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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/4/2007 4:38:52 PM

therealboss

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and it also seems the best subs are all in the us,that is why i try not to read profiles too much,oh well,i am still waiting for the best uk sub to contact me now

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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/4/2007 5:07:18 PM

MystressDream

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A lot of this does seem to come down to age. A young beautiful woman signs on and her emails could crash the system. LOL No matter the age of the men searching, she will get some attention.

A mature woman doesn't get that attention. (I am NOT asking for it either! Trolls drive me nuts!)

However, as I have posted in a couple other places on here, I occasionally peruse profiles and will contact submissives because something they have said in their profiles catches my attention. The subs I contact are generally 40 and up. I rarely even get a response from them. No "no thank you", no response at all.

So, that shoe goes on both feet. It's just human nature and the fact that most nowadays don't seem to possess manners and extend common courtesy.

I have found it is much better to meet people real time at the local BDSM functions and clubs. But, I still search for what I haven't been able to find. A male slave with one foot in the real world. lol

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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/5/2007 5:54:44 AM

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i think i make a great sub ...very open minded ...willing to try new things ...very respectfull of women ..love playing ...i personally like the older dom ladys ...i think they are more kinky ...very few hangups ...easy to get along with ..not many no things on their lists that younger ones have ..ok im 50 years old ..sure dont feel or act like it ..and if a dom lady contacted me to play sometime i sure would consider it

yes i do have a mistress already but she does nothing on the weekends which kinda suxs but oh well ..love our times together i must say

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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/5/2007 7:55:37 AM

MystressDream

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Interesting, malloves69..... you state you would make a great sub.... then you say you would consider playing with any FemDom who contacted you.... and you end the post by saying you already have a Mistress, but she isn't available on weekends.

Oh my....... That is just wrong on so many levels it is hard to even address.

I am looking for a slave. Not a casual play partner. I have grown and matured past the casual "play with anyone" stage. Does your Mistress know you are out there looking for women to "fill in your weekend"?

Great sub??? Hmmmmm.... Are you completely new to this?

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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/5/2007 8:59:51 AM

SpielMitMir

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Only once in a blue moon I will message a sub/slave first.
Then I only do it because something about their statement got my attention. My last pet I messaged him. Not the other way around.

Like a lot of people have said. There are so many more of subs then Dom's. Point blank. If I had much more time. I would love to sit down a read profiles and see I can find the pet for me. Until the great amount of time comes my way. I just update my ad from time to time and see what happens.

Sorry boys ... and ladies. But if this is what you want in life. Keep typing.
Or step away from the pc and go out and try your luck out in the world.

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RE: Why does it seem like subs always have to approach ... - 11/5/2007 10:57:05 AM

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To the op. Have you looked in your who is viewing me box???

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