blackpearl81
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Joined: 8/30/2005 From: Home of the Yankees Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: TheIronHorse quote:
ORIGINAL: blackpearl81 I'm glad you feel that way. I'm actually reading EVERYONES opinions... subs & Dom/mes alike. Just curious as to why you felt that way? Not only that, but I had someone else in another thread, in another section of the forum cop a bitch fit with me over the way I worded a post. Never mind the fact he didnt read the entire post, (just one small section of it.) In fact, I kinda bolded the specific section that he apparently didnt understand. With regards to why I'm replying to certain peoples replies? Either I can relate to what they're saying (most likely because they've dealt with it as well) or I understand what they're saying. Whereas some of the other posts, I dont. So, I wait till others reply to that, and see if I can get any clarification from their response(s). I put much effort into responding to your original post. I'm all for free exchange of thought. Several femsubs have stepped forward with their experiences and we've yet to get to the crux of the matter with you. Malesubs are notorious for disguising troll posts as legitimate content. This thread had a lot of potential, its wandered too far off course to come back around again. TIH I appreciate your replies, there's really not a whole lot i can reply with w/o revealing specifics. However, I WAS abused as a child... now that I'm older, even though i dont understand the "why" of everything that happened, I know that I couldn't be involved in a relationship that used S/M in it. As far as why? I don't understand. But, if I was a gambling person, I would say in no uncertain terms that what I experienced as a child had a direct correlation to my not wanting to try "playing" with S/M in a relationships. Now, with that being said, I've noticed quite a few relationships involve some sort of S/M within it. Ultimately, I wanted to see if that would "make or break" a relationship, specifically - if that "hangup" would prevent a Dom/me & sub from developing a relationship. Like I said, this was inspired by a phone convo I had with someone who is active in the scene, and she was telling me about her current sub and his ability to handle S/M sessions with her. When I commented that I couldnt handle something like that, she asked me to provide a little more detail. So I did. When she pointed out that its "not about me, its about Her" that was what prompted me to post. V.
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