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Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 8:28:25 AM

pleasureforHim

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i am still a BDSM virgin, so this is sort of a hypothetical. i have never had anal sex, but i have "cybered" with men who use this scenario"

1st, regular sex, or a bj

2nd, anal sex, which i get all scared about

3rd, regular sex again

4th, i'm to lick his cock clean

Nowhere is there any mention of using a condom. i am 51 years old but have not yet gone through menopause, so i have some (probably teeny-weeeny) chance of pregancy and do not take the Pill. i am obviously as vunerable as other women to any STD going, including HIV.

But what my immediate concern is:

1st, after he has had anal sex, he wants regular sex again; without cleaning his cock; and

2nd after he cums he wants me to lick his cock clean.

To me these practices seem risky as hell. Am i just over-reacting to a cyber that would never happen in real life?

pleasureforHim

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 8:33:14 AM

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You never double dip. If they do it in porn it's because they have, uh, "cleaned" both places extremely well. You really don't want the bacteria in your intestinal/rectal tract going into your vagina. And I'm sure the tast of poo isn't all that great either....bleh.

And condoms are ALWAYS a must.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 9:07:38 AM

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One of my pet peeves is horribly unrealistic cybersex/stories that people believe are realistic.

You -will- get some nasty infections if you have vaginal sex right after anal sex. I wouldn't give someone an unprotected blowjob, including "licking him clean" unless we were body fluid monogamous. I do it with my partner, but there's no problem there.

The way we work post-anal is to have a warm, wet washcloth ready. I wipe him down well and THEN we do oral if he wants it. Doesn't kill the mood and doesn't kill me.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 9:39:54 AM

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quote:

To me these practices seem risky as hell. Am i just over-reacting to a cyber that would never happen in real life?

You have to understand cyber is them telling you their fantasies. If they find someone to live them out with, they will.
If they don't seemed interested in your general health now, then why would they in person when their hormones are raging? After all they've just found the person to live out their fantasies with.

Risky, why yes it is. You just need to choose better.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 10:05:08 AM

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Medicos, help me out..........Trichinosis? (did I even come close to spelling that right?) Is that the most common one?

Ron.........

Cleanliness after anal retentiveness.......
It's not just a good idea........
It's the LAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 10:11:16 AM

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trichinosis
<microbiology> Trichinosis is an intestinal and tissue infection of humans and other mammals caused by the nematode Trichinella spiralis. Infection occurs through the consumption of infected meat (usually domestic pork) that carries the encysted larvae of T. Spiralis.

Common symptoms include: diarrhoea, muscle pains, fever, dehydration and swelling around the eyes. Myocarditis (heart infection), pneumonitis (lung infection) and encephalitis (brain infection) can also occur in advanced cases.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 10:13:12 AM

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Thank all of Y/you so much. And i agree; if the "cyber" is dangerous to me; the actual sex probably would be as well. So from now on, i'm going to require condoms and i am going to drop any man who proposes anything like what i have described.

Y/you guys are great.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 10:31:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

trichinosis
<microbiology> Trichinosis is an intestinal and tissue infection of humans and other mammals caused by the nematode Trichinella spiralis. Infection occurs through the consumption of infected meat (usually domestic pork) that carries the encysted larvae of T. Spiralis.

Common symptoms include: diarrhoea, muscle pains, fever, dehydration and swelling around the eyes. Myocarditis (heart infection), pneumonitis (lung infection) and encephalitis (brain infection) can also occur in advanced cases.

Well you got most of that right other than the encysted larvae part. Bacteria don't have a larval stage, you're thinking of an intestinal worm infection.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 11:08:32 AM

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What is the infection of the vagina that starts with T that comes from dipping your wand into an anus and then vagina............

Thats the T word I am looking for.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 11:45:43 AM

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Trichomoniasis is caused by the single-celled protozoan parasite, Trichomonas vaginalis. The vagina is the most common site of infection in women, and the urethra (urine canal) is the most common site of infection in men.[/size][/size]

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 11:49:00 AM

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You are indeed a font of wisdom, M'Lady.

Thank you,
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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/15/2005 12:15:09 PM

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Well you got most of that right other than the encysted larvae part. Bacteria don't have a larval stage, you're thinking of an intestinal worm infection.

Not a clue I merely looked up the word on a medical site and posted its definition.
If it is wrong...you can argue with the site.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 12:45:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

Not a clue I merely looked up the word on a medical site and posted its definition.
If it is wrong...you can argue with the site.

I will differ; you DO have a clue. When you do not know, you have the sense to look it up. I think that is far from being clue-less. I for one applaud your time and energy in expressing caring enough to find information.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 9:34:47 PM

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quote:

Trichomoniasis is caused by the single-celled protozoan parasite, Trichomonas vaginalis. The vagina is the most common site of infection in women, and the urethra (urine canal) is the most common site of infection in men.[/size][/size]

This is a common STD but it is not caused by vaginal after anal sex.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 10:07:24 PM

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No doctor here (although I like to play one), but the most common result of anal to vaginal intercourse is yeast infection. Hardly life-threatening, but not real pleasant. Depending on what's living in your intestinal tract, you are also at risk of worse bacterial infections as well. By the way, this is just as likely with fingers or sex toys as it is with a penis.

It can be done safely, but he needs to swap condoms between acts.

Not too common, but quite deadly result of any kind of intercourse, sans condom, is AIDs. Regardless of where he wants to put it... make sure he wraps that rascal.

If it's cyber only, I don't think I'd sweat it. Go with the fantasy. Just remember where the line is drawn if things ever move into real life. Remember, in real life, there is no backspace key.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 10:33:16 PM

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Simple hygiene should be a no-brainer.

Not practicing it points to the giver also being no-brainer.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 10:41:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: itzelwing
Remember, in real life, there is no backspace key.

Thats one of the best sentances ive read on this site.

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/16/2005 11:19:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

quote:

ORIGINAL: itzelwing
Remember, in real life, there is no backspace key.

Thats one of the best sentances ive read on this site.

I actually saw a shirt once that said "I wish life had a ctrl+z option"

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/17/2005 6:21:33 AM

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i just wanted to agree that cyber fantasies dont translate very well sometimes.even though i'm sure that licking a cock clean after it being in your rectum would be a true act of submission.hmmm,is the cock still hard or is it soft?i just wanted to get this right in my head....

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RE: Anal Sex followed by Regular F**king - 7/18/2005 11:57:39 AM

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Cyber fantasies annoy the hell out of me. And yes, what everyone said is right, you will get a horrible infection if you have anal followed by regular, unprotected sex. yikes.... I understand that condoms aren't very romantic but in this day and age it is usually necessary when starting out.

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