ...i don't know her personally however she's a respected member of this site and quite fast as well as helpful with her "easy" button of links to other threads on many subjects.

i agree with you. LA has given me some great insights, and i love hearing what she has to say and all the great links she somehow finds

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/25/2007 9:44:37 PM

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ok children. mommy says stop. wtf is THAT about? Are we adults or not?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/26/2007 8:35:21 AM

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i think this thread was about teaching the OP some manners (even if she wasnt really listening) more than anything...and now i'm wondering...
now that she isnt here anymore (is she?), what's the point?

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/26/2007 9:35:13 PM

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If one is to make generalisations, it's usually a good idea to frame them by stating that this is your opinion or your experience, and that now prolific phrase Your Mileage May Vary.

With that being said:
I'm all for making sure that submissives don't find themselves following things just because that's what they "should" do or be, and for making damn sure that nobody is maliciously taking advantage of that mindset. Whatever arrangement a dominant has with their sub/slave is exactly that, an arrangement between two people (even TPE. S/he had to agree at some point to give up power to a Dom/me.) What it sounds like to me is that people haven't made their expectations clear on either end of the original poster's relationship(s), and now she feels like she's gotten a raw deal and has the right to proselytize her Submissive Rights agenda. Go, find a real victim to protect, most of us can handle ourselves, or have found people who will do it for us. ;-) Volunteer at a rape crisis center, take a look around and realise that those women didn't consent on *any* level, and you can quit bitching because you negotiated poorly.

A raging bitch goddess right now and Daddy loves it,
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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/27/2007 12:11:02 AM

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Isn't that why its a lifestyle? Its a choice that two grown and consenting adults make. Some subs/slaves enjoy punishment and some Master's enjoy inflicting it. Some subs/slaves even enjoy being degraded and humiliated, but you have to remember there are always things that happen behind closed doors and its up to you to read between the lines and be able to "weed" them out. To each his own I guess, when in doubt, have a friend check them out, a third party objective observer can always help as "fresh pair of eyes!" that is if there is any doubt. There are always signs of those who are wannabes. Good luck in the future.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/27/2007 1:14:21 PM

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i think this thread was about teaching the OP some manners (even if she wasnt really listening) more than anything...

you mean to tell me you feel there WAS a point to all this? And the "point" was to teach me "some manners"????? lol Manners? what is this, catholic school? The point, as I can see now, is that there are far too many people with far too much time on their hands who cant accept that their lack of respect for others' boundaries is at times unacceptable.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/31/2007 12:07:03 AM

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A blind man was walking toward a cliff. You called out to him. He didnt hear. So you shouted he shrugged and continued on. You grabbed onto his arm and turned him around . He kept on going. He walked off the cliff. Would anyone consider the intervention a violation of the blind man? Be careful out there. Watch my back. I need all the help i can get.
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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/31/2007 5:39:05 AM

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I'm sure that this thread is a wonderful way to attract, kind, considerate, responsible Doms.

Or, maybe not.

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RE: nasty "doms" - 8/31/2007 10:46:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissDirtyPanties

ALL submissives? you know ALL submissives, their kinks and desires? "True Doms"???WOW!!!

That's a message to yourself, you have no right or business to tell ANYONE what they should/ought to be doing. Stupid girl.

Now that is telling it like it is...........................AMEN!!!

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RE: nasty "doms" - 9/1/2007 11:17:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy
there are far too many people with far too much time on their hands who cant accept that their lack of respect for others' boundaries is at times unacceptable.

This applies as much to you as you can apply it to anyone else.

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