Bobkgin
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Joined: 7/28/2007 From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin I await your evidence. i changed my mind...Michael already referenced the post i was talking about...and apparently to some people the sun shines out your ass... Life can be exceptionally cruel for some of us. You have my sympathy. As for Michael, it appears he conjured a quote from Creative Dominant, not me (assuming you are referring to Post #82, Page 5 of this thread). quote:
to respond to you here would further boost your ego and prove your point, to respond to you privately would cause you to cry out that i am attacking you, i am sure, and probably boost your ego and prove your point...so i will continue on with the topic as if this little thing didn't happen, you're dismissed... Gee, Teach, that's thoughtful of you. quote:
the white knight syndrome is not about standing by the ones you love or helping out someone who needs it...but rather...well here is a short essay i found on it...replace Medicine with lifestyle and shamanism with Domination and you have this topic... The White Knight Syndrome I thought I would caution people about running out and healing every second of every day in the name of spirit because they where called. This is a pitfall and might end up burning you out and helping you into a place of cynicism at the very least and delusion at the very most. If you have trouble believing this please do your own study of medicine people around you and ask these questions? Do they look rested and healthy? Are they happy? Do they laugh? Are they in a good functional relationship? Do they have a life outside of Medicine Circles that allows them to rejuvenate themselves? When getting into shamanism there is a huge desire of wanting to help everyone. It’s natural to feel this way and to want to run out and help people but it can be a trap. And if you are going into “Radical Healing” in the dream be careful of climbing on the white horse, getting a banner and hunting every “Nasty Bit of Business” on a seek and destroy mission. Please keep in mind that pain is a tool to learn and life is a learning experience. Not good or bad but rather a challenge and an opportunity. I ask you to think back to a time when life was completely rotten. Was it because of that experience that you are where you are today which is hear reading this. You are the sum of the whole experience of life. So if we can look at life as a challenge and an opportunity then I wonder why we have “Nasty Bits of Business?” Are they there to challenge us to learn quicker, better, deeper and in so doing create a huge experience to learn about ourselves? Dwende Copyright 2001 All of this is helpful if your mission in life is to heal others. However, in bdsm, the healing is incidental to the main mission which is the fulfillment of who and what we are within the relationships we create with others who share this style of living. Helping others is more along the lines of the Good Samaritan parable in the New Testament: if you come across someone in need of assistance, help to the extent you can. But helping another should never become an obsession where you yourself end up sick from it.
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When all is said and done, what will you regret? That you never really lived? Or there was so much living left to do? For those interested: pics and poetry have been added to my profile.
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